Meet our protagonist, a 29-year-old gay man who loves kids but doesn’t want any of his own. Two years ago, he donated sperm to one of his closest friends and her wife, and they now have a beautiful baby girl. He’s happy to be an “uncle” and has even considered donating again. But when another friend asked for the same favor, he declined, causing quite the controversy. What made him say no? Let’s dive into this intriguing story.
The First Friend’s Request
A Happy Outcome
Another Friend Comes Forward
An Open Donor Policy?
But This Time, He Says No
Concerns About Their Relationship
The Friends’ Reaction
A Heated Argument
Facing the Consequences
Sperm Donor Dilemma: Was He Right or Wrong? ♂️
So, our protagonist donated sperm to one friend but rejected another, causing a rift in their friend group. He believes his friends J and their partner aren’t ready for a child due to their unstable relationship, but they argue it’s not his place to judge. Was he right to make this decision, or should he have kept his opinions to himself? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this delicate situation…
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Reproductive autonomy is priceless. NTA, your sperm your rules.
NTA for prioritizing the child’s future over unstable circumstances.
Don’t forget, they want YOUR kid. Your sperm, your choice.
Donating sperm is a personal choice, not a right. NTA.
NAH for not donating sperm, miscommunication caused emotional tension.
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Sperm donation refusal: NTA or cruel judgment?
Donating sperm to a friend can be risky. NTA’s decision justified
Selfless act or selfish motive? The child deserves better
Respectful rejection of sperm donation request. Not ready for parenthood.
Respect for bodily autonomy and reproductive choices.
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Bodily autonomy is key. NTA for setting boundaries
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Choosing who to donate sperm to is a personal decision
Debate on the worthiness of sperm donation for queer couples. NTA.
Donating sperm is a personal choice, and OP made the right call.
Be careful with ya sperms! NTA
Your sperm, your choice. Don’t risk child support battles.
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Brutal honesty can be tough, but sometimes necessary.
Think twice before donating sperm, it could affect your life
Donating sperm is a personal choice, not a social obligation
Donating sperm to friends can be risky business
Rejecting friend’s request for sperm: NTA or cruel judgment?
Encouraging responsible parenting, not celebrating irresponsibility. NTA
Support for sticking to personal boundaries and legal precautions.
Responsibility matters! Donating sperm is a serious decision
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Your body, your choice. NTA for making a personal decision.
Understanding non-binary gender identity
Standing up against manipulative guilt-tripping. NTA
Choosing who to donate sperm to: fair or cruel?
NTA comment warns to watch your drinks in desperate situations
Choosing to donate sperm to one friend can have consequences
Donating sperm is a personal choice. NTA for setting boundaries.
Queer couples should not have to prove their worthiness for parenthood. NTA.
Choosing who to donate to is donor’s right. NTA
Taking control of your reproductive choices is your right, NTA!
Donating sperm to unstable relationship – NTA made the right call
Decent decision to donate sperm to one friend, reject another
Donating sperm to a friend is a personal favor, not business.
Choosing who to donate sperm to can be a tough decision
Choosing not to donate sperm to a friend: NTA decision
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Donating sperm is not a small decision NTA
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Defending the right to choose where to donate your sperm
Taking control of your sperm: A fair decision or cruel?
A thoughtful decision made with good intentions
Body autonomy is important, friends should respect your decision
Bringing a child into the world requires judgment. NTA
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Choosing who you procreate with is your right. NTA.
Your sperm, your choice. But the baby will come anyway
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Take control of your life
Selfless act of love or just a ten-minute chore?
Donating sperm to a friend can lead to complicated custody battles
Choosing who to donate sperm to is a serious decision , NTA.
Donating sperm to friends: entitlement or personal choice?
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NTA’s choice to donate sperm is justified.
Sperm donation sparks debate: NTA, your cum your choice
Sarcastic comment sparks no replies, leaves readers confused
Breaking the stigma: Queer people deserve respect and options
Donating sperm comes with responsibility. NTA made a fair judgment.
