Imagine being asked to follow a strange family tradition for your wedding that involves taking your future mother-in-law out on a date and spending the night in a hotel with her. That’s precisely the situation one man found himself in when his fiancée insisted he follow her family’s unique wedding custom. The tradition has roots in the past, but the groom-to-be is struggling to accept it. Let’s dive into this bizarre story and see if he’s really being stubborn or if he’s justified in his refusal.
The Unusual Tradition Revealed

Date Night with a Twist

A Blast from the Past?

The Groom-to-Be’s Reaction

Wedding Countdown Begins ⏳

The Tradition’s True Intentions ️

The Groom’s Reluctance

A Compromise?

The Fiancée’s Disappointment

Family Backlash

Mother of the Bride’s Response

The Cultural Factor

The Future Son-in-Law Dilemma

The Fiancée’s Response ️

Is He Right to Refuse?
Caught in a bizarre family tradition, this groom-to-be is struggling with the idea of taking his future mother-in-law out on a date and spending the night in a hotel with her. Although the tradition’s original intent has evolved, the man still feels uncomfortable with the notion. Despite his fiancée’s insistence and her family’s backlash, the mother of the bride has been understanding. But the question remains: Is he right to refuse this strange custom, or should he embrace it for the sake of his future family? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Uncomfortable family tradition involving sex with MIL? No thanks.

Commenter and replies react in horror to creepy family tradition.

NTA. Compromise with a dinner to meet halfway. Trust your gut.

Man refuses family tradition due to attractive mother-in-law

Breaking tradition: A Rom bride and a non-traditional groom

Red flag alert! Partner’s family has questionable values.

Commenter and replies call out the story as fake

Family tradition isn’t fun if not enjoyed by everyone. NTA

Comment section turns NSFW with hilarious replies

Doubts raised about the authenticity of a controversial family tradition

Commenter shocked by family tradition, declares ‘NTA’ with emphasis.

Debating the legitimacy of a bizarre family tradition

Breaking tradition: NTA takes mom out to dinner

Doubtful commenter questions authenticity of bizarre family tradition.

A considerate compromise suggestion for a family tradition conflict

Calling out a fake comment?

Doubting the authenticity of the tradition ♂️

Red flag alert! Commenter calls out family’s cultural excuse

Commenter questions bizarre family tradition with colorful language.

Surprising family tradition raises questions about Romani beliefs

Reader shocked by family tradition, deems OP not the a**hole.

Comment mocks bizarre family tradition and questions its origin

Commenter advises against marriage if alcohol impairs self-control

Man refuses to follow creepy family tradition.
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Blending cultures in a marriage shouldn’t mean one person dominates

Commenter defends OP’s decision to break weird family tradition.

Breaking tradition: Man refuses to sleep with fiancee’s mother
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OP is NTA for refusing to follow creepy family tradition.

Commenter calls out OP’s behavior, agreement from reply

Inappropriate comment receives no replies. Let’s move on.

Comment section calls out obvious troll for spreading hate

Breaking the ice with your MIL: NAH’s perspective

Family tradition hides infidelity? Bride’s dad is the AH.

Breaking tradition: NTA for refusing to participate in MIL tradition

User questions family traditions and learns about Roma culture

Curious commenter questions authenticity of family tradition.

Family tradition involves sleeping with GF’s mom? OP is NTA

Compromise is key in marriage, not blindly following bizarre traditions.

Commenter finds family tradition bizarre and would reconsider joining.

Commenter asks a bold question, gets a surprising answer

Questioning the authenticity with a touch of humor

Commenter questions absurd family tradition, deems OP not the a**hole
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Red flags in family tradition, important to discuss before marriage.

Confusion ensues as comment asks for clarification

Is it a test? Commenter questions bizarre family tradition.

Comment section in disbelief over bizarre family tradition ♂️

Unusual family tradition sparks outrage and confusion.

Standing up to family pressure, NTA, assault is assault

Commenter accuses OP of perpetuating racism against Romani people.

Respectful commenter defends man’s decision to break tradition.

Commenter challenges family tradition, gets clarification on its origin.

Awkward family traditions and infidelity accusations. Yikes!
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Comment section takes a weird turn with creepy question
