You’ve probably heard of family drama, but this story takes it to a whole new level! A woman shares her frustrations with her ex-stepdad, who has a history of incontinence issues that have caused tension within the family. His bizarre habit of involving others in his accidents has left everyone feeling uncomfortable and disgusted. The situation has escalated to the point where the woman refuses to let him visit her new home. Let’s dive into this messy tale!
The Pee Pants Incident

Cleaning Up the Mess

The Cat Gets Involved

A Repeating Pattern

Suspicion Arises

Siblings Share Their Struggles

Mom Steps In

The Shitpocalypse

Cleaning Up Again

Bleach to the Rescue

Confrontation Time ⚠️

Mom’s Had Enough

The End of a Marriage

Years Pass ⏳

The Pee Pants Game Returns

A Hotel Solution

The Final Straw

A Disgusting Kink?

Incontinence Issues Tear Family Apart
This ex-stepdad’s incontinence has caused major family drama, with his bizarre habit of involving others in his accidents leaving everyone feeling uncomfortable and disgusted. From peeing his pants to a full-blown ‘shitpocalypse’, the family has had enough. The woman refuses to let him visit her new home, suspecting that this might be a non-consensual kink of his. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this messy situation…
Commenter and replies agree that the man’s behavior is likely a non-consensual fetish and disgusting.

Commenter supports OP’s decision to distance from incontinent family member.

Commenter shares personal experience with mentally handicapped father.

NTA. Stepfather’s bizarre incontinence habit drives family away

Family suffers from father’s incontinence fetish and verbal abuse. Traumatizing.

Family members share their experiences with a similar situation

Spray him with a hose? Savage but effective

NTA suggests intervention for family member’s bizarre incontinence habit

Commenter suspects incontinence habit is a fetish

Commenter shares personal story and calls out OP’s behavior. NTA.

“Apoocalypse” opportunity missed. NTA comment and gross replies

Kink or not, keep that a**hole out of your house

Family member’s bizarre incontinence habit causes discomfort and division.

Commenter suspects man’s incontinence is a kink or power move

Taking ownership of a disability is important.

Commenter agrees with OP’s NTA verdict, expresses shock and disbelief

Suspicions confirmed: NTA thinks husband is faking incontinence.

Respect your home and family, keep your kids safe!

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s bizarre situation, advises avoidance and confrontation.

Setting boundaries with creepy family member

Compassionate caregiver shares experience, calls out possible abuse

Commenter receives hilarious NTA validation from reply.

Disturbing fetish behavior involving children, call the police ASAP

Daughter realizes father’s incontinence is part of a disturbing pattern

Man refuses to use adult diapers and drives family away

Standing up against a bizarre and uncomfortable fetish

NTA. Don’t feel bad for a man who rubs his waste everywhere
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A decade-long bizarre incontinence habit. NTA.

Commenter calls out man’s disturbing behavior and suggests therapy.

Commenter refuses to let incontinence habit ruin their home

Doubtful of man’s incontinence claim, suspecting kink. Keep away.

Inappropriate fetish involving children, NTA for cutting contact.

Concerned commenter asks for more information about man’s condition.

Non-consensual kink is disgusting. NTA for leaving.

Commenter expresses disgust at incontinence habit, supports family’s decision.

Is it really a fetish?

Commenter is furious at incontinent man’s behavior, suggests extreme punishment

Commenter compares situation to Seinfeld and adds humor

Commenter grossed out but agrees with the OP. NTA.
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Man’s incontinence may be a kink, family needs boundaries

NTA. Concerning power kink behavior, cut all contact ASAP.

Family’s compassion led to a bizarre incontinence habit spreading

Expert dominatrix shares advice on confronting pee fetishist

Commenter calls out bizarre incontinence habit as disgusting and vile

Protect your home and consent from this incontinent violator

Deliberate incontinence and fecal shoving? NTA for sure.

Red flag raised by comment: sexual behavior involving child.
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Red flag: commenter’s experience with similar behavior in nursing home

Cutting off a creepy incontinent family member

Blunt honesty recommended for bizarre kink-related incontinence situation.

Commenter suggests solutions for incontinence, OP’s dad refuses help. ♀️

Fight fire with fire hose!
