Imagine being faced with an impossible choice: be there for your wife as she gives birth to your first child, or attend your beloved 92-year-old grandfather’s funeral. This is the heart-wrenching dilemma one man has found himself in, and he’s desperately seeking advice. His wife is close to giving birth, but his grandfather, who played a huge role in his upbringing, is on his deathbed. What’s a man to do?
The Heartbreaking Situation

Grandfather’s Health Declines ️

Wife’s Priorities

Due Date and Plans

Zoom Funeral and Priorities

Update: The Compromise

Wife’s Support System

Lunch Break and Plan

Naming the Baby

Emotional Goodbye

The Chosen Name

Heading Home

A Heartfelt Decision: Family First ❤️
In a whirlwind of emotions, our conflicted protagonist managed to find a compromise that allowed him to say goodbye to his grandfather and still be there for his wife. With the support of his family, he made a quick trip and even asked his grandfather to name their baby girl. The result? A beautiful name, Madeline Rose, that will forever connect their daughter to her great-grandfather. Now, he’s on his way back home, grateful for the chance to say farewell. Let’s see what people think of this touching story… ✨
Fly to visit grandfather now, skip funeral. Life > death.

Tough decision: attend wife’s labor or grandfather’s funeral? NAH suggests Zooming grandfather. Replies highlight the importance of supporting wife and respecting grandfather’s life.

Choose wisely. YTA if you prioritize your grandfather over your wife.

Missing the birth is not just sad, it’s a serious issue

Balancing family priorities: Saying goodbye to grandpa or witnessing childbirth?

Being there for your wife and child during childbirth is crucial

Supporting wife during childbirth is crucial, YTA.

Choose life over death, hold your child’s first hours ❤️

Missing the birth of your child for a funeral? YTA
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Grandfather’s funeral or wife’s labor? Heartfelt advice from commenter.

Choose wisely: be there for your wife during childbirth.

A helpful suggestion for connecting with family during tough times

Prioritize wife’s labor over grandfather’s funeral, YTA comment advises.

Stay with your wife for the birth of your child ️. You won’t regret it

Commenter criticizes OP’s dilemma, highlights childbirth risks.

Childbirth risks are real. OP should stay home with wife.

Balancing family emergencies during a pandemic

Giving birth is a difficult and scary experience, YTA gently.



Heartfelt support for man facing tough decision

Stay with your wife during labor, say goodbye to grandpa remotely

Choosing between grandfather’s funeral and wife’s delivery. NAH suggests facetime.

Torn between wife’s labor and grandfather’s funeral. Commenters advise compassion.

Choose wife and baby’s safety over funeral, honor grandfather differently.



Choosing between family events is never easy

Prioritize your wife during labor, but FaceTime your grandfather

Grandfather’s funeral or wife’s labor? A tough choice.

Putting family first is important , pay kindness forward

Commenter calls out man for considering funeral over wife’s labor

Balancing family priorities: visiting dying grandpa or attending wife’s labor?

Leaving for grandfather’s funeral while wife in labor? YTA.

Tough decision: Wife’s labor or grandfather’s funeral? NAH advice given.

Stay for the birth and zoom grandpa, sadly.

Balancing family priorities: Wife’s labor or grandfather’s funeral?

Prioritizing family responsibilities: Soft YTA comment and its advice.

A tough decision between family events. NAH, both valid concerns.

Balancing family priorities during a crisis

Balancing priorities during pandemic: Wife’s labor or Grandfather’s funeral?

Virtual presence for grandfather’s funeral or wife’s resentment in labor?

Supporting your partner during labor is crucial

Clarification needed: Is it a short or long flight?

Balancing family commitments: Attending both events is possible

Supporting wife during birth is top priority. YTA.

Balancing family events can be tough. Consider options and prioritize. ⚓️

Supporting wife during childbirth is crucial. Zoom funeral instead?

Dilemma between wife’s labor and grandfather’s funeral, NAH. Possible solutions?

Balancing family priorities is tough

Missing daughter’s birth for funeral? YTA. Be there for wife

Choose wife’s labor over grandfather’s funeral. She needs you more.

Husband faces tough choice between wife’s labor and grandfather’s funeral

Choosing between life and death, who’s the a**hole? ♂️

Man faces tough decision: attend funeral or support wife’s labor?

Tough decision: attend grandfather’s funeral or wife’s labor? YWBTA if you leave your wife, witness the birth of your child.

Be there for your wife during birth, it’s unpredictable

Choosing between wife’s labor and grandfather’s funeral – YTA?

Balancing family events can be tough, but compromising is key

Balancing family events can be tough

Grandfather’s funeral or wife’s labor? One comment suggests a solution

A tough situation with no clear answer. NAH, I guess
