A young woman is wondering if she’s in the wrong for refusing to pay for her Tinder match’s car repair out of her college fund. He suggested she skip a semester to pay him back. She declined, but he accused her of prioritizing money over him. Is she in the wrong? Read on to find out.
Navigating the gray area of dating and finances
Refusing to pay for boyfriend’s car repair causes tension
When he asked for her college fund, things got awkward
College fund held hostage for car repair?
Putting education first: Saying ‘no’ to expensive car repairs.
When money tests love and reveals true colors. ❤️
Feeling guilty for not paying ex’s car repair. AITA?
Making an effort to fix things, but is it enough?
When he asked her to skip a semester for his car repair
A Tinder date’s request for financial help with car repairs quickly turned into a request to skip college for a semester. The woman refused, but now the man is accusing her of choosing money over him. Read on to see if you think she’s the A-hole.
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Commenters urge OP to run from Tinder scammer demanding money.
Commenter advises to run away from deadbeat seeking money.
Dump his a** and go to college
Don’t fall for his tricks! He’s likely scamming other chicks
Beware of love scammers! NTA, cut all contact.
Don’t sacrifice your education for a guy. Stay single, girl!
NTA. Beware of scammers like him. Block him and stay safe!
Avoid the scam: NTA, don’t give him any money!
Protect your education and run from this selfish man.
Supporting comment on not giving money to unreliable partner.
Don’t let anyone guilt or trick you into sacrificing education funds #NTA
Don’t fall for it! Report the scam and keep your money
Dump the golddigger and focus on your education
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You dodged a bullet there NTA for sure!
No ATM in a relationship! NTA, time to move on!
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NTA. Refusing to pay for car repair from college fund
Don’t fall for the guilt trip, NTA ♀️
Walk away now NTA
Don’t let him derail your education for his car
Don’t let him guilt you into paying for his car Listen to the red flags and run ♀️
Don’t let him use you as a human ATM ♀️
Choosing money over a hustler ex was the right move
Girl power! Stand up for yourself and don’t settle.
Dump him and run! NTA for not paying.
Sassy comment shuts down ex: Throw him in the tinder trash ♀️
Avoiding scammers on Tinder – worst case scenario. NTA.
Don’t fall for it! Protect your college fund
NTA for refusing to pay for cousin’s car repair
Protect yourself from Tinder swindlers! NTA for refusing payment.
Empowering response to a potential red flag in dating
Big red flag! NTA, run away and save your college fund.
Dump him! You deserve better than an exploitative partner.
Don’t lend money to this guy – you may never see him again
Don’t let him use you, you’re not the a-hole.
Calling out a manipulator on Tinder. NTA wins.
Dump him! Education > a car repair any day.
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Don’t let anyone manipulate your finances! #NTA
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Don’t let him drain your college fund! Run, OP, run!
Don’t sacrifice your education for his car repair NTA
Escape from the guy, NTA.
Don’t let him take advantage of your college fund!
Feeling like running away? See what others suggest
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Red flag! Don’t let him manipulate you with guilt and fear
Redditors advise to block the guy’s number and move on
Money over love? NTA and red flag
Don’t fall for manipulation or con, keep your college fund!
Don’t be his cashpoint! NTA, run away and never look back
Don’t let him use you! Stand your ground
Prioritizing education over a car repair – NTA wins
Commenter advises to run from partner, questioning their origin.
Time to hit the brakes NTA takes the wheel.
Support for not being the a**hole and humorous dating advice.
He dodged a bullet NTA for sure!
Don’t let him manipulate you into giving up your college fund
Dump the hobosexual! ♀️ NTA for sure.
Don’t pay for his car repair! You deserve better
