A man is facing a difficult decision as his twin sister is set to marry a man who tormented him throughout their teenage years. Caught between family loyalty and the painful memories of relentless bullying, he’s chosen not to attend the wedding, causing a rift within the family. Dive into the story and find out if he’s justified in his decision.
The Painful Past

Lifelong Psychological Issues

Tolerating Terry for Sister’s Sake

Refusing to Attend the Wedding

Sister’s Reaction

Family Divided ️

Questioning His Decision

To Attend or Not to Attend?
Torn between family loyalty and painful memories, a man refuses to attend his twin sister’s wedding due to her fiancé’s past as his relentless bully. His decision has caused a rift within the family, with some supporting him and others accusing him of being selfish. As he questions his choice, the debate continues: should he prioritize his sister’s happiness or stand firm in his decision? Share your thoughts and reactions below.
NTA for refusing to attend sister’s wedding due to bully fiancé

Sister marrying childhood bully, OP refuses to attend wedding. NTA

Commenter predicts a bleak future for sister’s marriage and children

Brother refuses to attend sister’s wedding due to fiancé’s past

Brother refuses to attend sister’s wedding due to fiancé’s past . Commenter supports brother’s decision and calls out fiancé’s lack of remorse and sister’s ignorance. Replies show concern for fiancé’s twisted sense of humor.

Stand your ground: NTA’s decision not to attend sister’s wedding

Standing up for your values and boundaries is important

Choosing between family and mental health . NTA for setting boundaries.

Sibling stands up against bullying fiancé. NTA

NTA for not forgiving unremorseful bully. Can reconciliation happen?

Validating the decision to skip sister’s wedding due to fiancé’s past

Supportive comment, stand your ground

Standing up for your values, even if it means missing family events

Sister’s fiancé’s past: NTA refuses wedding, sister expects attendance

Sister chooses abusive fiancé over brother, commenter calls her out.

Sibling loyalty over love? NTA chooses family over sister’s fiancé

Setting boundaries for your mental health is important. NTA

Twin bond broken by sister’s fiancé’s past

Twin sister’s fiancé was a bully, commenter supports NTA decision.

Sibling rivalry reaches new heights at sister’s wedding
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NTA predicts sister’s future, but will she listen?

Commenter supports OP’s decision but warns about relationship consequences

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s situation, but asks about current relationship.

Commenter supports OP’s decision and doubts the sincerity of apology.

Justified in not attending sister’s wedding due to past abuse

Stand your ground and prioritize your mental health.

Sibling rivalry and emotional bullying. NTA for cutting ties.

Support for NTA’s decision to skip sister’s wedding due to bullying.

Don’t waste time on toxic family. NTA for standing up.
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Sibling solidarity against bullies

Sibling loyalty prevails over past bullies. #NTA

Bullying leaves scars, even if the bully apologizes later. NTA.

Suggests revealing the fiancé’s bullying in a speech at wedding. NTA

Sister’s fiancé has a questionable past, NTA for refusing attendance

Supportive comment calling out sister’s fiancé’s abusive behavior.

NTA. Sister’s support of bully fiancé makes her TA. Walk away.

Family drama and tough love – NTA stands their ground

Standing up against toxic behavior. NTA
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Protecting yourself from toxic people is not holding a grudge

Family drama and tough love – NTA takes a stand
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Cutting off toxic family members: NTA takes a stand

Betrayal hurts. NTA for not attending sister’s wedding

Stand up for yourself and tell the truth, NTA

Sibling stands up against sister’s fiancé’s unacceptable behavior.

Standing up for personal boundaries, NTA receives support

Stand your ground against abusers. NTA

Bullying scars run deep, NTA for not attending sister’s wedding

Standing up against bullying and setting boundaries. NTA

Commenter thinks the person is not the a**hole.

Protecting mental health from toxic family members

Cutting off toxic family members is sometimes necessary

NTA warns sister of fiancé’s abusive past, ignored by family

Standing up to childhood bullies, NTA refuses to attend sister’s wedding

Protecting family or interfering? NTA stands firm against bully.

Bullying leaves lasting scars, NTA for avoiding the perpetrator.

Sister’s fiancé’s past causes family rift – NTA or TA?

Twin sister marrying bully, dad not understanding. NTA’s dilemma.

Refusing to attend sister’s wedding due to fiancé’s past behavior. NTA.

Savage revenge suggestion for NTA comment on sister’s wedding
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Commenter supports OP’s decision and criticizes sister’s actions.

Sister dates abuser, brother skips wedding. NTA or ESH?

Twin defends OP’s decision to skip sister’s wedding.

Family drama? This comment says NTA and throws shade.

Standing up to childhood bully turned sister’s fiancé. NTA wins!
