A husband found himself in a difficult situation after trying to help his wife regain her pre-pregnancy body by encouraging her to eat like his sister. Both women had given birth around the same time, but his sister, an influencer, managed to bounce back quickly and look flawless. His wife, on the other hand, struggled to lose weight despite exercising regularly and attending therapy sessions. Read on to find out how the husband’s well-intentioned efforts led to an emotional confrontation.
Sister’s Flawless Post-Baby Body

Envious Wife, Influencer Sister

Wife’s Struggles and Comparisons

Therapy Revelations

Seeking Sister’s Secret ️♂️

Christmas Fridge Inspection

Grocery Shopping Intervention

Wife’s Willingness to Change

Tossing Out the Junk ️

Wife’s Furious Reaction

Defending Her Comfort Food

Sister’s Advantages

Husband’s Help Backfires
In an attempt to help his wife regain her pre-pregnancy body, a husband tried to encourage her to eat like his sister, who had quickly bounced back after giving birth. However, his well-intentioned efforts led to an emotional confrontation, with his wife accusing him of comparing her negatively to his sister and feeling like she had lost him since their daughter’s arrival. Share your thoughts on this delicate situation and the challenges faced by new mothers.
YTA for comparing your wife’s body to your 21-year-old sister’s.

YTA for throwing out her food and being look-obsessed

YTA for being creepy and uninterested in your wife’s efforts.

Man compares wife’s body to sister’s, tries to change her diet. YTA

Don’t impose your diet on your partner without talking first! YTA

OP is YTA for focusing on wife’s body instead of emotional needs
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Commenter calls out husband’s unrealistic expectations and double standards

Husband criticized for trying to solve wife’s body problem. YTA

Husband’s misguided effort to help wife’s body image issues

YTA for body shaming your wife. Hope she leaves you

Commenter calls out OP for comparing wife to social media influencer sister. YTA

Commenter calls out OP for being TA and suggests romantic gesture

Husband’s unrealistic expectations and lack of support for wife’s post-pregnancy body.

Controlling behavior? YTA. Show her she has nothing to fear

Commenter calls out OP’s unhealthy behavior and misogyny.

Husband’s approach to wife’s post-pregnancy body sparks debate

Commenter calls out OP for being TA, with disgust.

Don’t compare your wife’s body to anyone else’s. YTA
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Commenter calls out OP for body shaming and controlling behavior

Comment section shut down by epic clapback

YTA for pushing too hard and comparing wife to sister

Spouse criticized for body by husband, called YTA by commenter.

Husband’s attempt to help wife backfires. YTA according to comment.
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Insensitive husband shames wife’s post-pregnancy body. YTA.

Commenter calls out OP for being TA and an idiot
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Don’t be a food controller, YTA!

Skeptical commenter doubts authenticity of man’s sister obsession.

Commenter calls out husband’s misguided attempts to help wife’s diet

Commenter calls out husband for being controlling about wife’s diet.

Husband prioritizes sister’s body over wife’s post-pregnancy struggles

Husband’s lack of acceptance and over eagerness to help criticized

Man compares wife’s body to sister’s, called out for unhealthy behavior

Commenter calls out OP for misogynistic behavior towards wife

Ageism in body shaming? YTA for comparing post-pregnancy bodies.

Commenter calls out AH behavior, no support in replies.

Commenter calls out husband’s harmful behavior towards wife’s body image

Commenter calls out man for controlling wife’s food choices. YTA.

Commenter calls out OP for forcing diet change. YTA confirmed

Husband’s attempt to make wife look like sister is creepy. YTA.

User calls out husband’s behavior in post-pregnancy struggles

Commenter calls out OP for being an a**hole

Commenter calls out OP for obvious wrong behavior

Husband’s attempt to control wife’s post-pregnancy diet backfires. YTA.

Comparing your wife to your sister is a no-go . Listen to her needs.

Commenter calls out OP for lacking empathy and being r**e

Don’t be The Food Police or compare your wife to your sister

Support your wife’s post-pregnancy body instead of policing her food. YTA

Commenter calls out OP for being an insensitive, look-obsessed a**hole

Man tries to change wife’s diet to look like influencer sister. YTA.

Husband gets called out for comparing wife’s body to sister’s

Last Updated on April 26, 2023 by Diply Social Team