Mom Tells Ex He Can’t Join Fun Activities with Son Until He Listens to Him

Imagine having a child with special interests, and their other parent just can’t seem to find the patience to engage with them. This mom found herself in that exact situation, and when her ex-husband complained about not being included in a special moment, she had the perfect response. Let’s dive into this story and see how it unfolds.

The Backstory: Ex-Husband and Autistic Son

Dad’s Lack of Patience

Mom’s Attempt to Talk

Introducing a Furry Friend

The Adoption Process

Ex’s Reaction to the Dog

Mom’s Bold Response

Ex’s Huffy Reply

The Facebook Drama

Family’s Reaction

Mom’s Accusation

The Hard Work Debate

Mom’s Defense

The Backlash

Son’s Reaction

Mom’s Response to Ex Sparks Family Drama

This mom’s response to her ex-husband’s complaints about not being included in their autistic son’s life has caused quite a stir. After adopting a dog for her son, she told her ex he could join family activities once he engaged with their son for more than half an hour. The ex took to Facebook, causing a massive backlash against the mom, with even her own mother accusing her of excluding the father. Despite the drama, the son is happily enjoying his time with his new furry friend. Let’s see what people have to say about this situation…

Ex not entitled to tag along on ‘family’ things after 6 years. NTA.

Ex wants ‘good bits’ of parenting without putting in effort

Mom and son enjoy new dog despite entitled ex’s behavior

ESH for not communicating effectively and posting on social media.

Commenter supports OP’s decision to exclude ex from activity.

Setting conditions on inviting dad to outings won’t help. ESH.

Parent criticized for neglecting son’s social-emotional development. ESH.

Ex-husband wants to be involved with son’s activities, but both parents need to teach social skills to their autistic child. ESH.

Commenter calls out OP for not understanding father’s perspective

Co-parenting communication breakdown over autistic son’s social boundaries

Co-parenting struggles: Commenter suggests ESH and highlights missing info

ESH. Commenters point out OP projecting feelings onto son and ex.

Ex wants credit for dog, but it’s not his.

OP’s unwillingness to consider criticism and prioritize son’s wellbeing. YTA

Commenter calls out mom for purposely excluding ex from son’s life

Parenting conflict: YTA for not involving equal parent in decisions

Toxic co-parenting situation, both parents need to reassess their behavior.

Setting boundaries is important, but don’t use your child as leverage. YTA

Commenter calls out both parties for lack of communication and maturity.

Commenter questions if there’s more to the story

Ex-couple’s immature behavior affecting their child’s happiness

Engage in co-parenting decisions together. YTA for alienating father.

Father lacks understanding of son’s needs and interests.

Encouraging speech therapy for autistic son’s development

What’s the missing piece of this parenting puzzle?

Don’t gatekeep their relationship. Let them love each other organically.

Divorced couple’s frequent activities confuse son, ex lacks compassion, mother excludes him. ESH.

Commenter calls out OP for denying father-son bonding time.

Commenter calls out OP for withholding information and being defensive

Commenter calls out manipulative behavior with YTA verdict

Commenter thinks the ex is the a**hole

Commenter calls out OP’s negative framing of ex and condescending behavior.

Commenter deems someone the a**hole. Drama ensues.

Ex neglects son, OP not responsible for their bonding. NTA

Disagreement handled poorly, resulting in everyone sucking here ‍♂️

Co-parenting is crucial, both parents should teach their son together. ‍ ‍ ‍ Let’s hope they work it out.

Co-parenting requires communication and understanding, not just tolerance.

Ex excluded from activities with son until he understands condition

Helping Bas bond with both parents is important for everyone

Commenter calls out judgement on husband’s parenting skills

Both mother and father need to communicate better

Commenter calls out everyone involved and predicts downvotes

Excluding your son’s father from activities is not the solution.

Ex needs to step up and plan his own family time