We’ve all had our fair share of bad dates, but this one takes the cake! A 26-year-old man recently went on a date with a girl he met at the gym. He had a crush on her for a while, and finally had the courage to ask her out. Little did he know, he was in for a rollercoaster of a night at a Korean BBQ restaurant. Let’s dive into this cringe-worthy tale!
A Promising Start

Korean BBQ Confusion

The Workload Debate ️

Demanding Service

Red Flags Everywhere

Hoping for the Best

Dessert and Discrimination

Racist Remarks

Jaw-Dropping Moment

The Final Straw

Making an Escape

Leaving Her Stranded

Gym Dilemma ️

Edit: Addressing Points

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A Date to Remember (or Forget)
To sum it up, our gym-loving protagonist had high hopes for his date at a Korean BBQ restaurant. Unfortunately, the night was filled with red flags, from her demanding service to making racist remarks. Ultimately, he decided to ditch her at the restaurant and block her number, leaving her stranded without transport. Now he’s even considering switching gyms to avoid any awkward encounters. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this wild dating experience!
Don’t date racists! First dates should be shorter to spot red flags

Ditched date due to racist behavior, NTA. No reflection expected

NTA. Commenters share their reactions and strategies for dealing with a racist date.

ESH for tolerating disrespect and entitlement for ‘adult time’

Mild ESH for condescending behavior and racist actions by both parties.

Commenter predicts consequences for entitled date, receives support.

Commenter defends not knowing Korean BBQ, sparks discussion on class.

User’s gross comment on wanting ‘adult’ time with racist date.
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OP and date both display bad behavior, but OP still wanted sex

A disastrous date ends with a controversial decision. ESH.

Cooking your own food? ESH, but maybe it’s for the best.

Ditching date at restaurant without explanation is super shitty. ESH.

NTA for leaving a rude and insulting date with red flags

OP may be the a**hole for not directly confronting his racist date

A restaurant that deserves better than the drama ️

NTA. Gym encounters can be tricky. Awkward aftermath predicted

Calling out racism and lack of self-respect in dating

Coffee date might have saved him from Korean bbq disaster

Comment section filled with skeptics

Defending cultural ignorance while calling out bad behavior. NTA.

Quick thinking and a good tip saved him from disaster

Immigrant shares experience with racism, doubts authenticity of post.

Discovering new foods in adulthood is exciting! NTA for leaving.


Standing up against racism is important, but be open-minded too

Choosing a Korean BBQ place without checking with your date

Commenter suggests taking over grill at awkward date

Ditching a date without transport makes you kinda TA

Leaving a racist date at a restaurant – ESH

Passively supporting abuse and racism? ESH, but communication is key.

Calling out racism and bad behavior, but also condemning using someone for ‘adult time’

Date invites to Korean BBQ, gives apron and spatula. NTA.

Unbelievable story, but NTA for ditching the date.

Is this a real story or a movie plot?

Endured a bad date, paid and tipped well. NTA.

Standing up against racism and entitlement. NTA wins the night

First time ditching a date and feeling like a hero

NTA for leaving, but YTA for making the old woman work
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NTA calmly explains country of origin, gets chased by carbs

Commenter supports ditching date, calls out red flags

Date goes wrong, commenter not at fault

Commenter’s nationality questioned after contradictory statement.

Leaving a date without a word? ESH. Be transparent

Red flags on a date, ESH, and the hope for intimacy

Hilarious NTA comment on a disastrous date

Commenter calls out OP for not taking date home safely.

Setting boundaries is important, but cultural insults are unacceptable

Standing up for yourself and others. NTA

Respondent reflects on date’s racist behavior and hopes for education.
