Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of family drama, financial promises, and a baby on the way. Our protagonist finds himself in a sticky situation with his fiancée over a college fund he set aside for his niece years ago. With a new baby coming, the fiancée wants to keep the money for their own family’s future. But our hero made a promise to his niece, and he’s determined to keep it. Will he stand his ground or cave to the pressure? Let’s dive in and find out! ♂️
A Tale of Two Deadbeat Parents

Stepping Up to Help Out

A Bright Future Ahead

A Baby on the Way

Financial Support for Family

Fights Over the Fund

Making Good Money

⏰ Money Set Aside Long Ago

Differing Perspectives

Made Into the Bad Guy

Am I Being an A**?

Out of Character Concerns

♀️ Easing Anxiety for the Future

Internet Weighs In on Family Financial Feud!
Well, well, well… looks like we’ve got ourselves a real family financial showdown! Our main man is caught between a rock and a hard place, trying to keep his promise to his niece while also keeping his pregnant fiancée happy. It’s a classic case of ‘damned if you do, damned if you don’t’! But fear not, dear readers, because we’ve scoured the internet for the juiciest responses to this juicy dilemma. ️♀️ Get ready for some hot takes, witty quips, and maybe even a little bit of sage advice. ♂️ Let’s see what the world wide web has to say about this family financial feud!
Defend your financial boundaries, consider a prenup. NTA
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Keeping your promise to your niece is the right thing

Generous uncle’s fiancee demands his niece’s college fund?!

Keep your promise to your niece and don’t abandon her. NTA.

Supportive comment highlights potential issue with fiancée’s involvement

Prenup time! NTA’s fiancée has no control over his money
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Stand your ground! It’s your money, you get to decide
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Fiancée not entitled to money set aside for niece’s education

Keep promise to niece, but plan for partner’s future too

Fiancée demands re-routing of promised money: red flag?

Stick to your promise, but assure your fiancée of your commitment

NTA for helping niece. Fiancée may fear future. Be understanding

Supportive comment defends man’s promise to fund niece’s college education.

Uncle promised to fund niece’s college despite fiancee’s objections

Generous act sparks no debate in comment section!

Niece over fiancée? Engage in couples counseling to resolve conflict.

Niece’s college fund sparks pre-wedding money fight. NTA.

Fiancée is scared for their baby’s future, but don’t stiff the niece. Compromise and start saving for the baby too.

Fiancée anxious about baby’s future, but niece’s college fund promised

Protect the college fund from entitled fiance NTA

Supportive comment defends promise to fund niece’s education

Keep your promise, be a person of integrity.

Being understanding but firm: How to handle financial commitments

Partner’s concerns during pregnancy considered, advice to ease anxiety given.

NAH comment shows understanding, calls out unnecessary backlash towards fiancée.

Navigating financial promises and fear during pregnancy.

Keep your promise to your niece, NTA.

NTA defends funding niece’s college, no conflict with fiance’s child

Navigating finances while pregnant can be tough. NAH for now.

Niece’s college fund causes fight with pregnant fiancée. NAH situation.
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Engaging response to fiancée’s selfish behavior.

Supportive comment defends man’s plan to fund niece’s college.

Unclear finances cause tension between man and pregnant fiancée
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Pregnant fiancée upset man funds niece’s college, commenter says NTA

Keep the promise to your niece, NTA.

Fiancée cruel for trying to take away promised college funds

NTA for wanting to help your niece’s college fund , fiancee being selfish

Priorities shift with parenthood, but supporting niece’s tuition reasonable.

Fiancée demands nephew’s college fund, gets called out.

Fiancée wants him to break promise to his niece ♂️, NTA stands his ground

Keeping family promises is important, NTA. Communication is key

Choosing to fund niece’s college sparks fight with fiancée. NTA.

Defending NTA, but suggesting empathy for pregnant fiancée

Starting your kid’s college fund now may help allay fears

Fiancée’s greed over niece’s college causes major fight!

Balancing financial priorities causing tension with pregnant fiancée

Secure your promise: Will the fund to your niece

Pregnancy can make one more sensitive, but fiancee is still TA ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Navigating pregnancy hormones and family priorities during engagement ✨
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Man’s promise to niece causes fight with fiancée. NTA.

Suggestion to categorize money to avoid financial anxiety.

Keep true to your word and promise, NTA

Stand your ground and don’t let her control the fund!

Fiancée vs Niece’s college fund: Support from your family matters

Support for uncle’s promise, but with condition of equal provision.

Suggests starting an education fund for their own child instead.

Supporting niece while prioritizing family, but wife’s concern valid. NTA.

Don’t back down, keep your promise to your niece! NTA

NTA commenter shares financial advice for future college savings.

NTA! Stick to your promise but consider a middle ground compromise.

Money fights? Counseling and prenup recommended. Fiancé is TA

Family support is important, withdrawing money before college is unfair.

NTA defends decision to fund niece’s college, calls fiancée AH.

Supportive comment suggests a plan to calm fiancee’s nerves.

Prioritizing niece’s college fund causes drama with fiancée ♀️

Niece’s college fund causes fight with fiancée

Keeping a promise? Admirable. Counseling before marriage? Wise move.

Generous Uncle’s Promise Sparks Fiancée’s Outrage!

NTA. Promised niece’s fund. Unfair to take away before college.

Protecting your child’s future with a prenup and trust

Support for man’s promise to fund niece’s college education

NTA prioritized niece’s education fund, fiancée disregards commitment. Stand firm.

Inheriting money for niece’s college causes tension with fiancée

Applause for a stand-up guy supporting his niece’s college

NTA’s niece college fund causes conflict with pregnant fiancée

NTA comment reminds OP to stay true to self over money

Generous uncle faces backlash from fiance for helping niece’s college.

Promising to fund niece’s college causes major fight with fiancée. NTA.

Stick to your promise and not be an a**hole!

Breaking a promise to fund niece’s college is not cool

NTA, but communication is key in joint finances.

Fiancée upset over uncle’s promise to fund niece’s college. NTA.

Uncle’s promise to fund niece’s college causes fiancée drama. NTA.

Clear written plan and prenup needed for fiancee’s attitude.

Fiancée wants uncle to break his promise to his niece? NTA
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