Sometimes a single comment can ruin an entire night. A nurse, who had just lost one of her patients, went out to celebrate her boyfriend’s promotion with their mutual friends. However, things turned sour when her boyfriend commented insensitively about her patient. She was hurt and embarrassed, so she decided to leave. Her boyfriend accused her of ruining his big night and called her selfish. Ultimately, she kicked him out of her house and blocked his number. Was she overreacting, or was her reaction justified? Read on to find out what others think and share your opinion.
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Nurse walks out of celebratory dinner after boyfriend belittles her patient’s death
A nurse lost a patient and was devastated but still agreed to go out for a celebratory dinner with her boyfriend and friends. However, her boyfriend made a callous remark about her patient’s death in front of everyone, which made her furious and embarrassed. She left the dinner, later packed her boyfriend’s stuff, and changed the locks, leading to a big fight. Was she overreacting, or did her boyfriend cross a line? Read on for the reactions and opinions of internet strangers who have shown her more compassion and empathy than her partner.
NTA. Commenter’s boyfriend belittles her patient’s death. Commenters and replies show support for her and condemn his behavior as callous and selfish. Dodged a bullet.

Lack of empathy is a serious red flag. Good for you for maintaining your personal ethics and boundaries.

OP is praised for standing up for herself and being a role model. Ex-boyfriend’s lack of empathy and blaming her shows that the trash took itself out.

Nurse’s unsupportive boyfriend expects her to pay for dinner

Empathy is a must-have trait for partners. Good riddance, Kyle! ❤️
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Nurse stands up to boyfriend’s lack of compassion.

Red flags all over the place Run away from him

Commenters share their thoughts on digital payments and support OP’s decision

Commenter suggests dumping boyfriend, points out red flags

Supportive comments from fellow nurses and condolences for a lost baby.

Heartwarming comment from a grateful mother, NTA for nurse.

Boyfriend’s lack of empathy ruins celebratory dinner for nurse.

Boyfriend belittles patient’s death, NTA walks out of dinner

Supportive comment section with no shortage of high-fives

Empathy wins. NTA for leaving the dinner.

Celebrating nurses who know their worth! ❤️

Boyfriend’s true intentions revealed, NTA made the right call

Red flag spotted! NTA for ending toxic relationship.

NTA. Immature boyfriend belittles nurse’s patient loss at dinner ♂️

Boyfriend belittles her job and patient’s death, NTA for leaving

Stand up for yourself and your patients, not toxic partners.

Boyfriend prioritizes questions from friends over grieving girlfriend’s needs

Commenter calls out boyfriend’s ulterior motives, receives support.

Lack of empathy in partners is a red flag

Medical professionals share understanding of unexpected shifts and support needed.

NTA. Boyfriend belittles patient death, friends made it worse.

Block, block, block! You dodged a bullet ♀️

Losing a patient is hard enough, paying for everyone’s meal? NTA

Supportive commenters agree NTA, boyfriend belittles nurse’s patient’s death

Deserves better than a man-child who can’t pay for dinner

A nurse’s courage is unmatched, but her boyfriend’s true colors show

Insensitive boyfriend guilt-trips nurse to dinner and belittles patient’s death

NTA. Dump the boyfriend and find better friends.

Bad boyfriend lacks empathy. Nursing is essential and meaningful work.

Nurse walks out of dinner after boyfriend belittles her patient’s death

Heartbreaking loss, but graceful response. #NTA
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Developing “thick skin” after losing patients is crucial in healthcare

Supportive commenters agree: NTA, dump the a**hole boyfriend

Dumped the boyfriend for belittling her patient’s death. NTA

Dump the ex, keep saving lives

Glad she got rid of him!

Self-centered boyfriend belittles nurse’s patient’s death. ♂️

Nurse’s boyfriend belittles patient’s death, gets embarrassed when asked to pay
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Supportive commenters rally around nurse who stood up to AH

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Tiktok user advises on toxic boyfriend and friend behavior

Commenter sympathizes with nurse, questions common courtesy of bringing wallet.

Empowering response to nurse who stood up against abuse

Dump him! Your job and patients come first. ⚕️
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Believe him when he shows you who he is ♀️

Dump the a**hole, you deserve someone who values your work ❤️

Empathy is key in caregiving. NTA for walking out.

NTA. Dump him. You deserve a partner who values your work.

Validating response to nurse’s decision to leave toxic relationship.

Find someone who understands the emotional toll of your job

Clear and concise. You’re not the a**hole
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Last Updated on April 9, 2023 by Alfe Mercado