Picture this: a couple living together, enjoying their daily routine. The girlfriend (29F) loves to take baths and often asks her boyfriend (35M) to top up her glass of wine during her soak. It’s become a flirty and fun moment for them. But one day, she’s on her period and still asks for a refill. The boyfriend hesitates, unsure if he should go in there while she’s menstruating. He expresses his discomfort, and she feels self-conscious and upset. Did he cross a line, or is he just being old-fashioned? Let’s dive into their story!
The Wine Top-Up Tradition
A Flirty Moment
Period Arrives
The Awkward Request
Old-Fashioned or Uncomfortable?
The Text Conversation
Period Concerns
Apologies and Compromise
Towel-Covered Solution
The Aftermath: Self-Conscious and Upset
Learning from the Situation
Future Plans and Promises
Period Drama: Was He Right or Wrong? ♀️
The boyfriend’s hesitation to top up his girlfriend’s wine during her bath-time while she’s on her period has left her feeling self-conscious and upset. He eventually agrees to do it, but only if she covers herself with a towel. After reflecting on the situation, he realizes that he may have been in the wrong and learns from the experience. He vows never to make her feel that way again, especially since they plan to have kids in the future. But was he really in the wrong, or just being cautious? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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