Imagine being a proud mom of an 18-year-old son, Noah, who’s an all-around great person and has just received a likely letter from his dream school. But there’s a catch: you haven’t saved enough for his tuition fees. Enter your husband, who has a college fund for his 17-year-old daughter, Grace, from a previous marriage. You think it’s a good idea to use that money for Noah’s education, considering Grace’s average GPA and plans to attend community college. But is it fair?
The Blended Family

Noah’s Accomplishments

The College Fund Dilemma

The Bold Proposal

Grace’s Situation

Husband’s Reaction

Grace’s Outburst

False Accusations

Family’s Reaction

Husband’s Disappointment

Mixed Opinions

Seeking Unbiased Opinion

The Internet Weighs In
With the family divided and emotions running high, this mom seeks an unbiased opinion on whether she’s in the wrong for asking her husband to use his daughter’s college fund for her son’s tuition. Is she being fair, or has she crossed a line? Let’s dive into the top responses from the internet to find out!
OP is massively entitled and trying to steal her stepdaughter’s fund

OP is the a**hole for expecting stepdad to fund son’s college with stepdaughter’s savings.

“Gross wicked stepmother” tries to take stepdaughter’s college fund. YTA

OP accused of being a monster for wanting stepdaughter’s savings

OP prioritizes son over stepdaughter, YTA for trying to take her college fund

Stepdad’s stepdaughter’s savings are not for your son. YTA

Stepmom wants stepdaughter’s college fund for son’s education. YTA.

Commenter exposes stepmother’s lies and advises getting a lawyer
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Commenter calls out single mother’s husband for rushing into marriage

OP is called out for favoritism towards stepson over stepdaughter

Mom wants stepdaughter’s college savings for son’s education. YTA.

Mom’s entitlement sparks backlash: ‘Your son deserves nothing!’

Stepdaughter’s savings are not for her stepbrother’s college fund

Accusations of gold-digging and sketchy behavior
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Commenter deemed the ‘a**hole’ and referred to another subreddit

Stepmom suggests unfair college funding, deemed TA by commenters

Commenter calls out entitlement in stepdad’s request.

Stepdad accused of stealing stepdaughter’s savings
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Mom wants to use stepdaughter’s savings for stepson’s college? YTA.

User calls out entitlement and lack of appreciation for DIL’s savings

Single mom wants stepdad to fund son’s college with stepdaughter’s savings

Stepdaughter’s savings for stepbrother’s college? YTA crossed a line

Commenter calls out OP for entitlement and stubbornness

Mom wants stepdad to fund son’s college with stepdaughter’s savings

Stepdad’s savings for daughter aren’t college fund for stepson. YTA

Stepdaughter’s college savings are hers. Don’t be an entitled a**hole

Harsh criticism for son’s entitlement to stepdaughter’s savings

Commenter calls out stepmom’s wicked behavior

Stepson not entitled to stepdaughter’s college savings. YTA

Commenter calls out entitlement and suggests scholarships and grants

Stepdaughter’s savings shouldn’t fund stepson’s college. YTA

Stepdaughter calls out stepmom for wanting son’s college fund YTA

Stepmom wants stepdaughter’s college fund for son. Commenters say YTA.

Commenter calls out mom for wanting stepdad to fund son’s college
