Imagine spending a cozy Christmas week with your family at a cabin, only to find yourself taking care of not just your own kids, but your boyfriend’s child as well. This 27-year-old mom of three has had enough and decided to confront her 28-year-old boyfriend for not stepping up as a dad. She’s been handling all the responsibilities, from baking cookies to making hot cocoa, while he’s been too busy playing with his new toys. But when she finally calls him out, he accuses her of being an a**hole. Did she cross the line, or is she just trying to make him see the light? Let’s dive into the story.
A Blended Family Christmas
Living Separately, But United for the Holidays
A Week Together at the Family Cabin ️
Even Mom’s Ex Was Invited
The Boyfriend’s Lack of Involvement
Little Girl Clings to Mom
Mom Steps Up, Boyfriend Stays on the Sidelines
The Cocoa Incident ☕
Mom’s Petty Revenge
Confrontation Time ⚡
Mom’s Fed Up
Boyfriend’s Shocking Response
Was She Misunderstood?
Mom vs. Lazy Boyfriend: Who’s in the Wrong?
This mom of three is fed up with her boyfriend’s lack of involvement with his own daughter during their family Christmas vacation. She’s been taking care of all the kids, while he’s been too busy playing with his new toys. When she finally confronts him, he accuses her of being an a**hole and holding his child against him. Was she wrong for calling him out, or is he just refusing to see the truth? ♀️ Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Commenters agree that the boyfriend is lazy and manipulative.
Stepmom and others warn OP to leave lazy, manipulative boyfriend.
Step up or step out: Commenters agree he’s a deadbeat
NTA comment suggests lazy boyfriend is not stepping up as dad
Lazy boyfriend expects partner to do all the childcare and chores.
Lazy boyfriend won’t step up as a dad. NTA’s future in doubt ♀️
Being a great step-parent deserves appreciation
Think twice before settling down with a lazy partner
Commenter offers advice and warns about ‘Disney Dads’
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NTA calls out lazy boyfriend’s poor parenting skills
Lazy boyfriend wants you to do all the parenting work.
Parenting isn’t a one-person job , but some need a nudge.
Lazy boyfriend gaslights mom for calling out his dad duties
Dating for 8 months, weekend sleepovers, and already seeing red flags
Ex’s behavior a red flag? NTA for expecting more.
Lazy boyfriend neglects his daughter, NTA for calling him out
Don’t ignore the red flags , move on sis!
Lazy boyfriend resents his daughter, NTA for considering leaving him.
Dump the deadbeat! He’s shown his true colors.
Commenter calls out lazy boyfriend for not stepping up as dad
Escape the toxicity Kids deserve better too
Partner or nanny? NTA calls out boyfriend’s parenting role
Heartbreaking story of a neglected child and absent father.
NTA, parenting should be equal.
Don’t let him manipulate you. You deserve better.
Boyfriend accused of being a c**p father, responds defensively. NTA.
NTA commenter advises to dump the lazy boyfriend.
Take space from lazy boyfriend? NTA says it’s a good idea
Boyfriend’s laziness and sexism exposed. NTA for setting boundaries.
Lazy boyfriend neglects own child, unlikely to be good stepfather.
BF wants a ‘bangmaid’? NTA for saying no
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Don’t settle for a lazy partner. You deserve better
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Boyfriend unwilling to listen to valid criticism
Actions speak louder than words. Trust his actions, not promises.
Boyfriend doesn’t like kids, focus on your own instead
Lazy boyfriend seeks mommy, not partner.
NTA suggests ditching lazy boyfriend and befriending kid’s mother
Mom calls out lazy boyfriend for not being a dad
Savage advice sparks no response from comment section ♂️
Creative solution to lazy boyfriend problem. ♀️
Breaking up with lazy boyfriend, keeping friends with family ♡
Ouch! Sounds like he messed up big time.
Selfish boyfriend twists clear message. NTA stands her ground.
Don’t let a narcissist derail the conversation. Stay firm.
Pushing a partner to be a better parent is NTA
Dump him! NTA deserves better than an unappreciative partner.
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Mom calls out lazy boyfriend for not stepping up as dad
NTA comment gets straight to the point about deadbeat boyfriend
Commenter gets support for calling out lazy boyfriend
Commenter calls out lazy boyfriend’s bad parenting, harshly criticizes OP.
Commenter warns about lazy boyfriend’s future parenting abilities.
Lazy boyfriend wants someone else to parent his kid. NTA.
Lazy boyfriend not helping with kids? NTA, call him out!
Deadbeat boyfriend expects woman to parent, NTA for leaving.
Lazy boyfriend neglects his own child and accuses partner of it
Lazy boyfriend twisting words? NTA mom needs better partner
NTA suggests telling mother if they break up to avoid blame.
Future single parent? NTA calls out lazy boyfriend.
Lazy boyfriend wants free babysitter, not a parent.
Ex-wife knew it first, lazy boyfriend seeks mom not partner. ♀️
Boyfriend acting like a nanny? NTA calls him out.
Savage reply to a lazy boyfriend, but hilarious
Last Updated on May 31, 2023 by Diply Social Team
