Ever felt like the odd one out at a social gathering? One man found himself in that very situation when he attended a pumpkin patch outing with his girlfriend and her friends. Expecting a couples’ event, he was surprised to be the only guy there. Things took a turn for the worse when he felt ignored and excluded by the group. Frustrated, he decided to leave his girlfriend ‘stranded’ and head back to town. But was his decision justified, or did he overreact? Let’s dive into the story.
Pumpkin Patch Surprise

Feeling Ignored

Frozen Out ❄️

Corn Maze Dilemma

Unwanted Company

Splitting Up in the Maze

Time to Leave ♂️

The Five-Minute Warning ⏰

Late Response

Ride Request

Uber Solution

Staying the Night

Angry Texts

His Side of the Story

Upset and Frustrated

Caught in a Maze of Misunderstandings
Our protagonist found himself feeling excluded and ignored during a pumpkin patch outing with his girlfriend and her friends. After attempting to spend time with his girlfriend, he decided to leave her ‘stranded’ and head back to town. Despite sending her a warning text, she didn’t notice until much later, and he was bombarded with angry messages from her and her friends. Now, he’s left questioning whether he was in the wrong or if his actions were justified. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation… ️
NTA for leaving girlfriend at pumpkin patch after being used.

NTA for leaving girlfriend at pumpkin patch after being ignored.
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Debate over what constitutes a healthy relationship and cutesy dates

NTA. Girlfriend was inconsiderate and disrespectful. Time for a breakup

22-year-old girlfriend not mature enough to admit fault. ♂️


ESH, but OP’s condescending attitude towards girlfriend is problematic

Man ditches girlfriend at pumpkin patch, gets support from commenters.

Age gap causes girlfriend to act immaturely . NTA for leaving.

ESH: OP and girlfriend seem incompatible and immature ♂️

Dumped at the pumpkin patch , NTA strikes back.

Don’t let anyone bring you down for being mature

Questioning the relationship: NTA comment and reply.

Communication is key but was he wrong to leave without confirmation?

Ignoring someone and expecting them to wait is not okay

ESH for poor communication and treatment on supposed date

Not the a**hole for leaving a girl who used you ️

Don’t be surprised if she freezes you out too

NTA. Communicate your feelings and set boundaries with your girlfriend.

Dick move or not, ignoring is not okay either

Communication is key! Both parties could have handled better

NTA at 22, entitled behavior is unacceptable ♀️

Actions speak louder than words. NTA for standing up.

Commenter calls out immaturity in ESH situation

NTA ditches GF at pumpkin patch, but relationship is now dead

Commenter tried to engage friends in conversation but got ignored

Age is just a number, or is it?

Car > Boyfriend? NTA thinks so

Dumping at pumpkin patch: justified or not?

Red flags galore: age gap, possessiveness, and gaslighting accusations

Married commenter advises to separate from toxic partner

Breaking up at the pumpkin patch . NTA, but ultimatums never work.

NTA, you were told it was a couples thing. She ignored you.

Possessive behavior leads to YTA judgment

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Girlfriend invited him to drive and ditched him. NTA.

Is it okay to involve yourself in your friend’s relationship?

Age matters in relationships, especially when it comes to entitlement

Math error in age difference sparks debate

When pumpkin patches turn sour ESH

Ditching your girlfriend at a pumpkin patch? ESH.

Commenter defends OP and calls out girlfriend’s friends’ behavior.

YTA for how you handled leaving. Have a mature conversation.

Everyone sucks here at the pumpkin patch

Communication is key! ESH for not talking things out

An ESH situation where the girlfriend was shitty and the guy was impatient ♂️
