Imagine being part of a tight-knit support group for disabled parents, a safe space where you can share your struggles and triumphs without judgment. It’s not about the kids, it’s about YOU and your unique challenges as a parent with a disability. But then, a new mom shows up with her disabled son, and things take an unexpected turn… Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions as we dive into this parenting group dilemma!
A Dilemma in the Disabled Parents’ Group

Many Members Have Disabled Kids, But That’s Not the Focus

A New Woman Wants to Join the Group

The Son Was Sweet, But Mom Wasn’t Participating

Plot Twist: The Mother Isn’t Disabled!

♀️ That’s Not Really Relevant, Though…

The Mother Gets Offended and Talks About Her Son

There Are Other Groups for Disabled Kids

️ This Group Is Our Safe Space

We Feel Bad, But Also…

The Shocking Twist That Divided a Disabled Parents’ Group!
Well, well, well… looks like this disabled parents’ group got more than they bargained for when a new mom showed up with her wheelchair-bound son! The plot thickens when it’s revealed that the mother herself isn’t disabled at all – gasp! Cue the drama, the heated discussions, and the ultimate decision to exclude her from the group. But wait, there’s more! The mom fires back, calling them ‘hypocritical c-words’ for not accepting her son. Ouch! Let’s see what the internet has to say about this juicy tale of support group shenanigans.
Mother banned from support group for calling members the c-word

Group’s purpose matters, not the person. NTA ✌️

Mother banned from support group for disabled parents, commenter defends NTA

The commenter sympathizes with the poster’s frustration and confusion.

Not the a**hole for enforcing group qualifications

Playgroups are for parents to find friends, not just for kids

Parent with disabilities ousted from support group, NTA verdict.

Misunderstanding leads to ban from support group. NTA.

Excluding entitled members for group productivity

Clear membership requirements explained but still called the C-word? NTA

Support group mix-up: This isn’t for parents of disabled children

NTA for explaining group’s purpose, offering alternative support options ⭐

Support group for disabled parents is necessary and not exclusive.

Selective listening and blame-shifting are classic traits of narcissists.

NTA. The commenter points out the lack of empathy and understanding.

Group is for parents w/ disabilities only. NTA for banning.

Don’t invade spaces meant for vulnerable communities!

Empathetic comment with no replies

Navigating parenting as a disabled person can be a nightmare. NTA.

Creating safe spaces for marginalized groups is important.

Exclusion justified. Support group for disabled parents only

OP starts subreddit for disabled parents, provides support outlet

NTA commenter defends OP against unreasonable expectations.

Heartless exclusion of disabled parent from support group

NTA suggests revenge plan, no replies yet

Support group member defends group against entitled mother.

Woman not meeting group criteria gets rightfully called out

Kind suggestion for disabled child-friendly play groups. NTA.

Exclusion from parents’ group: NTA comment shuts down argument

Mother’s entitlement receives backlash from commenters

Parents joining disability support groups can make things difficult for members.

NTA suggests clarifying group info to potential members for better experience

NTA commenter suggests solution to entitled parent’s misunderstanding

Creating a safe space is important

Misunderstanding the group’s purpose causes frustration for mother.

Misunderstanding leads to awkward situation in disabled parents’ group

Misunderstood mother banned from support group. NTA, but misguided.

Son not a parent, mother should not have joined. #NTA

Understanding the group’s purpose is important before joining.

Mother’s intrusion into disabled support group deemed unacceptable. NTA.

Misunderstanding leads to mother’s ban from support group

Exclusion justified: NTA member unfit for Disabled Support Group

Group meant for disabled parents, not non-disabled parents. NTA.

Clear NTA response and accusation of free childcare seeking

Parent reminded of the purpose of disabled parents’ support group

Mother banned from support group for exploiting its purpose. NTA.

Standing up for yourself and others is never a**hole behavior

Support group not free childcare. NTA for setting boundaries

Setting boundaries with grace and firmness.
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NTA supports protected characteristic groups’ safe spaces. Hypocrisy called out.

Correcting a typo with humor

Clear group description could avoid confusion and future conflicts. NTA

Misunderstanding cleared. NTA, you did nothing wrong

Sassy reply shuts down accusation of fake disability

Helpful correction of word usage and NTA opinion agreement

Parent defends support group’s no kids policy, NTA.

NTA comment suggests creating a group for disabled kids
