One man’s attempt to include his wife in the family gift exchange leads to a family feud and a ruined Christmas. After his mother refuses to buy gifts for his wife and child, the man confronts her in hopes of resolving the issue. When his mother decides to cancel Christmas altogether, the man takes it upon himself to host the holiday event. However, his sisters are unhappy with the change and one even cries during the celebration. The man’s mother is on vacation during the ordeal and has yet to weigh in on the situation. Read on to find out how this family drama unfolds and whether the man truly ruined Christmas.
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Mom’s gift bias causes tension between son and wife
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Standing up for spouse ruined family Christmas.
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Man stands up for wife, ruins family Christmas ❄️
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Sisters cry and blow up after man stands up for wife
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Family drama ensues after husband stands up for wife
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Man stands up for wife, ruins family Christmas ❌
When a man’s mother refuses to buy gifts for his wife, he tries to explain that his wife is now part of the family. However, his mother doesn’t see it that way and decides to cancel Christmas altogether. The man and his wife decide to celebrate Christmas with his sisters and their partners, but it doesn’t go as planned. One sister cries and the other two are miserable. Now, the man’s mother is considering canceling Christmas permanently since her children are all grown up and have their own families. Read on to find out what happens next and how the man’s decision to stand up for his wife ruined family Christmas.
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Stand up for your family, the rest will sort themselves out. NTA

NTA for expecting gifts for spouse, but damage is done ♂️

Grandma boycotts Christmas, ruins family gathering. NTA for standing up

OP could have handled gift situation better, but everyone acted immaturely

Standing up for family growth, not ruining Christmas

Always bring a gift for everyone during the holidays

Debate over whether or not mom should buy gifts for everyone.

Commenter advises OP on handling situation with wife and mother.

Fair gift-giving or transactional? Engaging discussion on family dynamics.

Stand up for your spouse, not your malicious mother

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Is it really a gift if it’s forced?
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Grandchild left out of Christmas gifts, NTA stands up.

Mixed opinions on who’s at fault, but wife may be entitled

Standing up to narcissist family dynamics. NTA wins Christmas
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Stood up to mom’s manipulative behavior, NTA

Family drama over Christmas gifts, entitlement and drama ensue!

Commenter suggests possible reason for mother’s abnormal behavior.

Standing up for family during holidays can cause chaos

Opinions on gift-giving vary, but it’s not fair for the wife to be excluded. NTA, but forcing a gift isn’t the solution

Commenter suggests skipping drama and taking a vacation instead ️

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Stand up for your spouse and start your own traditions ❤️

Navigating family dynamics during the holidays can be tricky

NTA. Commenter understands mom’s POV but wife comes first.

Man defends wife, stands up to mother’s exclusionary behavior. NTA

Mother-in-law plays victim, husband stands up for wife

Standing up for his wife, he’s not the a**hole.

Defending his wife made for a Christmas disaster ♂️
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Create new traditions with ❤️ and leave the negativity behind

Man overreacts when mom doesn’t buy partner gifts, gets called drama llama.

Defend your partner, not your family’s toxic behavior. ♂️

Gift-giving drama leads to family Christmas chaos

Include your SIL in gift-giving, even if it’s small

Traditions evolve and so should people, drama is not mandatory

Adult Christmas gifts: Yay or nay? Commenters weigh in

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User empathizes with mother’s mental disability, defends her actions.
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Don’t let your mom ruin your holiday spirit ❤️

Stand up for your wife, prioritize your family ❤️

Breaking the tradition: compromising for a better Christmas ❌

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Last Updated on April 18, 2023 by Diply Social Team