Picture this: you’re announcing your engagement to your family, and everyone is happy for you, except for one person – your own mom. That’s what happened to a 25-year-old man who has been with his fiancée Tanya for five years. Tanya has an 8-year-old son, Alex, from a previous relationship, and this has always been a sore spot for the man’s mom. Despite her son’s love for Tanya and Alex, the mom has never approved of their relationship, often making insensitive comments. But when she crossed the line during the engagement announcement, things took a dramatic turn.
Mom’s Disapproval of Fiancée

A Bond with Alex

Mom’s Hurtful Comments

The Painful Truth

A Constant Battle

The Engagement Announcement

Mom’s Insensitive Joke

Enough is Enough

Confronting Mom

The Ultimatum

Mom Leaves, Mad

Dad’s Apology

Sister’s Disapproval

Mixed Reactions

Mom’s Unapologetic Attitude

Was Kicking Mom Out Justified?
The man’s mom has always been disapproving of his relationship with Tanya, making insensitive comments about her and her son, Alex. But when she ruined their engagement announcement with a heartless joke, the man had enough and kicked her out of his apartment. Now, with mixed reactions from family and friends, he’s left wondering if he was in the wrong. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this emotional rollercoaster of a situation…
NTA OP, for kicking out mom who made a disgusting comment.

Supportive comment and advice for protecting family from toxic behavior.
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Congratulations on your engagement! Stand up for your family

Commenter defends OP’s decision to stand up to toxic mom.

Protect your big day, set boundaries with toxic family members

NTA. A heart-to-heart with mom is necessary, with a neutral third party present.

NTA, standing up for your fiancé against disrespectful behavior

NTA. Tell your family that Alex’s bio dad has died

Engage your mom with kindness and empathy.

Choosing to support the wronged family member. NTA.

ESH. Lack of communication led to unnecessary drama and hurt.

NTA for kicking out mom, but YTA for not explaining father’s absence sooner.

Setting boundaries with mom after ruined engagement announcement. Congrats OP!

Setting boundaries with a tantrum-throwing mother-in-law

OP’s mom’s behavior causes drama and mistrust. ♀️

ESH for the mother’s behavior, but YTA for not standing up to her sooner.
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Defending family and setting boundaries.

When in doubt, tell them to eat sh*t

Sensitive question about deceased father in engagement announcement.

Setting boundaries with disrespectful parents, NTA for standing up.

Compassionate response to embarrassing family member.
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Standing up to toxic family behavior

A helpful comment suggests seeking advice on JustNoMIL subreddit.

Commenter calls out OP for not defending their girlfriend.

NTA – Mother’s entitlement is astounding. You did the right thing.

Defending fiancee against verbal abuse from mother, NTA

Commenter sympathizes with Tanya, questions secrecy around Alex’s dad.

Congrats on engagement! NTA, mom’s behavior deserved consequences

Insensitive mom asks about deceased ex, gets shut down

Engaging response to NTA comment and genuine question about long marriages

OP is NTA, but comment questions secrecy around father’s death.

Choose love, not toxicity. Family is a privilege, not entitlement. ❤️

Dealing with family drama after a tragic loss

Protect your loved ones from cruelty, even from family members

Hilarious comment suggests extreme solution to overbearing mother-in-law.

Grandma approves of blended family, sends congrats
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Supportive commenters agree: Mom deserved to be kicked out

NTA, demand respect. Mom needs to shape up or ship out
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Support for standing up to toxic behavior.

Supportive comment for couple’s engagement despite family drama

Family doesn’t always mean a free pass. NTA

Standing up to mom was the right move. NTA

Standing up to a meddling mom

Putting your partner first is important. NTA for setting boundaries.
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Respectful comment defends couple’s decision and calls out mother’s behavior.

Commenter suggests a snarky response to insensitive mother’s behavior.
