Picture this: you’re excited to celebrate your engagement with your closest friends, but some of them just can’t let go of the past. That’s the situation one man found himself in when his fiancée, Mel, decided not to invite two of their friends to their intimate engagement party. These friends, Janet and Lily, have been holding a grudge ever since an unfortunate incident involving another friend, Sarah, who tried to confess her feelings to the man years ago. Now, with tensions high and emotions running wild, let’s dive into the drama that unfolded.
The Happy Couple

The Friend Group

The Unwanted Confession

Apologies and Forgiveness

Friendship Restored… Mostly

The Grudge Holders

Reliving the Past

Engagement Party Decisions

Confrontation and Backlash

Fiancé Snaps

Letting Go of the Past ⏳

Mixed Reactions

The Fallout: Friends in Turmoil
So, here we are: an engagement party with two friends left out in the cold, and a fiancé who’s had enough of their toxic behavior. The couple is now dealing with the aftermath, as some friends think the man was too harsh, while Mel struggles to find a solution to the ongoing drama. But let’s be real, who wants their special day ruined by friends who can’t let go of the past? Let’s take a look at what the internet has to say about this sticky situation…
NTA! Commenter suspects Janet and Lily had a fantasy planned out

NTA. Friends compare Mel to Sarah and insult her. Stand up!

Uninvite toxic friends from wedding, celebrate with supportive people instead

NTA. The comment and replies suggest the OP should have put a stop to his friends’ behavior a long time ago.

Friendship drama and toxic people. Time to cut ties?

Commenter calls out OP for not standing up earlier

Commenter calls out OP for not addressing harassment earlier

Standing up to toxic friends like a boss

NTA stands up for fiancée against disrespectful ‘friends’ ♂️

Commenter questions strange behavior of two women at party.

Standing up for your partner is never being an a**hole

Cutting toxic friends out of your life for love

Cutting off toxic friends – NTA comment gets real

Engagement party drama! NTA stands up to troublemakers

Toxic friends causing trouble? Cut them off for good

Stand up for your partner, cut toxic people out ✊

Couple excluded unsupportive friends from engagement party. NTA.

OP is called out for not defending their girlfriend. YTA

Protecting a friend from bullies, NTA

Cutting off toxic friends: NTA’s decision receives support

Standing up for your relationship deserves a celebration

Friends ruin engagement party vibes, everyone sucks except Mel.

Commenter is not the a**hole in engagement party drama

Friends can’t let go of past, but OP is NTA

Friends need to grow up and stop interfering in your life
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Cutting off toxic friends? YTA if you don’t.

Mel is NTA for having a no-contact list. Janet and Lily need to apologize.

Commenter suggests cutting off friends from wedding festivities

Jealous friends try to ruin engagement party, NTA shuts them down

NTA! The consequences of their actions are their responsibility

Setting boundaries and demanding respect from friends

A+ fiancée work earns NTA snap approval

NTA comment praises friendship and calls out weird behavior

Cutting off toxic friends? NTA says it all.

Ex-friends can’t accept reality, NTA for not inviting them

Stand up for your partner and cut out toxic friends

Toxic friends ruining engagement vibes? NTA for setting boundaries

Curious commenter questions age gap in friend group

Mel is a saint and Janet and Lily don’t deserve her

Standing up to bullies and toxic friends

Questioning the guest list

Protect your partner. Stand firm against toxic friends.

OP is TA for not shutting down toxic behavior

Uninvited friends get put in their place for negativity.

Entitled friends causing drama? Don’t invite them to anything

Cut toxic friends off before they escalate

NTA commenter advises OP to marry their forgiving fiancée faster and dump their toxic friends.

Excluded friends cause drama at engagement party. NTA stands firm.

Taking responsibility for your actions is key

Commenter is not the a**hole, but why?

Cut toxic friends out of your life. NTA

Keep your opinions to yourself or pay the consequences ♂️

Toxic friends? Consider cutting them off for your relationship’s sake

Cut toxic friends from wedding guest list

Janet and Lily’s bet caused chaos at the engagement party NTA.

Cut toxic friends out of your life
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Not the a**hole – but why? Tell us more!

Standing up for your relationship is important. NTA

Defending your partner can cause drama , but true friends support you

Sometimes cutting toxic friends out is necessary

Support for not inviting friends to wedding after engagement party drama
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Commenter not at fault for engagement party drama

Toxic friends ruining your happiness? Cut them off

Cutting out toxic friends for a happy wedding day

NTA stands firm against toxic friends at engagement party

Commenter defends OP’s reaction to disrespectful friends at party.

Commenter suggests uninviting creepy wedding guests obsessed with shipping.

Protective parent shuts down neighbor’s derogatory comment

Friends cross the line, bride-to-be deserves a stress-free party

Standing up for your partner, even with toxic friends

Standing up for love ❤️. OP is NTA for setting boundaries.

Toxic friends? Drop them like a bad habit
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Cutting toxic friends loose: NTA’s solution for engagement party vibes

NTA tells friends to let it go

Letting go of toxic friends is tough, but necessary

Supporting NTA’s decision to cut off toxic friends
