Picture this: you’re happily dating your significant other and your mom suddenly brings up the topic of marriage . But wait, there’s a twist! She tells you not to expect any financial help for your wedding because they’re “too old.” Fast forward a few months, and you find out your twin brother is getting married, and your parents are paying for half of his big day! Talk about a double standard, right? Well, that’s exactly what happened to our protagonist, leaving her feeling upset and confused. Let’s dive into this family drama and see if she’s justified in her feelings!
Mom’s Unexpected Wedding Talk
The Big Question
Wedding Funds? Nope!
♀️ Our Wedding Plans
No Eloping Allowed
️ Setting Boundaries
Money Matters
Tiny Wedding, Big Price
Brother’s Big News
️♀️ Getting the Scoop
The Bombshell
Confronting Mom
Upset and Confused
No Financial Support
Double Standards and Wedding Woes
So, our protagonist’s mom insists on a nice wedding for her daughter, but with a catch – no financial help! ♀️ Yet, when her twin brother gets engaged, mom and dad are more than happy to foot half the bill for his big day. Talk about unfair! Our protagonist is left feeling hurt and questioning her mother’s motives. Is it really about age, or is there something more going on? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation and whether our protagonist is justified in her feelings of frustration and confusion.
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