A mother made a deal with her 12-year-old daughter to install a pool in their backyard, on the condition that the daughter would pay back half the cost once she started working. Four years later, the daughter is 16 and has her first job, but she wants to save up for a prom dress instead of paying her parents back. The mother insists on upholding the agreement, causing a rift in the family.
Family Disagreement
The Pool Request ♀️
The Agreement
Daughter’s Quick Agreement
Fast Forward ⏩
Pool Payment Reminder
Mom’s Ultimatum ⚠️
Silent Treatment
Husband’s Stance ♂️
Mom’s Motivation
Teaching a Lesson
A Lesson in Accountability ♀️
A mother’s attempt to teach her daughter about responsibility and keeping promises has led to a family conflict. The daughter, who once agreed to pay back half the cost of a pool, now wants to save up for a prom dress instead. The mother insists on upholding the agreement, while the father and other family members side with the daughter. The situation raises questions about the fairness of the agreement and the importance of teaching life lessons.
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