Nurse Forbids Husband From Bedroom After Disappointing Weekend

A nurse who works 50 hours a week in the pediatric ICU finally had a day off and planned to spend it with her husband. However, he chose to spend the day with his friend instead. She ends up walking in the rain to go grocery shopping and gets locked out of her house. Her husband doesn’t come to help her until 45 minutes later. She finally decides to bar him from the bedroom for the night. Is she the a**hole? Read on to find out what Reddit users had to say about this situation.

Pediatric ICU nurse shares her hectic work schedule ‍⚕️

A nurse’s struggle to balance work and home responsibilities

Lazy husband spends most of his time gaming

Following Covid rules, but what led to the bedroom ban?

Weekend disappointment leads to bedroom banishment for husband

Cancelled plans lead to marital quarrel

Wife left alone on weekend, husband goes out with friend

Husband in the doghouse for ditching animal sanctuary

Lazy husband prioritizes video games over quality time with wife

Dedicated nurse sacrifices personal life to help friend ❤️

Dedicated spouse walks through rain for groceries despite medical issues ️

Locked out and left waiting, husband faces bedroom ban

Wife frustrated as husband fails to keep up with plans ☔

When your husband is on punishment

Husband’s suspicious whereabouts cause tension in marriage

Upset nurse bans husband from bedroom after disappointing weekend

Wife stands up for herself after disappointing weekend with husband

Wife bans husband from bedroom, AITA or overreacting?

What caused the sudden change in intimacy?

Wife suspects husband, but will talk it out later

Compassionate nurse explains why she cries for her patients ❤️

Nurse’s coping mechanism during tough workdays

Overwhelmed nurse expresses gratitude for unexpected support ❤️

‍⚕️ Nurse bans husband from bedroom after disappointing weekend

Being a nurse is difficult, especially when it involves working long hours at a pediatric ICU. It’s even harder when you cry once a week because of the stress. This nurse’s husband, on the other hand, is working two days a week at a grocery store and spends most of his free time playing video games. After begging him to swap his Saturday shift so they could have a rare weekend off together, he left early in the morning to have breakfast with a friend and spent most of the day helping his friend with various errands. When the nurse needed him to let her into their home after grocery shopping, he took 45 minutes to come to her aid, leaving her in the rain and cold. After a disappointing day, the nurse has decided to ban her husband from their bedroom. Is she the A-hole? Read on to find out what others think and to offer your own opinion.

NTA comment and replies suggest bigger issues in the relationship.

Is the husband cheating? Commenters speculate and share their suspicions.

Lazy, inconsiderate husband chooses friends over wife, needs to change behavior.

Comment suggests possible infidelity, but others offer alternate perspective.

OP’s partner plays video games all week and does nothing. NTA.

Divorce is tough but prioritize yourself. NTA

Marriage in trouble, counseling not enough. Divorce may be imminent.

Supportive comment section with empowering advice

Partner’s lack of effort and disregard for time leads to justified response

Savage comment and reply: First marriage burn!

Husband working 2 days at grocery, wife supporting. Commenters side with nurse.

Emotional abuse and mistreatment: OP deserves better. ‍♀️

Commenter suspects husband’s infidelity; replies reveal deeper issues.

Commenter suggests husband may be cheating, OP is not TA

Commenters agree: NTA for forbidding disappointing husband from bedroom

Taking charge of finances and emotions

Commenter points out multiple issues in relationship.

When even having a roommate doesn’t compare ‍♀️

Wife questions husband’s selfish behavior, reminisces about past adventures ❤️

Supportive comment encourages leaving disappointing husband.

Grateful parent thanks NICU nurses amidst husband’s disappointing behavior ❤️

Commenter questions why a driven person would marry a juvenile.

Spouse neglects relationship, wife seeks advice.

Commenter supports OP’s decision and uses strong language.

Commenter questions why OP is still with unappreciative husband.

Caught in a lie , husband loses bedroom privileges

Respect yourself and move on. You deserve better!

Respect is key in any relationship

Supportive commenters offer advice to struggling spouse concerned for partner’s health.

Skeptical commenter doubts legitimacy of OP’s story

NTA. Consider separating and investing in therapy

A wife seeks INFO about her husband’s situation and actions.

Divorce lawyer needed? Not the a**hole for sure!

Commenter questions husband’s contribution to household, gets clarification.

Nurse works hard while husband prioritizes friend over wife. NTA.

Communication is key . Ensure you’ve communicated your plans clearly.

Finding someone who has their sh*t together like this NTA

Suggests couples counselling, warns of depression and early grave

Marriage regrets? Not the a-hole according to commenter

Commenter supports nurse’s decision to ban husband from bedroom.

Husband’s lack of effort causes marital bedroom ban ️

Sayonara! Short and sweet, but effective.

Bold suggestion to motivate lazy husband to step up responsibilities.

Consider therapy, but he may not want the same marriage goals

Red flags flying everywhere, but OP is NTA

Stand up for yourself! You deserve better.

Ouch! Harsh but valid question.

Stand up for yourself and don’t tolerate disrespectful behavior

Standing up for yourself is hard, but worth it.

Believe them when they show you who they are

Seek therapy to save your marriage

Husband behaving like a teenager according to NTA comment

Age is just a number, but why does it matter here?