Man Devastated After Being Told He’s ‘Not a Parent’

Imagine being there for your late best friend’s family, providing emotional and financial support for over a decade, only to be told you’re ‘not a parent.’ That’s the heartbreaking situation one man found himself in after his friend’s wife, A, delivered the crushing blow. Despite being involved in the lives of A’s children since their birth, the man was excluded from a school event and left feeling unappreciated. Read on to learn more about this emotional story and how it unfolded.

The Tragic Beginning ️

Stepping Up to Help ‍ ‍ ‍

Becoming the Support System

From Diapers to Preschool

The Promotion and Travel ✈️

Continued Support Despite Distance

A New Partner Enters the Scene

The School Event

The Painful Rejection

The Heartbreaking Statement

The Fight and Fallout

The Emotional Impact

Feeling Unappreciated and Heartbroken

After over a decade of being there for his late best friend’s family, this man was devastated when A told him he wasn’t a parent. Despite providing emotional, practical, and financial support, he was excluded from a school event and left feeling unimportant in their lives. As he tries to make sense of the situation, the pain and heartbreak are evident. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this emotional rollercoaster…

NTA comment receives supportive replies, offers advice for resolution.

NTA comment defends OP’s role as a parent, suggests stepping aside.

Commenter receives heartwarming support after being told ‘not a parent’

Petty but relatable NTA comment sparks supportive replies

Heartbreaking situation. NTA but OP invested too much without rights

Mother’s bad timing and delivery caused miscommunication, not AH behavior.

NTA, but a difficult situation. Have a calm conversation with her

Advice for OP on adjusting to new boundaries with family.

Commenter argues OP is TA for not anticipating inevitable boundary.

Man excluded from event after being told he’s ‘not a parent’

YTA for making a ‘joke’ and not hearing her boundaries

Heartbreaking comment and replies to cruel statement.

Uncle’s heartbreak: Being told he’s not a parent

Generous benefactor struggles with diminishing role in family dynamics

Man not recognized as parent despite doing parental duties

Woman asserts her role as parent after OP’s overreaction

Man’s fatherly love for kids causes emotional turmoil.

NAH for helping raise the kids, but unrealistic to compete.

Unique situation, but spent personal time, not a parent. NAH.

A possible explanation for the hurtful comment.

Heartbreaking story of being used as a stepfather. NTA

Advice for navigating changing family dynamics with potential stepdad ‍

Uncle’s love shouldn’t be underestimated. NTA for setting boundaries.

NTA for feeling hurt, but communication could have been better

Being a parent is more than biology ‍

NTA. Commenter acknowledges hurtful truth but defends OP’s role as parent.

Being a godparent is just as important as being a parent

NTA who grew a bond with children devastated by exclusion

Man takes on role of parent for deceased friend’s children. Receives ungrateful comment from mother. Replies discuss his relationship with the children and the impact if he were to stop supporting them.

Supportive comment, acknowledges hurtful behavior of other parent.

Supportive comment suggests setting up college trusts for the kids

Commenter suggests OP may have inserted themselves into situation.

Establishing boundaries and moving into an uncle role.

Man not biologically a parent, but definitely parented them. NTA.

NAH, but OP is understandably upset. Communication is key

NTA, but situation is complicated. Financial support for kids continues.

Civil conversation leads to resolution in parenting dispute

Commenter sympathizes with NTA and condemns insensitivity

NTA for stepping up as a parent. She’s TA for lack of communication.

Ouch! The truth hurts, but maybe it’s time to move on.

Misunderstanding leads to hurtful comment, but NAH in the end

ESH commenter advises OP to respect boundaries and reevaluate involvement.

Heartbreaking situation where ‘playing daddy’ isn’t enough

NTA. Legal agreement and custody arrangement should be discussed calmly.

Being a family member is more important than being a parent

New guy uncomfortable with arrangement? NTA seeks advice

NTA! Unofficially parenting kids is just as important as legally parenting.

Last Updated on May 31, 2023 by Diply Social Team