Imagine this: you’ve been looking forward to your best friend’s wedding for two years. You’re the best man, and you’ve spent countless hours preparing the perfect speech. But suddenly, your girlfriend’s father passes away, and the funeral is scheduled for the same day as the wedding. What would you do? One man found himself in this heart-wrenching predicament and shared his story online. Let’s dive into the details…
The Wedding Plan

Tragic News

Funeral vs. Wedding

The Heartbreaking Dilemma

GF’s Emotional Plea

Tension Rises

GF’s Anger Erupts

Kicked Out

Reaching Out

Commitment to GF

Sacrificing the Wedding

Missing the Best Day

A Heart-Wrenching Decision
In a truly gut-wrenching situation, our protagonist is forced to choose between attending his girlfriend’s father’s funeral and being the best man at his childhood friend’s wedding. Tensions rise as his girlfriend’s family questions his loyalty, and he ultimately decides to attend the funeral, sacrificing the wedding he’s been looking forward to for years. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this heartrending dilemma…
Torn between best friend’s wedding and GF’s father’s funeral

Heartbreaking stories of unsupportive partners during times of grief





Tough choice between best friend’s wedding and GF’s father’s funeral



Choosing between love and duty
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Man torn between funeral and wedding, receives backlash from girlfriend’s family.

Choose the wedding, this family is unfair and not good people

Torn between a funeral and a wedding? NAH suggests a solution

Commenter defends OP’s decision to attend best friend’s wedding.

Torn between best friend’s wedding and GF’s father’s funeral ♂️. Commenter advises prioritizing GF and family
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Navigating grief and friendship: when NTA meets ESH

Torn between love and loyalty. YTA if you skip funeral.
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Choosing your best friend’s wedding over your GF’s father’s funeral? YWBTA

Torn between funeral and wedding, no good choices

Choose the wedding and celebrate life with the living

Sensitive situation, leaving girlfriend’s father’s funeral for friend’s wedding

Torn between two important commitments, tough choice. Risky wedding attendance.

Best friend’s wedding or GF’s father’s funeral? Heartbreaking decision

Supportive Redditors defend commenter facing tough situation

Supportive commenter advises reevaluating relationship after insensitive response to support.

Best friend’s wedding or GF’s father’s funeral? Seeking advice


Funeral or wedding? Commenters weigh in on tough decision.

Man struggles to choose between GF’s father’s funeral and best friend’s wedding, comment suggests he should prioritize funeral.

Prioritize funeral over wedding, friend would do the same ✊

Torn between a funeral and a wedding

Grief is irrational, but cruelty is not excusable. NTA.
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Torn between a funeral and a wedding, but no a**holes here

Choosing the wedding over the funeral may end the relationship

Sympathetic commenter advises choosing friend’s wedding over GF’s father’s funeral

Torn between love and duty, what would you choose?

Man stuck between best friend’s wedding and girlfriend’s father’s funeral

Supportive comment to man in tough position, dealing with grief.


Choosing between a funeral and a wedding, a tough decision

Torn between love and duty, what should he do?

Torn between a funeral and a wedding, no right answer

Choosing a wedding over a funeral? YTA according to comments

A tough choice, but support is all around
