A mother and her 15-year-old daughter recently moved into the mother’s boyfriend’s home in New York City. The mother asked her daughter to respect the boyfriend’s house rules, which included not practicing her violin when he was home. However, when the daughter had a virtual audition coming up and needed to practice, the mother took away her violin, leading to a heated conflict between the two.
Moving in Together

Respecting the House Rules

Limited Space, Loud Violin

Boyfriend’s Annoyance

Violin Practice Drama

House Rules Reminder

Last-Minute Practice

Compromise Attempt

Daughter’s Defiance

Taking the Violin Away

Daughter’s Anger

Audition Results

Mother’s Defense ️

Health Risk and Priorities

Missed Practice Opportunities ⏰

Violin Conflict Leaves Family Divided
The mother’s decision to take away her daughter’s violin before a crucial audition has caused a rift between the two. The daughter, who failed to make it into the orchestra, is furious and refuses to speak to her mother. The mother, on the other hand, believes she was justified in her actions, as her daughter was disobeying a clear directive and disrespecting her boyfriend. The situation has left the family divided, with emotions running high. Share your thoughts and reactions below.
Mother takes away daughter’s violin before audition. Commenters agree: YTA.

Mother takes away daughter’s violin before audition. Commenters agree, YTA.

Mother takes away daughter’s violin before audition. Commenters criticize mother’s boyfriend’s lack of tolerance. YTA.

Commenters criticize mother for prioritizing new relationship over daughter’s safety

Mother’s decision to prioritize boyfriend over daughter’s audition criticized. YTA.

Mother’s boyfriend causes daughter to lose passion for violin YTA

Mother takes away daughter’s violin before audition. Commenter calls out assholery.

Daughter’s ruined audition leads to justified silent treatment.

Mother uproots daughter’s life, takes away violin before audition. YTA.

Commenter calls out mother for prioritizing boyfriend over daughter’s safety

Commenter calls out mother for prioritizing new relationship over daughter.

Mother takes away daughter’s violin before audition. Commenters criticize mother’s decision.

Mother criticized for prioritizing boyfriend over daughter’s audition
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Mother’s boyfriend not stepfather, YTA for taking away daughter’s violin.

Mother criticized for prioritizing new boyfriend over daughter’s needs

Violinist passionately explains why taking away daughter’s violin is wrong

Commenter calls out mother for being a**hole, gets support.

Mother takes away daughter’s violin before audition, called YTA.

Music teacher confirms OP is YTA for taking daughter’s violin

Moving too fast? YTA. Daughter’s hobbies matter too.

Mother prioritizes new relationship over daughter’s passion. YTA.

Commenter calls out mother for taking daughter’s violin before audition
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Mother criticized for prioritizing new relationship over daughter’s passion

Mother takes away daughter’s violin before audition, angers fellow musician

Commenter raises valid concerns about daughter’s discomfort with stepfather.

Mother takes away daughter’s violin before audition, commenters say YTA.

Commenter calls out mother for prioritizing boyfriend over daughter

Commenter calls out YTA for taking away daughter’s violin

Music teacher calls out mother for sabotaging daughter’s audition

Mother’s decision to prioritize boyfriend over daughter’s passion criticized

Mother’s boyfriend disrespects daughter’s passion for violin. YTA.

Mother prioritizes boyfriend over daughter’s passion for violin. YTA

Parent prioritizes boyfriend over daughter’s passion. YTA

Let her play! YTA for taking away her violin

Commenter calls out OP as YTA with strong language

Commenter calls out parent for prioritizing boyfriend over child’s passion

Mother prioritizes boyfriend over daughter’s passion, YTA.

Commenter slams parent for terrible behavior towards daughter’s audition

Mother prevents daughter from practicing violin before audition. Commenter calls her out as YTA.

Moving in with boyfriend affects daughter’s violin audition. YTA.

Commenter calls out mother for prioritizing boyfriend over daughter

Commenter accuses mother of prioritizing boyfriend over daughter’s needs.

Commenter finds humor in situation with laughing face emoji.

Mother criticized for taking away daughter’s violin before audition

Mom’s actions deemed selfish by commenters, ruining daughter’s passion

Parent prioritizes new boyfriend over daughter’s passion for violin. YTA
