Imagine moving to another country to escape a dangerous person, only to have that person show up at your doorstep because your own mother betrayed your trust. That’s exactly what happened to this woman, who now refuses to give her mother her address. Six years later, the mother is still begging for the address, claiming she’s learned her lesson. But can she really be trusted? Let’s dive into this intense family drama!
Escaping Danger: A New Beginning
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Mother’s Betrayal: Nightmare Returns
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Confronting the Culprit
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Scolding and Consequences
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Six Years Later: Still No Trust
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Mother’s Visits: Hotel Stays Only
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The Never-Ending Plea for Trust
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Christmas Plans: Trust Issues Resurface
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Mother’s Hurt Feelings
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Trust Isn’t Easily Regained
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Siblings Chime In: Pressure to Forgive
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Trust Issues and Family Drama: Who’s in the Wrong?
So, this woman refuses to give her mother her address after a major betrayal six years ago. Her mother insists she’s learned her lesson and won’t make the same mistake again, but the daughter isn’t willing to take that risk. ♀️ Now, her siblings are pressuring her to forgive and trust their mother again. But can you really blame her for being cautious? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Put your daughter’s safety first, not your mother’s happiness. NTA
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Mother betrayed daughter’s trust, now demands address. NTA seeks advice.
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NTA. Forgiving but not forgetting. Mother betrayed trust, endangering daughter.

Rent a holiday home for safety instead of giving address.

Mother betrayed daughter’s trust and now demands her address. NTA.

Betrayed daughter stands up to untrustworthy mother. NTA

Set boundaries with your mother, she hasn’t apologized sincerely
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Mother betrays daughter’s trust and shares her address. Commenter sympathizes.

Protect yourself with a fake address and trusted friend

Mother betrays daughter’s trust, demands address. NTA prioritizes safety.

Curious about the mother’s reasoning for betraying her daughter’s trust?

Mother betrayed daughter’s trust, but daughter not the a**hole.

Mother’s betrayal and demand for address deemed unjustified by commenters

Daughter’s mom gave her address to ex, but why? NTA.

Mother demands daughter’s address after betraying her trust. NTA stands firm.

Rent a cheap apartment and set up surveillance to test trust.

Betrayed daughter refuses to give her address to her mom.

NTA, family misses the point, you prioritize child’s safety

Protecting family or overreacting? NTA commenters support privacy

Mother endangered daughter and child, doesn’t respect boundaries. NTA.

NTA suggests giving fake address to untrustworthy mother

Is your mother’s behavior a pattern?

Betrayed daughter stands up to untrustworthy mother.

Stand your ground and prioritize your safety and well-being.

NTA. Leaving an abuser is dangerous. Mother’s actions unforgivable. Timeout recommended. ❌

Setting boundaries with family can be tough, but safety first ✅

Finding middle ground with toxic family members:

NTA. Don’t rent a house, a hotel is safer

Trust is like a mirror, once broken, it’s never the same.

Putting safety first, commenter calls out selfish mother’s demands

Betrayed by mom, OP stands their ground. NTA

Concerned commenter suggests involving police in stalking situation

Setting boundaries with parents can be tough

Survivor shares harrowing story of why privacy is crucial for safety

Protecting oneself from danger is not being an a**hole.

Avoiding your mom might be a good idea ♀️

Prioritizing ego over safety? Not a good look.

Putting safety first. NTA for protecting yourself and your family

Betraying trust has consequences, NTA for not giving address

Protecting oneself from toxic people is not cruel or unnecessary. ✊

Forgiving her could endanger your family again. NTA

NTA. Protect yourself and your daughter from your untrustworthy mother.

Mother demands daughter’s address, commenters question her motives and loyalty

Don’t give in to her demands, test her with a decoy ️

NTA comment defends daughter’s safety over mother’s curiosity

Keeping your address private from family: empowering or problematic?

Protecting your life and child is more important than mom’s feelings . Don’t give in.

Mother demands daughter’s address after betraying her trust

Red flags raised as mother demands daughter’s address for trust

Betrayal by mother, safety at risk. Stand your ground

Surviving stalking is a long and hard process. NTA.

Prioritizing safety over trust. NTA, 100%.

NTA. “Fool me once; shame on you. Fool me twice; shame on me.”

Mother betrayed daughter and now demands address. NAH, prioritize safety.

Maintaining boundaries with a difficult parent. ♀️

Standing up for oneself and going no contact with entitled mother

Betrayed trust, demanding address. NTA stands firm.
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Choose child’s safety over adult’s feelings.

Protecting yourself and your daughter is the top priority ️

Stand your ground! Don’t give in to her demands

Don’t tell her squat. NTA. Your safety is more important

NTA, commenter advises to make mother understand severity of situation.

Betrayed daughter shares similar experience with ex-foster mother. NTA.
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Mother wrongs daughter, demands address. Commenter says NTA.

Trust is a precious commodity. One chance, no second tries.

Standing up to parents and setting boundaries.

Stay strong and don’t give in to emotional blackmail

Grandmother demands address, but NTA takes precautions to stay safe.

Cutting off toxic family members for safety.

Daughter stands up to entitled mother, earns NTA judgement
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Local domestic violence agency may have helpful resources/options/ideas.

NTA. Betrayed trust, mother demanding address. Protecting kid is priority.

Mother betrayed trust, now demands address. NTA stands firm.

Suggests petty revenge on untrustworthy family member with a burner.

Protecting your child’s safety is always a top priority

Mother guilt-trips daughter for not trusting her, siblings too involved.

Betrayed trust and safety concerns. NTA for not giving address

Mother betrays daughter’s trust, commenter says NTA and shut them down

NTA. A powerful and emotional response to a mother’s betrayal
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Protect your privacy with a fake address NTA

Prioritizing safety over trust in a toxic relationship
