Being in a relationship can sometimes be a lot of work when you have to keep both people happy and satisfied. Sometimes, women go above and beyond to keep their partner happy, and feel like what they do just isn’t good enough. Some guys just want more from a woman —or, so women think. Turns out, some women feel they know exactly what to do to keep their man happy.
Recently, women on TikTok have been sharing advice on how to “keep men happy.”
From thoughtful gifts to random acts of love and service, many people online have been sharing ideas on how to keep their partners satisfied. Seeing as TikTok teaches us life hacks nearly every day, relationship advice isn’t too far off for us.
TikTok user @girlygirluk shared some advice on “how to please a man.”
In her video, which has been viewed over a million times, shares that a man “isn’t really hard to please.” In fact, she breaks it down and makes it rather easy to follow just how to please a man and keep him happy.
The TikTok user breaks it down rather easily.
She says that you just have to:
“Feed him Kiss him Wear dresses Get flirty Be his best friend Make home a paradise and Shower compliments.”
While that sounds pretty simple, it seems like a pretty lengthy list. It also sounds like an unequal partnership, too.
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Being in a loving and healthy relationship means you do have to do things for your partner.
While being in a good and healthy relationship means that you love and support your partner, it definitely does not mean that you have to become your partner’s maid or mother. Clearly, this TikTok user got some serious backlash in the comment section of her video.
One person pointed out the obvious.
A TikTok user said that this video maker left a “few things out.” Like, “change him, burp him, read him a bed time story.” Why? Because this girl seems to be babying this man like he is her son, rather than her partner in an equal relationship.
Another stated that it sounds like this girl is in 1950.
Other commenters said it sounds like this TikTok user is in the early 1900s. Living in the past sure won’t get anyone to keep their man happy and, with most of us working and having our own jobs, it’s hard to really do all this “extra” too.
People said they “felt bad” and “were sorry.”
Other people apologized to the woman for thinking she “has to be a man’s maid” in order to keep him happy. Many said that it wasn’t “what you do” that should matter but instead it should be about who you are and how you are together.
One user said that her husband “definitely doesn’t require this.”
One person said that she was happy to report to everyone online that her husband does not want this nor requires it. Therefore, it’s a safe bet that most men probably won’t need all of this extra work to be happy.
And, finally, one guy said what every guy is thinking.
One “pro-tip” from a male user was that it isn’t about what you do , but instead, it was about your personality and who you are as a person. Then, “everything else will happen naturally.”
We love that, so much!
