Losing a child is one of the most devastating experiences a couple can go through. But imagine having to face cruel comments from your own family member during this time of grief. This heartbroken couple had to deal with their brother-in-law’s vile remarks at a family gathering, and the husband’s response left everyone speechless.
A Devastating Loss

The Difficult Decision

Emotional Grieving

Family Gathering Nightmare

Sympathies and Cruelty

Confronting the BIL

The Explosive Comment

Leaving the Gathering

Sister’s Call

Justifying the BIL’s Behavior?

Cussing Out the Sister

Update: Sister’s Reaction

The Truth Comes Out

Sister’s Apology and Realization

Sister’s Support

A Family Torn Apart by Insensitive Remarks
This heartbroken couple had to endure their brother-in-law’s cruel comments at a family gathering after losing their baby. The husband’s explosive response left everyone speechless, but was it justified? The sister initially apologized but tried to justify her husband’s behavior. However, after learning the truth about what he actually said, she was horrified and is now considering leaving him. The couple now has their sister’s full support, but the family remains shaken by the insensitive remarks.
Heartless BIL gets called out for harassing grieving mother. NTA

Compassionate commenter defends couple, calls out BIL’s attitude

NTA. Commenter sympathizes with heartbroken brother-in-law and condemns rude man.
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Grieving man defends wife against cruel abortion insult. #NTA

Support for NTA and suggestion to cut off toxic family member

NTA, but commenter questions pro-life stance and adoption record.

Respect should be given even if opinions differ.

Heart-wrenching decision defended, BIL called out. NTA

Defending grieving parents against insensitive BIL and sister’s defense.

Defending NTA against BIL’s hurtful comments, with profanity and conviction.

Pro-lifers lack understanding of pregnancy and women’s health. NTA.
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Heartbroken OP receives support after brother-in-law’s cruel comment. NTA.

Heartless commentor called out, empathetic replies offer support. ❤️

Heartfelt condolences. Cut them off to heal. NTA

Pro-life commenter supports OP and sympathizes with their situation.

NTA stands up to BIL’s hypocrisy regarding abortion.
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Defending family is important. BIL’s behavior was completely unacceptable.

Pro-life man called out for hypocrisy, NTA wins

Defending wife’s honor after BIL’s despicable behavior. NTA

Defending NTA judgement for protecting wife from cruel harassment

Defending his wife, OP is NTA in face of tragedy

Compassionate comment on abortion and condolences for the loss.

A heartfelt defense of the tough choice of abortion. ❤

Justified but violent? NTA comment suggests physical retaliation for insults.

NTA commenter calls out BIL and sister’s awful values

Compassionate comment defends grieving mother and condemns politicization of abortion. ❤️
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User defends man’s harsh comment towards insensitive brother-in-law.

NTA for standing up to cruel brother-in-law

NTA stands up to cruel brother-in-law, internet cheers

Standing up for his wife and unborn child. NTA

Not the a**hole! Commenter deserves a medal for standing up.

Being a saint for not punching BIL after cruel comment. NTA

Standing up for family in tough times. NTA
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Compassionate comment defends pro-life stance and encourages empathy ❤️

Heartless comment met with overwhelming support and empathy.

Supportive comment defends wife’s difficult decision.

NTA, standing up to harassment is important.
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Supportive comment defends BIL’s reaction to hurtful accusation.

Sympathetic commenter supports OP’s response to insensitive brother-in-law.

NTA shuts down BIL’s cruel comments about wife’s stillborn daughter

Justified but mean comment to BIL. NTA, condolences
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Pro-lifers only care about unborn babies, not actual lives. NTA

Condolences given, commenter calls out inconsiderate behavior. NTA.
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Brother-in-law verbally attacked a vulnerable woman. NTA for standing up.

Brother-in-law accused wife of murder, NTA for standing up.

Pro-life only means pro-birth. NTA for defending wife.

Compassionate comment offers support to grieving brother-in-law.

Defending wife after termination, facing harsh judgement. You’re NTA

Standing up against abortion shaming. Respect for this person. ✊

Respect for privacy and condolences are the only appropriate responses.

Standing up against abusive behavior and hypocrisy. NTA

NTA comment defends straightforwardness with poetic comparisons.

NTA defended against BIL’s lack of empathy and manipulative behavior.

Supportive comment, NTA verdict, and positive encouragement

Doubting the authenticity of the story, but NTA.

NTA comment receives approval from 76-year-old mother

Pro-birth vs Pro-life debate heats up in comment section

NTA. The BIL was insensitive and deserves to be cut off.

Heartbroken mother shares why abortion can be a selfless act
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NTA commenter calls out unacceptable behavior and beliefs

Supportive comment to heartbroken brother-in-law after insensitive remark.

Supportive comment on pro-life hypocrisy and personal experience.

Compassionate response to insensitive brother-in-law. NTA wins.

Standing up to bullies: shutting down abortion-shaming.

Compassionate comment supports grieving parent and criticizes pro-life argument

Heartless comment sparks support for grieving brother-in-law ❤️

Defending wife against cruel comments about abortion. NTA

Heartless man gets called out for verbally assaulting grieving mother. ❤️
