Picture this: you’re home alone, and a girl comes knocking on your door, claiming to be your new roommate’s girlfriend. You’ve never met her before, and you’re the only one home. What would you do? One guy found himself in this exact situation and chose not to let her in. Now, he’s wondering if he was in the wrong. Read on to find out how this tense encounter unfolded and whether our cautious hero was justified in his actions.
Unexpected Visitor

The Dilemma

Prove It!

Phone Hunt ️♂️

No Answer

Alternative Solutions ❓

Phone Number Request

Final Decision

Missed Call and Texts

Roommate’s Reaction

Was He Just Being Cautious or Overly Paranoid? ♂️
So, our cautious hero went to great lengths to verify the girl’s identity, but ultimately chose not to let her in. When he finally found his phone, he discovered that his roommate had indeed given the okay for her to enter. His roommate understood his caution, but felt that he should have helped her out. Now, the question remains: was our hero justified in his actions, or did he take his caution too far? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Roommate’s caution or over the top? Commenters are divided.
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Roommate’s overreaction causes unnecessary trouble for girlfriend

Commenter calls OP an a**hole for not finding phone
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Roommate is called out for denying girlfriend entry. YTA.

Roommate’s girlfriend denied entry, commenter calls OP YTA

Respectful communication and boundaries are key to happy roommates

Roommate called out for being unreasonable and rigid.

Roommate’s girlfriend denied entry due to miscommunication

Roommate’s caution turns into distrust, causing unnecessary ordeal. YTA.

Roommate’s caution questioned, but girlfriend denied entry. NAH.

YTA for denying her entry repeatedly despite her reasonable requests

Roommate’s girlfriend denied entry over lost phone

Commenter calls out OP for going overboard with security

Roommate’s girlfriend denied entry due to miscommunication. NTA turned NAH.

Trust issues in the digital age. NAH, but find your phone!

Commenter calls out OP for being too strict with safety

Is it paranoia or reasonable caution?

Commenter calls out OP as TA. Awkward silence ensues.
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Ouch! A harsh YTA comment with no replies.
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Being cautious doesn’t make you paranoid , it’s called being smart
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Roommate’s girlfriend denied entry: YTA for not trusting her.

Planning ahead is key – Roommate’s girlfriend denied entry

Commenter calls out OP for being difficult and overreacting

Safety first! Commenter shares personal story to justify NTA decision.

Roommate’s girlfriend denied entry, commenter calls OP ‘YTA’

Being cautious pays off. Could’ve been a vengeful ex

Communication is key , even with significant others. NAH.

Commenter shares personal experience with denying entry, receives rebuttal.
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Securing home is important, but communication is key. NAH handled well.

Roommate’s girlfriend denied entry: NAH, it’s their home too

Being cautious vs. being accommodating: navigating a tricky situation

Roommate accused of being an a**hole for denying entry

Respectful caution shown by commenter in roommate’s girlfriend incident.

Commenter criticizes lack of effort in finding phone

No drama here, just a civil situation.

Better safe than sorry

Respectful privacy concerns, lost phone caused minor inconvenience. NAH

Gender bias in roommate’s girlfriend denial? NAH verdict explained.

Roommate’s girlfriend denied entry: safety first or overreacting?

Protecting your privacy: why OP was right to deny entry

Being cautious or overreacting?

Honesty wins: NAH. But seriously, where is your phone?

Commenter thinks OP is the a**hole

Commenter calls out OP’s behavior as cringe and awkward

Roommate’s girlfriend denied entry over lost phone ♂️

Miscommunication leads to cautious roommate: NAH

Being a bomb-ass roommate means setting boundaries
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Roommate’s girlfriend denied entry. NTA for setting boundaries

Being respectful towards roommates is important

NAH – Miscommunication resolved, offer explanation to mend fences

Commenter calls out OP for being inconsiderate and irresponsible

Overzealous roommate denied entry to girlfriend, owes apology

Roommate’s girlfriend denied entry, YTA comment calls out extreme behavior

Roommate called YTA for not finding phone, but NTA overall

Stranger danger! NTA prioritizes safety over hospitality

Commenter calls out OP for being overly cautious.

Don’t be an a**hole, keep track of your phone

Being overly cautious or justified? NAH, but a bit paranoid

Safety first! Commenter defends not letting strangers in.

Power move? YTA for denying roommate’s girlfriend entry.

Commenter thinks OP is an a**hole for denying entry ♂️

Accused of being like Sheldon Cooper for denying entry.

Safety first! Roommate’s decision to deny entry was responsible
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