She Drank With Him All Night & Let Him Kiss Her – Now It’s “Assault”?

Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy story that’s sure to get your blood boiling! My friend Carlos recently shared a tale of a night out gone wrong, and let’s just say, it’s a doozy! From free drinks to false accusations, this story has more twists and turns than a rollercoaster! But here’s the thing, I may have ruffled some feathers with my reaction to it all. So, grab your popcorn and get ready to dive into this messy situation! ️

A Night Out Gone Wrong?

Drinks, Flirting, and a Kiss

The Next Day: Accusations Fly!

Carlos Takes Matters Into His Own Hands

Wait a Minute… Something Doesn’t Add Up!

The Truth Comes Out: Free Drinks!

Red Flags Everywhere!

Carlos Gets Defensive

‍♀️ Time to Cut Ties ‍♂️

Drinking Responsibly 101

Know Your Limits, Get Home Safe

❓ Mixed Signals, Miscommunication? ‍♀️

Common Sense or Being an A-hole?

The Alleged Assault: Making Out at the Bar

Angry Hate and Threats: Not Cool, People! ‍♀️

️ Let’s Have an Intelligent Conversation

‍♀️ A Survivor’s Perspective

False Accusations: Not Okay!

Free Drinks, False Accusations, and a Friendship Fallout!

Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got ourselves a real doozy of a story here! A night of free drinks and flirting turns into a full-blown accusation of sexual assault the next day! But wait, there’s more! Turns out, the alleged victim has a boyfriend and may have just been using the guy for free drinks! Talk about a plot twist! Our storyteller here called out her friend Carlos on his questionable actions, and now their friendship is on the rocks! But the real question is, was she right to do so, or is she just being an a-hole? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy tale!

False accusations of assault to cover up cheating?

Engaging in public doesn’t equal consent. NTA evaluation stands.

Regret or assault? The line is blurred in cheating accusations

Request for more info on consent in the situation.

Debating the believability of sexual assault allegations.

Importance of consent and withdrawal, unclear details of alleged assault.

Girl falsely claims assault after kissing guy for free drinks

Controversial comment defending OP and victim blaming with sarcasm.

Accepting drinks and talking all night is not consent.

Consent is murky when both parties are drunk. Stay out.

NTA stands up for man accused of assault. Victim-blaming culture continues.

Girl hooks up with regular, NTA says it was deliberate

NTA defends logical approach to 21st-century moral dilemma.

Debating if it’s assault or a manipulative girl and white knight guy

Consent cannot be revoked retroactively, NTA comment explains.

Accusations of assault after taking advantage of intoxicated man

Friend lacks perspective, OP is NTA for questioning girl’s story.

Debate on consent and assault in a bar, regret vs SA.

Potential victim or not, she was wrong for cheating. NTA.

Going out, getting drunk, and kissing someone is okay. Crying sexual assault is not.

Personal responsibility and false accusations of assault discussed. NTA.

A cautionary tale about pseudo-adults and their mob mentality

Flirting for drinks ≠ assault. Diluting actual assault is wrong. NTA.

Accusations without merit: OP’s friend is an idiot ‍♂️

Clarification needed on what constitutes assault in this situation

Free drinks, flirting, and kisses…but still sexual assault?

Alcohol doesn’t excuse cheating, but doesn’t make it assault either

She consented to everything and cried foul the next day

Female commenter calls out dangerous behavior in dating culture.

Advocating for communication to avoid physical threats in relationships

Kissing in public ≠ sexual assault. Regret ≠ assault.

Defends the woman’s right to drink with strangers, but calls out the misuse of the term ‘sexual assault’. Agrees with NTA judgement.

Defending false accusations of assault – not the a**hole ‍♂️

Sarcastic comment about blaming the victim.

Alcohol doesn’t change who you are, just lowers inhibitions.

Defending assault allegations with victim blaming and slurs.

NTA commenter questions assault claim, suggests more context may exist.

Loose definition of sexual assault causing unnecessary trauma and trouble.

NTA OP faced false SA allegation, commenter calls for justice

Defending accused of assault leads to unexpected twist. NTA.

Unclear circumstances, speculation, and frustration with false accusations.

Man offers drinks, accused of assault. Commenter blames the woman.

Challenging the victim mentality and discussing false accusations.

Consent cannot be retroactively revoked. NTA.

Cheating vs. assault? NTA calls out toxic behavior and victim-blaming.

NTA calls girl a cheater and questions drunk consent laws.

Calling out fake sexual assault and cheaters, NTA wins!

NTA calls out potential false assault allegation for cheating scandal.

Consent is a two-way street, not assault. NTA

Blaming the victim and excusing assault? Not cool

Insensitive comment on women’s behavior and false victimhood.

Drinking and kissing does not equal assault. NTA comment.

Insensitive comment and threatening behavior called out.

Did she really get assaulted or just cheating on her boyfriend?

Consensual bar make-out: not assault, friend needs respect for women.

NTA – Commenter argues against ‘overly woke’ view on Reddit.

People are divided on the sexual assault allegations, but NTA.

Double standards exposed? Cheating vs assault.

Woman accuses man of assault after cheating on her partner. NTA.

Setting clear boundaries when drinking to avoid unwanted advances.

False assault accusations ruin credibility of real victims.

Valid point on how false accusations trivialize sexual assault.

Avoid drama, say f*** it and let them learn.

Consent and tampering with drinks determine if it’s assault

Accusations of cheating in comment section

Carlos jumps to violence without hearing full story.

Standing up for a friend who’s being called ridiculous

Calling out a manipulative cheater who falsely accused sexual assault

Don’t blame the victim for the perpetrator’s ego bruise.

Legal implications of Carlos’ violent threats in assault case.

The struggle of dating in the era of consent forms.