We’ve all heard of body shaming, but what about body confidence shaming? One husband found himself in the middle of a heated debate when his friend repeatedly criticized his wife’s bikini photos on Instagram. The friend, who claimed his own wife would never ‘disrespect him’ by posting such photos, couldn’t seem to stop comparing the two women. But when the criticism continued during a group outing at the lake, the husband had enough and clapped back with a comment that left everyone speechless. Let’s dive into this drama-filled tale.
The Instagram Issue

Marriage and Modesty

Wife’s Reaction

Lake Day Drama

Friend’s Unsolicited Opinion

The Coverup Comparison ️

Enough is Enough!

The Clapback ️

Awkward Silence

Future Encounters

To Apologize or Not?

Bikini Battle: Who’s the Real A**hole?
After enduring his friend’s constant criticism of his wife’s body confidence and Instagram photos, one husband finally snapped during a group outing at the lake. He defended his wife’s bikini attire and clapped back at his friend, saying his wife only dressed conservatively because she couldn’t pull off a swimsuit. Now, he’s left wondering if he’s the a**hole for making such a comment, but refuses to apologize until his friend does first. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this swimsuit showdown…
Discussion on defending wife’s bikini pics turns inappropriate.

Both parties at fault, but friend is worse

Body shaming in defense of wife makes both look bad

Responding to sexism with sexism? Not cool. Be better

Defending wife’s pics leads to ESH except both wives.

Calling out sexism turned into sexist behavior. ESH

Both men need to learn to respect women’s bodies
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Defending wife’s pics doesn’t excuse objectification. ESH.

Defending wife’s body, man insulted by friend’s wife. ESH situation.

ESH comment calls out misogyny in a witty way

When two wrongs don’t make a right ♂️

YTA called out for being unnecessarily nasty

Defending your wife doesn’t mean putting down another woman

Comparing wives and insulting each other? ESH in-laws trade sheep? ♂️

Body shaming is not cool. ESH for insulting each other’s wives.

Friend’s wife attacks man’s wife in bikini pics. Classy.

Clapping back at a friend’s wife leads to ESH situation
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Misogyny and immaturity from both friends. Wife likes attention online.

Defending wife’s pics doesn’t excuse body shaming friend’s wife. ESH.

Friend’s comment on wife’s bikini pics sparks ESH response.

Body shaming and infidelity accusations make for toxic relationships

Defending wife’s bikini pics leads to uncomfortable situation with friends.

Defending wife doesn’t excuse insulting another woman. ESH

Toxic masculinity at its finest. Friend’s wife deserves better
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Defending wife and calling out friend’s attraction, a true ally

Calling out a creepy guy gets personal and petty

Insulting his wife was wrong, but supporting her is important

Judgmental friend and vindictive comment lead to ESH verdict ♂️

Friend’s weird behavior leads to hypocritical jabs and contemptuous end.

Confront the problem/person, don’t make snide remarks. YTA

Body-shaming is never okay, even in defense of a loved one.

Body-shaming is never okay. Both parties need to learn respect.

Defender of wife’s bikini pics receives backlash for low blow.

Defending his wife’s bikini pics, man gets called out for misogyny.

Insensitive comment sparks outrage and calls for justice

Friend’s inappropriate behavior causes tension between couples. ESH.

Body-shaming is never okay. Both parties need to be respectful.

Man defends wife, but should apologize to her friend’s wife

Misogyny and body shaming: all parties need to change

Defending wife doesn’t require tearing down another woman. Ditch friend.

Clapback on sexism leads to call for apology to wife.

Defending wife shouldn’t involve putting down another woman. ESH

Body-shaming is never okay, but friend was also inappropriate ♂️
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Defending wife doesn’t mean insulting friend’s wife. YTA.

Man insults friend’s wife over bikini pics, deemed the a**hole.
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Fiery comment section with accusations and insults flying around

Addressing sexualization without insulting wife. ESH called out.

Debate on sexism and clothing choice ends in double insult.

Couples speculate about bikini-clad women while men admire in silence.

Body shaming is never cool. He could have focused on the real issue.

Defending wife but insulting friend’s wife? ESH in this section. ♂️

Misogynistic bullying called out in bikini pic defense

Man called out for defending wife’s bikini pics. ESH situation.
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ESH for body shaming, but friend’s fixation is overbearing and grossly patriarchal

Woman calls out husbands for toxic behavior, warns women to beware

Body-shaming is never okay, apologize to his wife

Defending wife’s bikini pics leads to hurtful comment exchange

Defending wife good, but mentioning friend’s wife was a**hole move

OP’s friend was creepy and insulting his wife’s body was gross

Defending wife’s bikini pics doesn’t justify stooping to his level
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Couples feud over bikini pics, ESH for putting others down
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Defending your wife doesn’t mean bringing down others. ESH. ♂️
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Friend’s wife called out for inappropriate behavior towards man’s wife.

Friend’s misogyny makes ESH, but bringing his partner was wrong ♂️
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Friend calls out man for involving his wife, apologizing suggested

YTA called out for wife’s insecurity, friend’s hypocrisy and misogyny

Calling out the real problem in a toxic relationship.

Don’t drag innocent people into your argument

Friend’s inappropriate comment leads to awkward situation. ESH.

Defender insults friend’s wife, gets called out for it.

Friend’s fixation on wife leads to YTA verdict

Defending wife’s bikini pics turns into sexist pig argument. ESH.

Last Updated on March 21, 2024 by Diply Social Team