Living with roommates can be a rollercoaster of emotions, especially when their quirks start affecting your daily life. One man found himself in a tricky situation when his female roommate’s bathroom anxiety began to take a toll on their utility bills and his hot showers. He’s now left wondering if it’s time to address the issue or let it slide. Let’s dive into this bathroom drama!
The Roommate Situation

A Wonderful Change

Budgeting During Quarantine

Financial Differences

The Job Hunt Struggle

Old-Fashioned Beliefs

Bathroom Anxiety

No Judgments Here

The Unusual Routine

Drawing Attention

The Costly Consequence

A Sensitive Subject

To Address or Not to Address?

A Delicate Dilemma: Time to Speak Up?
Our protagonist finds himself in a delicate situation as his roommate’s bathroom anxiety leads to increased utility bills and icy showers. Her routine of running the shower and blasting music for nearly half an hour has left him wondering if it’s time to address the issue or let it slide. Despite a previous attempt to discuss the matter, she shut it down hard, leaving him unsure of how to proceed. Let’s see what the internet thinks about this bathroom conundrum…
Roommate’s bathroom anxiety leads to euphemisms and water conservation tips.
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Roommate’s bathroom anxiety sparks heated debate over shower usage

Compromise with ‘I feel’ statements and make her pay water bill

Suggest compromise for roommate’s bathroom anxiety without being rude

Buy her some headphones. NTA suggests roommate needs help.

Water waste concerns raised in response to bathroom anxiety.

The struggle of bathroom anxiety and ways to help.

Suggest an app to help with bathroom anxiety and save water

Running cold water to mask bathroom sounds is wasteful and inexcusable

Fair compromise suggested for roommate’s bathroom anxiety.

NAH. Running water anxiety is a sensitive issue, approach carefully.

Bathroom anxiety can be a serious problem, be empathetic

Shower anxiety or quirky bathroom habits? You decide!

Breaking the stigma: Roommate’s bathroom anxiety causing water bill concerns.

Encourage roommate to be comfortable with poop , not psychiatrist.

Solving bathroom anxiety with white noise and cold water

Using hot water for anxiety not ok. Suggest white noise machine.

Living with bathroom anxiety: A serious issue or costly quirk?
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Roommate with bathroom anxiety causing high water bills. NTA suggests solutions.

Suggests a diplomatic approach to roommate’s excessive hot water usage.
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Roommate’s bathroom anxiety: who should pay the water bill?

Toilet paper lifehack and fiber intake advice for splash anxiety.

Encouraging roommate to be comfortable with body and stop wasting water

Suggesting a book for roommate’s bathroom anxiety , with tactful advice.

Shame and guilt won’t solve this. NTA, approach with care.

Taking cold showers to accommodate roommate’s bathroom anxiety. YWNBTA.
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Roommate’s bathroom anxiety: NTA suggests therapy for unhealthy behavior.

Creative solution to a roommate’s bathroom anxiety

Bathroom anxiety: flushing or poop sound? More info needed

A commenter questions the logic of running hot water

Suggests exposure therapy via Taco Bell for roommate’s bathroom anxiety.

Keeping a radio in the bathroom for consistency

Off-topic comment about finger etiquette at tea parties.

Suggests a considerate approach to roommate’s bathroom anxiety

Suggesting a well-timed scream to cover bathroom noises

Gentle approach to roommate’s bathroom anxiety saves bills and water

The dangers of untreated bathroom anxiety

Possible learned behaviors from abuse affecting roommate’s bathroom habits. ♀️
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Respect her privacy, but don’t foot her utility bills

Roommate’s bathroom habits causing hot water shortage. NTA suggests solution.

Suggest gentle solutions in writing to avoid awkward confrontation.

Roommate’s bathroom habits spark awkward confrontation.

Roommate’s shower quirk raises eyebrows, but OP not at fault

Hot water for noise? NTA wonders if roommate’s okay.

Bold suggestion to combat roommate’s bathroom anxiety sparks amusement.

Roommate’s bathroom anxiety is understandable. Suggest solutions with empathy.

Roommate’s bathroom routine wastes water and therapy could help her.

Boundaries and solutions suggested for roommate’s bathroom anxiety.

Breaking the stigma around bathroom anxiety with empathy and communication.

Respectful advice for a roommate with excessive showering habits.

Music or cold water could solve bathroom anxiety, but wastefulness remains.

Suggests a solution to roommate’s bathroom anxiety with a hint of sarcasm.

Bathroom anxiety is real, but running the shower for half an hour is wasteful. NTA suggests a white noise machine app.

Tips for dealing with a roommate’s bathroom anxiety

Saving water or saving money? NTA’s perspective on bathroom anxiety

Suggest a noise machine or scented candle to ease anxiety

Cold showers for bathroom anxiety? Not a solution.

Simple solutions for a hot water and noise problem. NTA.

Being considerate of roommate’s anxiety about bathroom, but approach carefully.

Confusion over roommate’s bathroom habits sparks bewilderment and concern.

Turning on cold water may help roommate with bathroom anxiety

Overcoming bathroom anxiety: a personal struggle with a hopeful outcome

Roommate’s hot water anxiety causing costly waste. NTA solution suggested.
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Humorous reply to bathroom anxiety comment.
