A mother was faced with a dilemma when her daughters were uninvited from a birthday/Halloween party because of their purple hair. The girls have had their hair dyed since they were six years old and love it. The girls’ mother asked why the hair color mattered and was told that it would take away from the birthday pictures. The mother of the girls decided to throw a party for her daughters on Halloween and invited her daughters’ classmates. The party included a cake, bounce house, candy piñata, and carnival games. However, the mother of the birthday girl saw the pictures of the party and accused the mother of stealing her daughter’s moment. Was the mother an A**hole for throwing the party for her daughters instead of dyeing their hair?
No purple hair allowed at birthday party? Mom throws own party

Uninvited for their hair color? Mother throws them a party

Mom throws epic Halloween party to make up for uninvited snub

Mom throws rival party for uninvited girls

Dealing with uninvited kids and birthday party drama. AITA?

Mom defends throwing Halloween party after daughters’ birthday snub

From pony rides to piñatas: stark contrast between birthday parties

Mother throws epic party for daughters after being uninvited
A mother threw a Halloween party for her daughters after they were uninvited from a classmate’s birthday party because of their bright purple hair. The other mother insisted that their hair would draw attention in the birthday pictures, and the girls were told to dye their hair a natural color if they wanted to attend. Instead, the girls’ mother threw them an amazing party with a cake, bounce house, candy piñata, and carnival games. The girls had an incredible time, and their mother posted pictures online, which the other mother saw. The other mother accused the girls’ mother of stealing her daughter’s moment and being an a**hole for one-upping her. However, the girls’ mother had planned the Halloween party a week after they had declined the invitation to the classmate’s party. The parties were vastly different, with the classmate’s party being catered with a pony, assorted teas, and a wagon ride, while the girls’ party was a Frankenstein bounce house and some basic carnival games. Despite the drama, the girls had an unforgettable Halloween, and their mother showed that you don’t need a lot of money to throw an amazing party. Stay tuned for the comments and reactions to this incredible story.
NTA. Mom tries to punish kids for hair color, commenters outraged.

Mother uninvites girls for hair color, commenter suggests coloring mom’s hair

Mom throws party for daughters after being excluded due to hair.
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Mom stands up against entitled mom and throws better party

Colorful hair sparks tween party drama

Celebrating individuality, not punishing it.

Mom throws party for uninvited daughters, but did she steal guest list?

Mom is NTA for throwing the party. Also hair dye recommendations?

Agreeing with the commenter’s NTA judgement

Supportive comment for mom throwing party for daughters after being uninvited

Embrace your uniqueness and throw the flashiest party ever

Mom tries to change who the girls are to be accepted. NTA

Commenter defends daughters, criticizes mom’s parenting.

Kudos to mom for throwing a party for uninvited daughters

A heartwarming story of a great parent spreading kindness

Mom saves daughter’s party after exclusion – hair dye optional

Mom stands up to exclusionary behavior, throws fun party instead

Celebrate your kids without limits and ignore judgmental parents!

Colorful parenting done right!

Putting your children first always makes you a great parent

Commenter calls out parent’s inconsiderate behavior at kids party

OP saves the day with Halloween party, not the a-hole

Teaching daughters to be confident: Priceless

Commenter reacts to hair dye controversy with Halloween spirit

NTA for throwing a party to make sure your kids don’t feel left out

Hair color drama at a kid’s Halloween party, NTA wins

Don’t let anyone dim your kids’ uniqueness! #NotTheAHole

Dealing with a narcissistic parent can be tough

Mom saves the day and throws a party #NotTheA**hole
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Mom saves daughters from party snub with epic celebration

Uninvited to a party for not dying hair? Not the a**hole

Halloween trumps birthday party clash. NTA for throwing party

Clarifying whether invite was conditional; parent-to-parent or girl-to-girl?

Mom stands up for her daughters’ hair at birthday party

Innocent hurt feelings over uninvited birthday party guests

Don’t be a control freak at a kid’s party

Standing up to a controlling parent with a satisfying outcome
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Wealthy mom throws lavish party, but NTA mom gets last laugh

Being kind to the daughter could have a positive impact

Mom throws party for uninvited daughters, internet cheers for compromise

NTA throws party for daughters after they were uninvited

Controlling mother uninvites children from party, gets a taste of her own medicine

Purple-haired professor approves of awesome mom’s NTA move!

Mother disapproves of girls’ hair color, gets uninvited to party. NTA

Mom gets karma.

Daughters refused to dye their hair for party, mom asks for advice

Commenter calls out bad parenting in uninvited party situation

Engaging kids in creative expression, a delicate balance

Throw an annual extravaganza of legendary proportions! NTA

Mom stands up for her kids against appearance-based discrimination

Throw your own Halloween party

Celebrate Halloween your own way NTA for throwing party

Hair color policing? Not cool! NTA stands firm.

Mom stands up for her daughters against entitled parent

Woman uninvited from party thinks she’s the main character ♀️

Not the a**hole, but what happened with the other party?
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Great parenting skills recognized with NTA comment
