Man Upset after Wife Goes to Gender-reveal Appointment Without Him

An expecting father missed the gender reveal appointment and asked his wife to reschedule, but she refused as the appointments are restricted to specific times. She went alone with her mother and the husband later found out. He blew up at his wife, accusing her of going behind his back and ruining the news of finding out the gender of their baby. The wife claimed he was neglectful and irresponsible for prioritizing a party over their child. Reddit users gave their opinions, but what do you think? Read the full story to decide if he’s an a**hole or not.

Father misses the gender-reveal appointment, upset about wife going alone.

Husband upset as wife attends gender-reveal appointment without him

Wife goes to gender-reveal alone after husband denies request

Father misses gender-reveal, blames wife, argument ensues.

Husband feels deceived after wife’s solo gender-reveal appointment

Are they the a**hole for going alone?

Man realizes he was wrong for being upset about gender-reveal

Husband left out of gender-reveal appointment, feels betrayed

Parent-to-be asks for conflict resolution, not parenting advice.

Man misses gender-reveal appointment, wife goes without him

Expecting a child is an exciting time for couples, but disagreements on how to handle certain situations can cause tension. In this case, one man was upset that his wife went to their gender-reveal appointment without him. He had hoped to find out the gender of their baby, but last-minute plans with a friend caused him to miss the appointment. While he suggested canceling and rescheduling, his wife insisted on going alone, causing him to feel left out and upset. When he found out she had gone with her mom, he blew up at her and accused her of going behind his back. She argued that he had prioritized a party over their child and he accused her of being selfish. Now, he’s asking if he’s the a**hole. What do you think? Share your thoughts and opinions in the comments below.

Man prioritizes birthday party over wife and daughter’s health and safety. YTA.

Man misses gender-reveal appointment for friend’s birthday party. Wife upset. YTA.

OP is the a**hole for prioritizing a party over his wife’s appointment

Man prioritizes party over wife’s necessary ultrasound. YTA.

Commenter and replies roast man for prioritizing party over wife’s gender reveal YTA

Man prioritized friend over baby’s gender reveal, wife rightfully upset. YTA.

Man misses important appointment and shames wife for keeping commitment ‍♂️

Man prioritizes friend’s birthday over baby’s gender-reveal, blames wife. YTA.

Man prioritizes party over finding out child’s gender, earns YTA judgement.

Man cancels wife’s crucial doctor appointment for party, gets upset. YTA.

A hilarious exchange about a missed gender reveal appointment.

OP is the a**hole for prioritizing the birthday party over wife’s gender-reveal appointment ‍♂️

OP misses gender-reveal appointment for friend’s party. Wife not at fault. YTA

Dad-to-be misses gender reveal, throws tantrum over wife’s delivery.

Man misses wife’s medical appointment to attend birthday party, gets called out by commenters YTA

Commenter calls out immature father-to-be in gender-reveal dispute

Man’s sexist comment backfires in replies.

Husband’s immature behavior towards wife’s gender reveal

Missing out on gender reveal makes him YTA ‍♂️

Commenter calls out father for missing gender reveal appointment.

Selfish behavior causes conflict in couple’s gender-reveal appointment.

Don’t prioritize a party over an important pregnancy appointment ‍♂️ YTA.

Man prioritizes party over unborn child, faces divorce.

Man misses gender reveal and blames wife, commenters call YTA

Friendship vs Family: A YTA dilemma

Man prioritizes friend’s birthday over wife and child’s gender reveal. YTA ‍♂️

Commenter calls out OP for being selfish, YTA verdict.

Missed gender-reveal appointment due to party; YTA according to wife.

Man criticized for prioritizing friend’s birthday over gender-reveal appointment

Commenter calls out OP’s sexism and hopes for wife’s departure ‍♀️

Commenter calls out selfish behavior and lack of choice.

Commenter defends wife from controlling husband, calls him out on poor planning ‍♂️

Attend the gender reveal appointment with your spouse! YTA.

Missing gender-reveal appointment for birthday? YTA prioritise your family

User gets roasted for being too obsessed with baby’s gender

Father-to-be criticized for prioritizing himself over his daughter

Commenter calls out entitled behavior in a scathing response

Curious commenter questions the timeline of events

Don’t skip gender-reveal for a party and then pout. YTA

Man prioritizes party over wife’s appointment, YTA.

Don’t miss appointments if you’re interested in the outcome

Missing your child’s gender-reveal is a big deal. YTA

Commenter calls out father prioritizing friend over unborn child

Prioritizing party over pregnant wife’s gender-reveal appointment? YTA.

Man prioritizes friend’s party over wife’s appointment. YTA and owe apology

Husband demands wife cancel doctor’s appointment for gender reveal party. YTA

OBGYN PA calls out husband for missing gender-reveal appointment. YTA

Prioritizing a gender-reveal over a friend’s birthday? YTA.

Commenter calls out selfish behavior in gender-reveal appointment. ‍♀️

Man forgets friend’s birthday and yells at pregnant wife. YTA ‍

Red-faced husband gets roasted for childish behavior

Man misses wife’s gender-reveal because of friend’s birthday, calls wife TA

Donkey husband misses the point of 20-week scan. YTA.

Commenter calls out OP for unreasonable expectations and behavior

Commenter calls out OP for being the a**hole.

Commenter calls out man for prioritizing friend over wife and baby

Commenter calls out man for prioritizing adult birthday over wife’s appointment