Imagine inviting your sister, her husband, and their three kids to live with you during a tough time, only for your home to turn into a disaster zone. That’s exactly what happened to this 22-year-old man who works nights as a security guard. With his small flat overwhelmed by mess and chaos, he finally reached his breaking point and asked them to leave. Now, he’s facing backlash from his family. Let’s dive into the story and see how it all unfolded.
The Unwanted Roommates

Living in Chaos

A Messy Situation ️

The Mysterious Smell

Broken Memories

Sister’s Disregard

More Destruction

Crying Baby & Angry Neighbors

Sister’s Lack of Care

Brother-in-Law’s Absence ♂️

Sleepless Nights

The Last Straw

Time to Go

Family Backlash

Kicked Out: Was It Justified? ♂️
After months of living in a chaotic, messy home, this 22-year-old man finally reached his breaking point and asked his sister, her husband, and their three kids to leave his small flat. With broken heirlooms, a mysterious smell, and sleepless nights, he couldn’t take it anymore. Now, he’s facing backlash from his family for his decision. Let’s see what people have to say about this intense situation.
NTA stands up for himself and family against unwanted guests

Family shaming for kicking out sister’s family. NTA wins.

Protect your pets at all costs

Sister and her family disrespected OP’s home. NTA for kicking out.

Setting boundaries with family is important for mental health.

Living with 5 extra people is chaotic, sister should appreciate OP
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NTA. Family won’t take in hellions, sorry about mother’s things.

Hilarious comment on identifying a mysterious smell in the house

NTA. Kicking out destructive tenants, not nieces/nephews.

NTA. Sister’s kids trashed house, pets let loose. She’s a bad parent.

NTA. Family should offer to help instead of criticizing.

NTA. The sister’s lack of responsibility led to eviction

NTA sends sister a bill for damages. Savage, but justified.

Risking eviction for sister’s chaos? NTA for kicking out.

NTA. Kindness abused. Relatives don’t know the whole story. Suggest alternatives.

BIL shares responsibility, no need to send bill. NTA

After letting brother’s family stay, commenter’s house was destroyed

Empathizing with those who kick out toxic family members.

Responsible parenting means mitigating mess and noise. NTA.

NTA. You went above and beyond for your half-sister.
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NTA stands up to chaotic sister and ungrateful family

NTA kicks out sister and family to protect rental deposit

NTA, overcrowding and chaos is not worth the stress.

Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself.
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Family drama? Tell them to take them in

Leopard geckos’ safety is a dealbreaker for NTA commenter

NTA. Sister disrespected your home, rules, and kindness. You’re guilt-free

Navigating family visits and landlord rules. NTA wins.

Kicking out family due to chaos and mess.
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NTA: Enjoy your peace and let your family know the truth

Insightful comment on parenting and family dynamics.

NTA for kicking out sister and family for chaos caused.

NTA stands their ground against complaining family members

Encouraging comment, no replies. Supportive community

Respect your host’s home or find somewhere else to stay

Family first, but NTA for kicking out disrespectful sister.

Compassionate commenter advocates for children’s safety and hygiene

Sassy reply suggests a taste of sister’s own medicine.

User supports man’s decision to kick out disrespectful family.

Parent agrees with OP’s decision to kick out sister’s family.

NTA offers advice and defends decision to kick out sister’s family.

Standing up for yourself and setting boundaries is important. NTA

NTA. Family chaos leads to justified eviction.

Polite noise levels and distractions could’ve solved this. NTA

Setting boundaries with family can be tough ♂️ but necessary. NTA!
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Sister disrespected OP’s home, NTA for kicking them out

Why don’t judgmental family members take in the needy themselves?

Other family members should take them in. NTA
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Setting boundaries with kids is important. NTA for kicking out.

Kicking out toxic family members? NTA, take your life back!

NTA kicks out sister and family for being chaotic

OP chooses self over sister’s chaos, family talks but doesn’t act ♂️

NTA stands his ground against disrespectful and messy family.

NTA stands his ground against messy sister and family

NTA, sister neglecting parenting duties & property damage unacceptable
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Sister stopped helping around the house, yelled at everyone. NTA

Agreeing with OP until gecko incident, now wants blood

NTA kicks out sister and family for peace

NTA stands up to entitled relatives who refuse to help
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NTA. Charge sister for damages. Let family take them in

Checking occupancy laws and calling out hypocritical relatives. NTA

NTA for kicking out sister & family after abuse of hospitality

Compassionate comment defends kicking out sister and family for mistreating geckos.

NTA. Unapologetic sister and unhelpful family overstayed their welcome

NTA. Family broke rules, now others can take them in.

Family drama? Kick them out! NTA, problem solved

NTA. You generously took them in rent-free, but they disrespected you. They had their chance.

Parent empathizes with OP’s struggle and praises their efforts.

Setting boundaries is important, NTA for kicking out disrespectful family

NTA shows gratitude for hospitality, emphasizes importance of respect.

Stand your ground, you deserve peace in your own home

Setting boundaries with ungrateful family members

NTA. Family should take them in if they’re so concerned

Family chaos leads to eviction, NTA for setting boundaries.

Family drama leads to eviction, NTA stands up for self.

Compassionate NTA suggests seeking help for overwhelmed sister with PPD

User sympathizes with OP and calls them NTA.

Kicking out family? NTA, says commenter. Tough love wins.

NTA comment suggests enjoying solitude after family chaos

Family drama leads to eviction – commenter says NTA
