Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of baby daddy drama that’s sure to get your blood boiling! Meet J, a 35-year-old man who’s got some serious explaining to do. He knocked up his girlfriend when he was 25 and hasn’t been in his son’s life since the kid was a baby. But wait, there’s more! Now he’s trying to pressure his current girlfriend into having a baby, even though she’s made it crystal clear she doesn’t want kids. ♀️ Grab your popcorn, because this story is about to get wild!
A Tale of Two Daddies: The Absentee Father vs. The Determined Dad

♂️ Deadbeat Dad’s Excuse: “Baby Mama Drama” ♀️

Drunk Confessions: Accusations and Avoidance

Baby Fever: Pressuring the Reluctant Girlfriend

Birth Control Sabotage: A Huge Red Flag

Pub Confrontation: Brother Calls Out the Deadbeat Dad

The Forgotten Child: “You’ve Got a Child; You Just Never See Him”

️ Tough Love: “It’s Your Decision, Not Your Ex’s”

⚖️ The Friend Who Fought for His Daughter

Deadbeat Dad’s Anger: “I’m Not Putting My Kid Through That”

The Hypothetical Scenario: What If History Repeats Itself?

AITA for Calling Out the Irresponsible Father? ♀️

Deadbeat Dad Dilemma: Is J the A-Hole for Abandoning His Son?
Well, well, well… looks like J is in quite the pickle! He’s got a son he hasn’t seen in years, and he’s blaming it all on his ex. Meanwhile, he’s trying to pressure his current girlfriend into having a baby, even though she’s made it clear she’s not interested. When confronted by his brother and friend, J gets defensive and angry. But let’s be real, folks… if he wanted to see his son, he’d find a way. It’s time for J to step up and take responsibility for his actions. The internet has spoken, and the verdict is in… ️ Let’s see what the top responses have to say about this deadbeat dad dilemma!
NTA calls out a deadbeat dad and his coercive behavior

NTA but reconsider friendship with child support dodging mooch

J is trying to baby-trap his gf and control her. NTA for calling him out on his deadbeat behaviour.
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NTA. Father’s selfishness and girlfriend’s choice led to this situation.
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Calling out a deadbeat dad and questioning the friendship

NTA commenter doubts father’s motives, suspects selfishness.

Friend defends deadbeat dad, gets called out and shut down

Girlfriend uncomfortable with kids, NTA advises caution and control.

Clarification sought on neutral position regarding absent son

Single mom makes father prove he wants to see his kid

NTA. Friend and brother hold J accountable. J is selfish.

Friend defends deadbeat dad, commenter calls him out.

Criticizing ‘J’ and holding him accountable can reduce deadbeats.

Heartbreaking story of absent father and warning to friend.

Father criticized for neglecting child and playing victim. NTA.

Encouraging comment advises legal options for involved father. ✊

Father not the a**hole, but friend is a colossal one

NTA. Deadbeat dad won’t change. His girlfriend needs to run.

Deadbeat dad gets called out for not taking responsibility

Deadbeat dad harasses partner to have a child. NTA friend.

Strong NTA comment suggests harsh punishment for deadbeat dads

Father chooses not to fight for custody due to immaturity.

Father not the a**hole for not seeing his kid. ♂️

Father accused of neglecting child, commenters skeptical of motives.

Questioning the friendship with a deadbeat dad

NTA for calling out deadbeat dad, but why be friends?
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Father’s absence due to legal battle for custody, not negligence.

Deadbeat dad called out for not paying child support. NTA.

NTA. The commenter points out the unrealistic expectation of parenthood.

Father not the a**hole for not seeing son, but girlfriend’s consent should be respected

Lazy dad doesn’t make an effort to see his kid ♂️

Father hasn’t seen son in 9 years, and it’s likely his fault

NTA. Friend’s behavior is concerning, cut ties.
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Legalities of fatherhood prevent visitation, commenters agree
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Father blames mom, but makes no effort to see his son

Father refuses to see son to avoid child support. Run girlfriend!

Calling out a deadbeat dad. You’re NTA for it!

Lazy friend won’t see his child but wants another baby? NTA.
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Father wants to see son after 10 years. Relationship woes.

Single moms at a shelter share stories of men like him

Father accused of being a waster, deemed NTA.

Deadbeat dad blames ex-wife for not seeing his son. NTA.

Immature dad criticized for thinking parenting is like Disney ride

Father’s abandonment of child raises red flags for girlfriend.

Deadbeat dad doesn’t want to pay child support. NTA.

NTA excuses don’t justify abandoning children

Father must take responsibility and not force child onto unwilling woman. NTA.

NTA but still a deadbeat dad, pressuring GF for kids

Absent father plays victim, but takes no responsibility.
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Father tries to reconnect with son after 9 years. Replies disagree.

Single mother denies deadbeat father visitation – NTA confirmed

Father wants to reconnect with his son after years. NTA but should make amends first.

Father accused of not seeing child due to avoiding child support

Father abandons child and refuses custody, commenter is NTA.

Warning: this man may be a reproductive coercer. Stay safe.

Serial deadbeat dad called out by commenter. NTA.

Friend is an irresponsible and horrible parent, NTA for sure

Deadbeat dad? GF better watch out for baby trap.

Single mothers may welcome a positive male influence in their son’s life , if the guy is decent .

Father has rights but seems ok with not taking responsibility. NTA
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NTA. Abandonment may have forfeited his rights. Friend is irresponsible.

When being a dad is just for show

NTA commenter calls out deadbeat dad’s hypocrisy and misogyny

Woman shares how she wouldn’t date a man with a bad history of neglecting his children.

Supportive comment suggests therapy and legal help for friend.

The friend is a deadbeat dad and a shitty boyfriend

Calling out a friend’s terrible behavior. NTA.

Deadbeat dad complains about not seeing his kid but won’t pay child support, and wants to impregnate unwilling GF. NTA.
