A new mother, who recently gave birth to her first child, found herself in the middle of a family conflict during Thanksgiving. Both sets of grandparents gifted the baby, Daisy, different outfits for the occasion. While the outfit from the maternal grandparents was cute and innocent, the one from the mother-in-law had a questionable message. The new mom decided not to dress Daisy in the controversial outfit, leading to a tense Thanksgiving and an unhappy mother-in-law.
A Special Gift for Baby Daisy

Two Thanksgiving Outfits

Mother-in-Law’s Questionable Choice

Splitting Thanksgiving Between Houses

Dodging the Question

Tense Thanksgiving Lunch

The Truth Comes Out ️

Mother-in-Law’s Response

Feeling Like the Asshole?

Fiancé’s Support ✊

The Big Question ❓

Edit: Clarification on Relationship

Inappropriate Outfit Causes Thanksgiving Drama
This new mom found herself in a difficult situation when her mother-in-law gifted her baby an outfit with a sexual innuendo for Thanksgiving. She decided not to dress her 2-month-old in the controversial outfit, leading to a tense holiday and an unhappy mother-in-law. Despite feeling guilty, the mom stood her ground, and her husband supported her decision. What do you think? Was she right to refuse the outfit? Share your thoughts and reactions below.
NTA. Diaper explosion excuse works like a charm!

Don’t dress your baby in an outfit you don’t like NTA

NTA for stopping sexualized baby clothes

Spouse should wear a funny shirt to In-Laws for Thanksgiving

Grandparents gift inappropriate onesie, NTA for refusing to dress baby.

Protecting your child from inappropriate clothing choices.

Choosing a cute turkey dress over a crass onesie. NTA.

NTA. You have the right to dress your baby as you wish . MIL can dress up her own kid with vulgar phrases.

Fiancé supported not dressing baby in inappropriate outfit for Thanksgiving

Mom stands her ground on baby’s outfit, internet approves

Mom stands her ground on baby’s outfit choice for Thanksgiving

Dressing babies in sexual innuendos is trashy and classless.
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Mom stands up to MIL’s inappropriate outfit choice for baby

Parent defends right to dress child, NTA wins the day

Setting boundaries with in-laws

Classless shirt deemed not funny by NTA commenter and reply.

New mom refuses inappropriate Thanksgiving onesie for baby

User suggests a humorous way to deal with MIL’s inappropriate behavior

Inappropriate onesie leads to uncomfortable family gathering and memories

Assertive NTA parent stands up to trashy outfit-pushing MIL

New mom stands up to demanding MIL over baby’s outfit

Let new parents choose their baby’s holiday outfit!

Mom stands up to grandma’s overreaction, chooses baby’s outfit.

Grandma’s inappropriate gift rejected with NTA comment and agreement.

Fiancé needs to handle his mom’s badgering. Gross joke. NTA

A questionable onesie sparks a Thanksgiving family feud

Setting boundaries early on is key
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Setting boundaries with in-laws over inappropriate clothing

NTA. Inappropriate outfit request? Weird AF. Congrats on wedding

NTA. Red flags ahead, head to r/JUSTNOMIL for support.

MIL tries to assert authority, but NTA couple stands firm

Commenter shares a meme about inappropriate Thanksgiving outfits for couples.

Sassy reply shuts down MIL’s inappropriate outfit suggestion
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Commenter finds baby outfit inappropriate even for their sense of humor

Husband should have been honest with mom about tacky outfit

MIL’s strange gift for baby sparks controversy

Creative solution to avoid family drama

Thanksgiving innuendo shirts from mother-in-law, couple grossed out. NTA
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Commenter calls out trashy behavior, NTA stands firm

Polite NTA response to inappropriate outfit request for baby

Set boundaries with family over baby’s holiday outfit choices.

Reddit users express concern for straight people’s behavior. OP not at fault.

Standing up to pushy in-laws

MIL’s inappropriate gift for baby causes nausea

Choosing not to dress baby in inappropriate outfit – NTA

Mom stands her ground against inappropriate outfit for baby

Bizarre baby onesies spark controversy among parents

Stand your ground! It’s your baby, not your MIL’s.

NTA! It’s unreasonable to expect someone to wear a gifted outfit.

Spicy comment, but no takers for a clapback.

Mom stands up for baby’s outfit choice, internet approves

Setting boundaries with gifts
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Husband’s lack of action causes conflict with MIL over baby’s outfit

Stand your ground! NTA for dressing your baby as you please

Parents have the right to choose baby’s outfit. NTA

Protecting your baby from creepy clothes NTA

Mom stands up against inappropriate baby outfit

NTA stands up to MIL’s inappropriate gift for baby Daisy

Aunt buys offensive shirts for baby, NTA for refusing outfit.
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Stand your ground! It’s your baby and your firsts!

Protecting babies from inappropriate outfits – one NTA mom’s approach

Agreed! Sexualizing babies is tacky and gross

NTA comment defends dressing babies appropriately, suggests cute diaper-related outfits.

Empowering reminder for parents to make their own choices.

NTA. Commenter finds inappropriate baby outfit embarrassing for family gathering.

Stand your ground! You’re not the a**hole
