A new mother’s diaper-changing routine has caused a family feud. The 28-year-old mom, who is sensitive to bad smells, wears disposable gloves, a mask, and applies a minty salve under her nose before changing her baby’s diaper. Her wife, mother, and mother-in-law have all weighed in on the issue, with some accusing her of being ‘toxic’ and others suggesting she’ll eventually get used to it. The mom insists she loves her daughter and doesn’t think her approach is wrong, but wonders if she’s stunting her child’s development.
The Diaper-Changing Dilemma

First-Time Parents

Splitting Childcare Duties 50/50

Squeamish Mom’s Solution

The Diaper-Changing Gear

Wife’s Disapproval

Quality Time with Daughter

Family Intervention ️

MIL’s Sympathy

Questioning Her Actions

Family Feud Over Diaper Duty: Is She Wrong? ♀️
A new mom’s diaper-changing routine, involving gloves, a mask, and minty salve, has sparked a family feud. While her wife and mother accused her of being ‘toxic’ and not bonding with their daughter, her mother-in-law sympathizes but suggests exposure therapy. The mom maintains she loves her daughter and doesn’t think she’s doing anything wrong, but wonders if her actions could be stunting her child’s development. What do you think? Share your thoughts and reactions!
Parents share their diaper changing horror stories and coping mechanisms
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New mom wears gloves and mask during diaper changes, NTA.
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Parenting entails discomfort, but diaper changes are the grossest

NTA. OP found a creative solution to cope with sensory issue.

Diaper changing can be a bonding experience, but not necessary.
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Wearing gloves and mask during diaper changes: NTA but potential impact on child’s perception of bodily functions.

Being a sensitive mom doesn’t make you a bad mom
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New mom wears gloves and mask for diaper changes, NTA

Gloves and mask during diaper changes, justified or overreaction? NAH

New mom wears gloves and mask for diaper changes, some find it overboard

Changing diapers with gloves and mask – necessary or overreaction?

Diaper changes don’t have to be bonding moments

Tips for changing a squirming baby’s diaper.

Parent’s overreaction to diaper changes may cause future problems.

Wearing gloves and mask for diaper changes: justified or overreaction?

Parenting is a messy job, but is wearing gloves and mask justified?

New dad’s germaphobia may impact child’s future perception of hygiene
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New mom’s sensory aversions may impact child’s development in future.

New mom wears gloves and mask during diaper changes – creative solution!

Commenter criticizes new mom’s excessive diaper changing precautions
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No shame in wanting diaper changes to be over quickly

Nurse agrees new mom’s precautions justified during diaper changes

Parenting during a pandemic: NTA for taking precautions

Protective gear during diaper changes – justified or overreaction? ♀️

New mom wears gloves and mask for diaper changes – is it overreaction?

New dad wears gloves and mask for diaper changes, wife embarrassed.

Commenter finds new mom’s diaper change routine hilarious, deems it unnecessary.

New mom wears gloves and mask during diaper changes, praised for resourcefulness

Swimmers nose plugs for diaper changes? Interesting idea

Parenting pro-tip: Don’t breathe through your nose during diaper changes

Adapting to parenthood with caution

Supportive comment encourages parent to do what works for them

NTA: Smelling poop isn’t worth risking your health

Protective mom receives support for masking and gloving diaper changes.

Personal preference or justified hygiene?
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Parent defends wearing gloves and mask during diaper changes.

Even animal lovers can gag at changing diapers. NTA
