Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of investing, family drama, and a whole lot of money talk! When this dad decided to set up investment accounts for his kids, he thought he was giving them a head start in life. But little did he know, a drunken beach debate would lead to a full-blown family meltdown! Get ready for a wild ride as we dive into this family’s financial fiasco!
Investing for the Kids’ Future!

$10K to Start, $100/Month, and Some Risky Moves

Daughter Born, Another Account Opened

️ Beach Debate: “Anybody Can Invest!” ️

Wife Takes Control, Hubby Relents ♂️

Blowout Fight: Son’s Inheritance Revealed

Dad Stays Mum, Points to Mom

Dad Flips His Lid, Refuses to Combine Accounts

♂️ EDIT: Wife Had Full Control, Hubby Trusted Her

EDIT 2: Account Balances at Time of Challenge

EDIT 3: Tempted to Take the Money and Run! ♂️

EDIT 4: A Fair Solution? Show the Kids the Statements!

Family Feud: Mom’s Bad Investments Spark Inheritance Inequality!
Well, well, well…looks like this family’s investment adventure took a turn for the dramatic! Dad thought he was doing the right thing by setting up accounts for both kids, but when Mom took over their daughter’s account, things went south faster than a snowbird in winter! Now, with a $44K difference between the siblings’ inheritances, tensions are running higher than the stock market during a bull run! The internet has spoken, and it seems like splitting the accounts evenly might be the way to go. But Dad’s got a plan to make sure the kids know exactly who’s responsible for the financial fumble. Will this family find a way to invest in their relationships, or will they be stuck in a bear market of bitterness? Stay tuned, folks!
ESH made a drunken bet, daughter pays the price, pride over family ♂️

Father’s plan to punish daughter for mom’s mistake backfires. ESH.

Parent’s inaction leads to financial inequality and YTA judgement

Unequal investment returns causing family conflict. YTA.

Holding a grudge for 20 years over a drunken comment

Parents’ negligence costs daughter thousands, but son shouldn’t suffer. ESH.
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Parental favoritism can have long-lasting consequences

Compromise with daughter and son, wife has no say anymore.

Harsh criticism for a parent’s selfish actions

Gamer family feud: Should the mom have used her son’s account?

Commenter questions OP’s involvement and communication with wife.

Split it evenly and don’t punish your daughter for your wife’s mistake

Don’t overlook this crucial detail about the wife’s decision

ESH comment: Both parents suck and kids are affected

Negligence costs daughter thousands. YTA for not taking over.

INFO: Accounts in parents’ names, dad quadrupled son’s fund. ESH.

ESH. Daughter feels entitled, wife allowed stagnation, and father is petty.

Father’s favoritism causes financial inequality, leads to resentment. YTA

ESH but son should get whole account, daughter needs additional funds

Fairness concerns raised as daughter pays for parents’ mistakes

Daughter gets screwed over in dad’s investment competition ♂️

Money shouldn’t divide families. ESH needs to prioritize their kids.

Father criticized for punishing daughter because of his mistake.

Should parents treat their children’s accounts equally? ESH.

Debate on who’s to blame for financial disaster continues

User accuses parent of decision-making in daughter’s inheritance

Parents’ bet on investing backfires, unfairly punishing daughter. ESH

User accuses OP of being the a**hole for not treating family equally.

Pride got in the way and daughter suffered. ♂️
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Divided family, wife is the a-hole for starting the fire
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Parenting fail leads to punishment for daughter. ESH/YTA.

Daughter gets $44k less because of wife’s mistake? YTA

Parents should be accountable for their financial decisions

Did OP knowingly let his wife ruin his daughter’s future? ESH ♂️

User questions wife’s spending, suggests selling valuables to compensate.

NTA. Wife could have admitted her mistake and paid back.

Both parents need to prioritize daughter’s financial future equally

Couple’s lack of communication leads to messed up situation

Daughter learns harsh lessons as parents prioritize proving points

A financial planner and marriage counselor could be helpful here

Parental favoritism leads to ESH judgement and unfortunate daughter outcome.

Don’t let a mistake cost your daughter. YTA judgement.

Parenting fail: Daughter suffers from parents’ unequal treatment

Husband and wife both at fault for daughter’s loss ♂️

Parents’ prideful competition harms daughter’s future investments. ESH.

Don’t let pettiness harm your family. Split the money and move on
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Edits make OP seem insensitive and stubborn. YTA

Parents criticized for not helping daughter’s account, but son’s okay ♂️

A fiery comment calls out unfair parenting – ESH

Disapproving comment about selfish husbands/fathers on the sub.

Editing parenting arrangements to punish spouse makes you manipulative TA

Split the money evenly to avoid regret. ESH.

Parent blamed for punishing daughter for wife’s mistake

Splitting the money but don’t use kids as punishment
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Choosing to ‘win’ against your spouse could cost you everything

Parents’ drunken bet mortgaged daughter’s future, ESH for negligence.

Investing lesson gone wrong. ESH and hurt daughter.

OP’s negligence and pettiness cost their child thousands
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User calls out OP and spouse for immature behavior
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Parenting conflict: Daughter suffers for parents’ mistake

Invest in a little compassion, YTA. Don’t punish your daughter.

Daughter not at fault, OP sets her up to fail ❌

Grow up and stop painting your wife as the a**hole
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Intense backlash to a father’s actions towards his daughter’s college fund

User calls out OP for being a jerk, but praises fair decision.
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YTA prioritizes ego over daughter’s education for 20 years

Man wants to take $15K, blames wife, and becomes biggest a-hole. YTA
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Angry commenter calls out sexism and calls OP an a**hole

A commenter calls out an immature parent for blaming his wife for their financial mistakes.

User questions father’s actions in a judgmental tone.

Parent unfairly punishes daughter for mother’s mistakes. YTA confirmed

Is pettiness worth the tension it causes in families?
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User calls out OP for trying to punish wife through daughter

Daughter upset with ESH parents for costly mistake

Daughter pays for parents’ mistake? ESH! No logical reason.
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Father and mother prioritize being ‘right’ over daughter’s future

Unequal bet causes family rift, ESH except the kids

Daughter suffers from parents’ “pissing contest”

Married couple’s arrogance ruined their kids’ future

Investing gets an apology after mom’s costly mistake. YTA.

Parent’s monstrous mistake causes daughter’s financial ruin. ♀️
