A woman has purchased an apartment with her own money, but her boyfriend demands ownership. When she refuses, he brings up the issue in front of his family , causing a heated argument. The woman snaps and suggests her boyfriend find a job and contribute financially. His family is shocked, and accusations of financial abuse are hinted at. What will happen next? Read on to find out.
Her income caused tension in relationship, but boyfriend won’t communicate.

Navigating household chores with a picky and cautious partner

Independent woman buying her own apartment without her boyfriend’s help

Boyfriend demands ownership of apartment, but she stands her ground

Boyfriend upset over apartment, claims power imbalance and contribution issues

Girlfriend confronts boyfriend about lack of contribution, tensions rise

Boyfriend’s mom shames her for buying apartment, demands tall about it

Understanding the boyfriend’s perspective with his disability.

Buying an apartment caused a huge power imbalance in relationship
Buying an apartment is a big step in any person’s life especially if it’s their first one. However, for this woman, buying an apartment caused a huge power imbalance in her relationship with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend got agitated when he found out that she was buying an apartment without him, and he asked her to either put his name on the title or wait until they get married, so it becomes a ‘shared marital asset.’ The woman refused and this led to a huge argument between the couple. The boyfriend’s family also got involved, and things took an unexpected turn. The woman snapped and told her boyfriend that he contributes nothing to the relationship because he literally has no job or income. This caused the boyfriend to walk away and demand another talk about the apartment. The situation is complicated by the fact that the boyfriend has a disability that limits his job opportunities. What will happen next in this relationship? We’ll find out in the comments and reactions below.
NTA for not putting boyfriend’s name on the title. He seems like a leech and wants to make sure he gets a payoff if you break up. Take legal advice and protect your asset.

Boyfriend shows red flags, commenters advise to keep apartment and lose him

Unemployed boyfriend expects half of apartment, contributes nothing financially. NTA.

Boyfriend doesn’t work or help, but wants legal stake?

Don’t let him suck the life out of you. Buy that apartment!

Don’t let him play you like a fiddle . NTA. ♀️

Boyfriend’s manipulative behavior exposed. NTA.

NTA for wanting to buy the apartment and move in alone.

Commenter urges successful woman not to settle for a leech.

Don’t fall for his manipulation. Buy your place and move on

Break up with him! NTA but YTA for still being with him.

Boyfriend wants shared ownership of her apartment, not the a-hole.

Dump him! You deserve better than a bludger.

Don’t sign over half of a huge lifetime asset!

Boyfriend wants equal ownership without equal contribution.

Sassy response to a boyfriend who can’t handle independence. ♀️

Break up with him and enjoy your achievements!
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Buy your apartment and keep it as your asset

Red flag alert! Boyfriend doesn’t cook or clean, and manipulative.

You deserve someone who loves you, not a freeloader ♀️

Boyfriend wants to be on deed without contributing? Run girl, run!

Don’t let him guilt trip you! NTA

Dump the freeloading boyfriend and secure your investment ASAP!

NTA, dump him!

Dump the freeloader You deserve better #NTA

NTA for standing up to weaponized incompetence. Break up

Don’t wait for marriage to realize he’s not worth it

OP’s boyfriend is taking advantage of her.

Don’t be his mommy forever. He’s manipulating you. #NTA

Time to ditch the baggage and buy the apartment ♀️

Boyfriend sees her as a sugar momma, accuses her of financial abuse

Don’t let him manipulate you You made the right call

Stand up for yourself! You deserve equal contribution.

Red flags everywhere! NTA for buying the apartment in your name.

Don’t let him take over what you’ve saved

Dump him! You deserve better than a lazy, entitled boyfriend.
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Red flag alert: Is the boyfriend emotionally manipulating her?

Dump the insecure bf and keep the apartment

Dump the dead weight ️. You deserve better .

Boyfriend needs to grow up NTA for getting apartment

Partner upset at property purchase? Support isn’t just financial

Break free from his control. NTA but deeper issues present.

Dump him NTA, you deserve better

OP’s boyfriend is financially manipulative.

You go girl! Don’t let anyone play you.

Partner’s refusal to cook reveals his unwillingness to be supportive

Dump the jerk! You deserve better

Dump the sensitive soldier and his mommy. NTA

Dump his a** , he’s a scam and a fraud

Commenter wonders why women stay with leeching boyfriends

Is he a partner or a liability?

Confrontation backfires as family and truth side with apartment buyer.

Don’t fall for his ruse, he’s angling for your asset

Commenter advises to run and deems OP not the a**hole.

Commenter questions disabled boyfriend’s job search and limitations

Think twice before committing

Choosing between love and independence

Congratulations on the new apartment! Dump the abusive boyfriend

Is he a freeloader? Commenter questions boyfriend’s contributions

Beware of weaponized incompetence and entitlement in relationships

Boyfriend upset over power imbalance, but won’t contribute. NTA.

Dump the mooch? YTA according to this comment.
