Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a doozy of a story for you today. Meet our leading lady, a 29-year-old woman who’s been crystal clear about her stance on kids from day one: absolutely not, no way, no how! ♀️ She thought she’d found her perfect match in her fiancé, but boy, was she in for a surprise. Grab your popcorn and get ready for a wild ride filled with shocking revelations, painful pasts, and a whole lot of drama!
Childfree From the Start
Meeting My Fiancé
He Put a Ring On It
Fiancé’s Surprising Response
The Shocking Revelation
He Thought I’d Change My Mind
My Painful Past
The Toll on My Mental Health
Peace of Mind At Last
Why I Never Told Him
He Called Me an A-hole
Sad But Resolute
️ Opinions from Others
♀️ No Kids, No Way, No How
Not Even Babysitting!
It Was Always Clear
Fiancé’s Shocking Baby Bombshell!
Well, well, well… looks like our leading lady is in quite the pickle! She thought she’d found her happily ever after with a man who shared her childfree dreams, but it turns out he was hoping she’d change her mind all along! To make matters worse, she’s been keeping a secret of her own: she’s already been sterilized due to a traumatic past experience. Now, the truth is out, and her fiancé is NOT happy. He’s even calling her an a-hole for not telling him sooner! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy drama…
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Communication is key in relationships. Don’t expect to change someone’s views.
Woman is NTA for being sterilized and not wanting kids. Fiancé is TA for deceiving her.
Unwanted pregnancy, unwanted AH. Consent is crucial
No kids, no negotiation. You’re not guilty. Move on
Choosing sterilization over ambiguity and being honest. NTA
Being upfront about not wanting kids is important. NTA
Partner is TA for not disclosing you couldn’t have kids
NTA. Clear communication is key. He lied, goals don’t align
She stood her ground and he was deceitful. NTA
Empathetic comment shows support for woman’s decision
Setting boundaries is important. Some people don’t respect them ♂️
“I’m not sure whether or not I want you to get pregnant for me.” Lmao, the audacity.
Partner wants kids, but she can’t and never told him. NTA.
Double standards much?
Partner lied and manipulated, not about lack of kids. NTA
Dump the mamma’s boy who tricked you into his bed ♀️
Heartbreaking experience of being lied to despite being honest.
Don’t keep secrets from your partner. You’re NTA.
Curiosity killed the cat, but not his ignorance
Partner lied about wanting kids, commenter not at fault.
Not the a-hole. What was his plan if you didn’t change your mind?
Dump the disrespectful liar ♀️
Fiancé’s big plan backfired, he’s not to be trusted. NTA
Don’t stay in a relationship hoping to change someone. NTA.
Be honest about not being able to have kids.
Empathetic comment on society’s treatment of women as incubators. ♀️
Communication is key in discussions about birth control
Dodged a bullet . NTA for not wanting kids. Disrespectful ex.
Partner lied about wanting kids, NTA for getting sterilized. ♀️
NTA, he lied about wanting kids and tried to trap you ♀️
Why didn’t she tell her husband she was sterilized?
Clear communication is key
User refuses to babysit and supports OP in dodging a bullet
Woman discovers fiance lied, but she’s NTA for being sterilized.
Dodged a bullet , NTA for not wanting kids.
Be honest about wanting children, don’t manipulate. NTA
NTA defends against partner’s dishonesty and coercion
NTA. He lied and manipulated you. You deserve better.
Partner wants kids, she can’t. Commenter defends her. ♀️
Honesty is key. NTA for being clear about not wanting kids
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Fiancé kept secret about kids, NTAH for being honest.
Respecting partner’s wishes is crucial. Honesty is key
Honesty is key in relationships, even when it’s uncomfortable.
Being child-free is a hot trend, but communication is key.
NTA. Commenter sympathizes with the woman and calls out the man.
Be direct about not wanting kids ♀️
Clear communication is key. NTA for setting boundaries
Being sterilized doesn’t matter. Partner lied, they’re the AH.
Ex is TA for lying about wanting children and trying to force OP.
Partner disregarded her wishes on having kids. NTA
Crystal clear about no kids. He’s the a**hole for pressuring. NTA
Partner lied about wanting kids, disrespected choices. NTA.
End it now to avoid resentment and pressure.
NTA stands up for herself against manipulative partner
Harsh advice? Break up and move on, according to commenter.
NTA, but he’s the liar for not being upfront about kids ♀️
Partner disregarded her choice, now she can’t have kids ♀️
Being upfront about infertility in a relationship is important ❤️
Concerned commenter questions lack of communication in birth control use.
Partner lied about wanting kids, now mad she can’t have them. NTA
Having kids is a dealbreaker ♀️. NTA, time to move on
Partner’s selfishness in childbearing decision leads to heartbreak
Respect for childfree people. Honesty and happiness are crucial.
Condoms or raw dogging? NTA, but why no discussion?
Stand your ground, dump him. You deserve better.
Respectful NTA comment supports woman’s right to choose ✔
Dodged a bullet with this NTA. Future partners: be warned
ESH for not communicating about having kids and birth control ♀️
Being honest about not wanting or being able to have kids
Partner proposed despite knowing no kids, got angry at *her*.
Sharing health information in a relationship: NTA wins
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NTA for being honest, he wasted her time and lied.
Partner lied for years about wanting kids, NTA for being upfront. ♀️
Partner’s lack of honesty before wedding leads to NTA verdict.
NTA. Partner hoped for a change of mind. Dump him. ♀️
Sharing the truth about fertility is important, but not mandatory ♀️
Being honest upfront is key. Don’t let anyone manipulate you. ✌
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Medical history important for emergency situations. 99% NTA. ❤
Be upfront about not wanting kids to filter out douchebags!
Partner lied about wanting kids, NTA for being sterilized.
Be cautious, OP. Some partners lie about being child-free. NTA.
Run, OP! He’s not trustworthy and tried to trap you
Partner blaming woman for not disclosing infertility. NTA, he is.
Marriage dealbreaker and communication breakdown
