A man thought it would be a great idea to bring his entire family to his girlfriend’s workplace as a server to meet her. While his family enjoyed the surprise and even left a huge tip, his girlfriend did not appreciate the gesture. She called him a jack*ss and went off on him for blindsiding her.
He argued that she never seemed interested in meeting his family before, so he figured this was the only way to make it happen. Was he wrong for surprising her? Or was his girlfriend overreacting? Read on for the full story and find out what happened.
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Man surprises girlfriend by bringing entire family to her workplace
A man decides to surprise his girlfriend at her workplace by bringing his entire family to meet her. However, the girlfriend is left feeling blindsided and upset, accusing him of not giving her a say in the matter.
Despite putting on a brave face and serving the family well, the girlfriend expresses her true feelings to the man, calling him a jack*ss. Did the man go too far with the surprise or was it a sweet gesture?
Read the full story to find out what the internet thinks, and what advice they have to offer to the couple.
YTA for blindsiding your girlfriend with your whole family at work ♂️
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OP blindsided girlfriend by bringing entire family to her workplace – YTA

OP’s surprise visit to girlfriend’s workplace with family is manipulative. YTA.

Surprising girlfriend at work with family? YTA and crossed boundaries.

Man brings entire family to girlfriend’s job without warning, YTA

Surprising girlfriend with family at work? YTA. Apologize and prepare.

Curiosity about the tip aside, OP is YTA and unlikely to learn from this.

Man brings family to girlfriend’s work without warning, gets called out

Forced family introduction at work? YTA, no doubt
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Bringing family to girlfriend’s workplace without warning is YTA move

Surprising your girlfriend with your entire family at her workplace? YTA

Commenter calls out OP’s creepy behavior, hopes girlfriend leaves him

Bringing your entire family to meet your gf at her workplace? YTA.

Surprising your partner at work: romantic or selfish? YTA learns the hard way.

OP ignores girlfriend’s wishes and brings entire family to her work. YTA
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Forcing your partner to meet your family at work? YTA ♀️

Bringing your family to your partner’s workplace is inappropriate

Man surprises girlfriend at work with family, gets YTA verdict

Commenter strongly disagrees and drops an F-bomb.

Former servers agree: bringing family to work is a**hole move

Bringing your family to your girlfriend’s workplace without warning? YTA ♂️

Man brings entire family to girlfriend’s workplace unannounced, traps her. YTA
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Forcing a surprise family meeting at work? YTA ♂️

A surprise workplace visit from partner’s family leads to YTA verdict.

Surprising your partner at work? Think again! YTA

Commenter calls out young man for being a jacka** YTA

Commenter calls out man’s manipulative behavior – YTA
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Boyfriend spontaneously brings family to girlfriend’s workplace. Commenters say YTA.
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Invading her workplace and taking away her choice – YTA ♂️

Surprising your girlfriend at work with your family? YTA.

Bringing your entire family to someone’s workplace unannounced: YTA

Surprising your girlfriend at work? That’s a**hole move

Surprising your partner with family at work? YTA, according to commenters

Surprising your partner at work? YTA. Respect boundaries ♀️

Surprising girlfriend with family at work makes him the a**hole

Surprising your partner with family at work? YTA
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Commenter calls out man’s violation of trust and boundaries

Ouch! Looks like this surprise backfired

Man brings entire family to girlfriend’s workplace without warning, YTA

Man brings family to girlfriend’s workplace without warning – YTA

Surprising girlfriend with family at work? YTA, apologize ASAP ♂️

Ambushing your girlfriend at work with family is a**hole move

Commenter thinks OP is a jerk and hopes for breakup

Surprising girlfriend with family at her work = YTA move

Commenter calls out man’s manipulative behavior.

Experienced a similar situation, YTA brought friends to workplace

Commenter calls out the man for his behavior. Yikes.

Commenter calls out man for being a jerk

Bringing your family to your girlfriend’s workplace without warning? YTA

Over eager boyfriend surprises girlfriend at work – YTA

Surprising your girlfriend at work with family? YTA ♂️
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Commenter finds man’s surprise visit embarrassing. YTA

Surprising your partner’s family at work? YTA according to commenters

Controlling behavior? YTA brought entire family to girlfriend’s workplace

GF’s response to YTA comment is perfect: “YTJA”

Commenter thinks man is the a**hole for surprise visit.
