Picture this: you’re invited to your significant other’s family Zoom call, where everyone enjoys dinner and plays games together. Sounds fun, right? Well, not for one couple. During the call, our protagonist (22M) was caught off-guard when his girlfriend’s (21F) family praised him for being an engineer. The only problem? He’s not an engineer! He works as a Building Maintenance Tech at a children’s hospital. So, what did he do? He told the truth, of course! But this didn’t sit well with his girlfriend. Let’s dive into their story.
A Surprising Compliment

Confusion Sets In

Setting the Record Straight ️

Awkwardness Ensues

Girlfriend’s Reaction

Her Explanation

Standing His Ground

A Stalemate

The Big Question ❓

To Lie or Not to Lie: A Modern Dilemma
So, our protagonist chose honesty over playing along with his girlfriend’s lie. While he’s proud of his job and the life he’s built without a college degree, his girlfriend feels embarrassed and thinks he should have just gone along with the lie. Was he wrong for telling the truth, or is his girlfriend overreacting? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. GF lied and is likely classist. Family not the problem.

Girlfriend lies about boyfriend’s status, aunt sets him up. GF looks bad.

Honesty is the best policy, and he’s a catch!

NTA. Girlfriend embarrassed herself, not the boyfriend.

GF lied about BF’s education and job, NTA for exposing. Conversation needed.

Partner lies and expects you to lie too? NTA for exposing

Girlfriend lies to family about boyfriend’s job, gets exposed. NTA.

Exposing girlfriend’s lie: NTA wins points for honesty

NTA saves for college, girlfriend prioritizes family opinion

Being a maintenance tech at a children’s hospital is a great job

22-year-old essential worker with no student debt is NTA
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NTA! Girlfriend’s strange assumptions exposed during family Zoom call

Partner lies about boyfriend’s job to impress family, NTA for exposing

Stand up for your partner, even in the face of family ♂️

Girlfriend lies about boyfriend’s job, gets exposed during family call
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Honesty is the best policy, even during family Zoom calls.

Girlfriend’s lie exposed during Zoom call, NTA for telling truth

Honesty is the best policy, even during a family Zoom

Empathetic NTA comment acknowledges girlfriend’s embarrassment and excuses her lie.

Maintenance worker praised for exposing girlfriend’s lie. NTA.

Standing up against classism in relationships.

Girlfriend’s lie exposes deeper issues in relationship

NTA for exposing girlfriend’s lie during family Zoom call

Clear judgement! What’s the story behind this?

Dump her. NTA

Is the comment calling the story fake or the girlfriend’s lie?

Girlfriend lied about partner’s job, he exposed it. NTA.

Honesty is the best policy . Lying only leads to embarrassment.

Partner lied, family believed it. He corrected, NTA

Honesty is key in relationships

Girlfriend’s lie backfires: NTA for telling the truth on Zoom

Don’t lie and you won’t get caught. NTA for exposing.

NTA exposes girlfriend’s lie during Zoom call, saves future trouble

Exposing a lie or standing up for oneself? NTA
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Partner’s lie raises concern about honesty in relationship. NTA.

Blue-collar trades are undervalued, but essential during a pandemic.

Honesty is the best policy . NTA for not lying for GF.

Exposed lie, avoided awkwardness. NTA for calling it out.

Responsibility of sticking to a story lies with the storyteller. NTA

Handling lies with dignity and grace
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Honesty is the best policy

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Standing up for yourself: NTA calls out girlfriend’s lie

Man exposes girlfriend’s lie about job during Zoom call. NTA.

Girlfriend assumes family’s opinion, NTA for exposing lie.

Be proud of yourself and find someone who loves you

Honesty is the best policy

Impressive career at 22, NTA for exposing girlfriend’s lie

Exposing a lie: NTA calls out classist girlfriend

Girlfriend lies, gets caught on Zoom call. Commenter says NTA

Partner’s lies and snobbery may be deal breakers. NTA

Girlfriend lies, boyfriend exposes during Zoom call. NTA wins.
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Exposed girlfriend’s lies on Zoom, NTA for defending self

Girlfriend lies about his job to appear classist, he exposes her.

Partner lied about me in family call, I’m NTAH

Honesty is the best policy

NTA calls out girlfriend’s lie, aunt may be classist

Support for hospital worker who stood up to snobbery

Honesty is key in any relationship

Supportive comment defends girlfriend’s lie with empathy and understanding.

Uncovering girlfriend’s lie during Zoom call: NTA did right

Calling out classism and a rookie mistake. Not the a**hole.

Dump her NTA exposes girlfriend’s lie during family Zoom call.

Don’t ignore the red flags , run! NTA
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Supportive comment, hopefully she realizes her mistake

Encouraging comment on being proud of accomplishments and not lying

Debate on semantics of job titles in maintenance industry.

Honesty is the best policy . NTA handled it well.

Lying girlfriend shows lack of respect. Time to reevaluate?

Being honest is always the best policy . NTA
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Avoiding lies is key to sanity

Reevaluate your relationship after girlfriend’s lie?

Exposing a lie or standing up for yourself? NTA

Girlfriend caught lying on Zoom, NTA for exposing her

Girlfriend’s lack of communication leads to white lie fallout. NTA
