Picture this: a festive high school friends’ reunion filled with laughter, drinks, and the occasional inappropriate joke. But when one joke crosses the line, it sparks a family feud that still lingers today. Our storyteller, a 24-year-old man, found himself in the middle of this drama when he made a controversial suggestion to his 27-year-old sister.
The Joke That Started It All

A Rowdy Reunion

Sister’s Disgust

The Controversial Suggestion

Breaking the Tension

Sister’s Furious Reaction

No More Babysitting

An Overreaction?

Sister’s Struggles

Missed Opportunities

A Martyr’s Attitude

TL;DR

Edit: A Thank You

Homophobic Undertones?

A More Mature Response

A Joke That Went Too Far?
So, our storyteller made a shocking suggestion to his sister, which led to a family feud that continues today. Was it just a harmless joke to break the tension, or did he cross a line? Let’s dive into the internet’s top responses to this wild family drama and see what people think!
NTA suggests unconventional sex to sister, receives backlash. Humorous or offensive?

NTA. Homophobia disguised as discomfort with sex talk.

Same-sex relationship defended against homophobia with a spicy comeback

Commenter empathizes with the sister’s difficult situation and cognitive dissonance.
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Sibling banter turns awkward with a joke gone wrong

Sibling conflict over homophobic comment and personal attacks. ESH.

Pro-life sister refuses birth control, causing unwanted pregnancies.

Commenter calls out sister’s bigotry and anti-abortion activism
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De-escalating homophobia with tact earns NTA judgement

Joke or not, suggesting unconventional sex to avoid kids? NTA?

Commenter calls out OP for grossly suggesting anal sex.

When joking about insecurities, ESH. Be kind, not hurtful

This NTA comment got a laugh with a great joke

Commenter suggests both parties at fault in uncomfortable sexual joke.

Support for NTA comment against homophobia

NTA suggests regretful sister try unconventional sex to avoid kids

Sibling feud escalates to inappropriate sex advice. ESH.

Commenter sympathizes with sister’s reaction to insensitive joke.
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Commenter defends OP and criticizes sister’s views with sass

Support for unconventional sex suggestion to avoid unwanted kids.

Poor taste joke leads to immature handling. ESH.

Commenter defends OP’s joke, speculates on sister’s controlling husband.

Sibling rivalry takes a dark turn with mean-spirited insults

Homophobic comment shut down by appropriate response from gay man

Agreeing with NTA verdict, no sympathy for sister
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NTA but tread carefully with sensitive jokes

When a joke goes too far, no one is innocent

Sister’s hypocrisy exposed in NTA comment with a twist

Both parties could have handled the situation better ♀️

Uncomfortable suggestion leads to ESH judgment

Commenter calls out YTA for insensitive joke about sister’s kids

Sibling advice gone wrong ♂️
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Standing up to bigotry with humor and truth.

NTA. A harmless joke that was blown out of proportion

Contraceptives exist for a reason, NTA’s sister needs one

Commenter clarifies babysitting situation with sister’s kids

Commenter defends OP’s actions, calls sister ‘stupid’

Commenter outraged at shocking suggestion from man.

Everyone sucks here. ♂️

Commenter called out for hypocrisy and homophobia.

User calls out sister’s hypocrisy on pro-life stance.

Commenter sympathizes with sister’s accidental pregnancies and supports OP’s response.

Support for standing up to homophobic views.

Sibling banter at its finest, no harm done here
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NTA. Sis can’t take what she dishes out.

Not the a**hole for suggesting unconventional birth control

Not the a**hole for suggesting unconventional sex?

Sister gets a taste of her own medicine.
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Handling family drama and immature siblings like a boss

Sibling rivalry taken to a whole new level

Support for NTA, criticism for sister’s actions

Friend’s ‘joke’ offends sister, but commenter thinks she agrees

Standing up against borderline homophobic ‘jokes’

Commenter finds man’s suggestion funny and not offensive

NTA suggests sister is homophobic, sparks no replies.

NTA. Contraceptives exist, sis

User suggests keeping legs closed if against birth control.

Sibling advice sparks NTA comment, but sister’s behavior questioned

Commenter defends OP and criticizes sister’s behavior and beliefs.

Encouraging use of birth control to avoid unwanted kids.

Inappropriate comment suggests ‘unconventional’ solution to unwanted kids

Handling homophobia with humor: a not the a**hole moment

Sister overreacts to harmless jab, NTA wins this round

Commenter praised for humor in NTA response

Respect for one’s body and beliefs over harmful choices.

Humorous comment lightens mood in controversial section

Encouraging response to sister’s dilemma with humorous tone

User calls out sister’s hypocrisy in having unwanted kids.

Sister makes homophobic comment, gets roasted, and plays victim. NTA

Breaking tension with a joke gone wrong. ESH.

NTA suggests sister should lighten up, apologize for homophobic remark
