Picture this: you’ve adopted one of your ex’s children, raised them as your own, and now your ex is back with two more kids, expecting you to do the same. That’s exactly the predicament one man found himself in. After years of raising his daughter and adopted son, his ex reappeared with two more children, demanding he take on the responsibility of fathering and financially supporting them. But he had other ideas…
A Bitter Breakup and a New Beginning ️
Fighting for Custody ⚖️
A Second Child Enters the Picture
Stepping Up as a Dad
Adopting and Raising the Kids Alone
Ex Returns with More Kids
An Unreasonable Request ❌
Pushing Her Agenda ♂️
The Kids Call Him Dad
Setting the Record Straight ️
Confrontation at a Sports Game ⚽
Telling the Kids the Truth
Ex’s Furious Reaction
Accusations Fly ️
Father Figure or Just Fed Up? ♂️
This man has been through it all: raising his daughter and adopted son alone, fighting for custody, and now dealing with his ex’s unreasonable demands. He’s drawn a line in the sand, refusing to take in her other two kids, and even telling them he’s not their dad. But is he being heartless or just protecting himself and his family? Let’s dive into the internet’s top reactions to this emotional rollercoaster…
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NTA. Commenters advise calling CPS and getting a restraining order.
Commenter supports OP, criticizes ex’s behavior, and suggests CPS intervention.
NTA. Consider a restraining order. Concerned about new children’s welfare.
Man denies being the kids’ dad, but ex is manipulative. NTA
Commenter suggests getting a restraining order for ex’s behavior.
NTA for telling ex’s kids you’re not their dad
Man denies being a father to ex’s kids. Commenters express shock.
Setting boundaries with ex’s kids to avoid legal responsibility
Explaining the situation to kids is NTA, but misunderstandings happen
Ex’s irresponsible behavior called out. NTA wins.
NTA stands firm in not taking responsibility for ex’s kids
Man compares step-parenting to adopting a dog, NTA.
Choosing honesty over lies, NTA for telling the truth
Protect yourself and the kids. Document everything and call authorities
Hilarious comment suggests Maury show for paternity test drama
Trying to be honest with ex’s kids, NTA. Mother emotionally abusive.
Commenter sympathizes with man, calls ex ‘mean and irresponsible’
Is the ex manipulating the situation?
Heartbreaking situation. Should CPS be involved?
Speculation about the mother’s behavior sparks discussion
Sassy response to ex’s kids sparks debate
Ex demands support for non-biological kids, man says NTA
Exonerated! Commenter not the a**hole for telling the truth.
Compassionate NTA suggests calling CPS for younger kids’ sake
Don’t let her escape her parental responsibilities. Call CPS
Protecting his children from manipulative ex. Good move, NTA
Document and report harassment to authorities. NTA
Thought-provoking comment on parenting choices
Taking in the son was enough. NTA for setting boundaries.
Ex’s kids not his, ex says not his place. NTA wins.
Standing up for himself and the kids, but is he TA?
Protect yourself and the kids. NTA, call the police
NTA suggests calling CPS on ex, but is it extreme?
Insulting comment receives no support from community
Protecting the kids: legal action and CPS intervention suggested
Not the a**hole, but why did he feel the need?
Commenter suggests extreme measures against irresponsible mother.
Choosing not to be a father figure. NTA wins.
Man refuses to be an easy access plug and play father figure
Controversial comment sparks outrage
Heartbroken for the kids, but NTA – not his responsibility
Commenter advises getting legal help and taking action against ex.
Controversial comment sparks agreement for permanent birth control
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Commenter questions ex’s poor choices in having kids with multiple men.
Commenter calls ex ‘unstable’ – NTA wins this round
Heartbreaking story of children caught in the middle
Protecting the kids from a crazy ex. NTA
Protective dad takes legal action to keep ex away from kids
Stand up for yourself and the kids, consider calling CPS
User suggests extreme measure for irresponsible mother. NTA
Commenter advocates for children’s safety amidst unstable situation.
Don’t let your ex pressure you into assuming any unwanted role
Seek help immediately to deal with harassment from ex-partner.
Stepping up as a father figure, NTA but ex is delusional
NTA for being honest with the kids. Call CPS ASAP
NTA but concerned for the children’s safety. Call CPS and get a restraining order.
Heartbreaking situation. NTA for setting boundaries with ex’s kids.
Commenter suggests calling CPS after shocking revelation. Replies clarify.
Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries.
Ignore the ex’s drama and get a restraining order. NTA
Speechless reaction to the comment and no replies.
Support for standing up to emotionally abusive ex.
Protecting the kids from unstable ex, NTA wins.
Ex’s kids not his, man NTA. Drama ensues
Standing up for yourself can be tough ♂️, but sometimes necessary.
Standing up for yourself and your safety
Heartbreaking situation for the kids, but NTA for the man.
