Imagine being blamed for your family’s infertility struggles and then being shunned by your in-laws. That’s exactly what happened to one woman when she and her husband faced fertility issues. Her husband’s family, who are traditionalists, insisted that he break up with her because she couldn’t ‘carry their family name.’ But this man stood by his wife and cut his family out of their lives. Now, after successfully having children, his family wants back in, but he’s not having it. Let’s dive into this dramatic story!
The Blame Game Begins

Family’s Unfair Accusations

Cutting Ties ✂️

Miracle Babies Arrive

Adopted Daughter Shunned

Family Wants Back In

“Grandparents’ Rights” Claim

Name Change Spite

Explosive Reaction

Blocking the Hate

Seeking Unbiased Opinions

Edit: Gratitude and Work

Standing Firm Against Family’s Demands
After years of heartache, this man and his wife finally have the family they’ve always wanted. But now, his family wants back in after shunning them for years. Despite their claims of ‘grandparents’ rights,’ he’s standing firm and refusing to let them near his children. His wife supports his decision, but the family is lashing out with hateful messages. How do you think this man should handle the situation? Let’s see what the internet thinks…
Family blames wife for infertility, OP cuts them off. NTA.

Protecting your family from family

Standing up for his wife, he found support and freedom.

NTA fights against grandparents’ rights in archaic NY laws

Cutting off toxic family for wife and daughter

NTA. Family wants access to “blood” grandchildren, not reconciliation. Block them.

Family blames wife for infertility, commenter offers support.

NTA. OP’s wife is lucky to have such a supportive husband

Changing his name was petty but satisfying for OP

NTA and good for you! Keep standing your ground and supporting your wife.

Choosing your own family is badass

Putting family first, NTA cuts off toxic relatives

No contact with family after blaming wife for infertility struggles

Tragic story of a man pressured into marriage and fatherhood

Change your number to avoid family harassment. NTA

Supportive comment, calls out ‘NTA’, wishes luck.

Leaving family takes courage. NTA for prioritizing personal peace.

NTA stands up to family’s archaic views on carrying family name

NTA with a shiny spine! Don’t let them ruin you

Stand up for yourself! Record and document their harassment

Savage response to family blaming wife for infertility struggles

Supportive comment applauds cutting off toxic family members

Commenter applauds response to family’s infertility blame with humor

NTA- Impressive strength to stand up for family against manipulative FOO

Woman shares similar experience with family prioritizing male heirs

Supportive comment applauds NC decision and unique name choice

NTA! Setting boundaries and protecting your family is important

Suggests a sneaky way to shut down nosy family members

Protect your family from unruly harpies.
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Protects wife from insensitive treatment, family wants back in after birth

NTA. Supportive comment with practical advice.

Choosing love over family name. NTA wins the day

Congrats on cutting off toxic family! NTA

OP gets support for cutting off family.

Cutting off family for infertility blame, legal battle ahead

Cutting off toxic family: NTA, your gain, their loss.

Protecting your kids from toxicity. You’re NTA

Protecting your family from your family

Protecting boundaries: Changing phone number to avoid toxic family

NTA gets restraining order against harassing parents

Toxic family blames wife for infertility, man cuts them off.

Protect your happiness and family from toxic relatives.

Redditor supports OP’s decision and praises wife’s surname choice

Man changes name pettily after family blames wife for infertility

Removing himself from the family name was an amazing response #NTA

NTA! Stand up for your wife

Nephew changes surname after dad’s infidelity. NTA

Spiting family with wife’s last name, approved by commenter

Stand your ground and cut out heartless family.

Commenter jokes about common family name, lightening the mood

Protecting family from toxic relatives. NTA wins this round!

Celebrate your loving family and forget the downers!

Stand up for yourself! NTA

Cutting off toxic family for blaming wife. NTA wins

Protecting all your children, even the adopted one

Congrats on twins! Don’t let negativity get you down

Family values lineage over infertility struggles? NTA wins

Commenter praises family dynamic and advises to avoid toxic people.

Commenter applauds epic moves of NTA in cutting off family

Commenter defends OP against accusations in infertility struggle.

Cutting off toxic family: NTA and good riddance

Cutting off family after infertility blame earns NTA judgment

Supportive comment shuts down family’s blame game

Cutting off toxic family: NTA and simple as that

Changing last name after family blames wife for infertility.

NTA. Don’t let mean-spirited judgmental AHs manipulate you. You’ve done good.

Block, block, block! NTA stands up to selfish family members
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Petty but justified: cutting off family for blaming wife’s infertility

Commenter not at fault for infertility struggles

Supportive comment applauds OP for protecting kids from toxic family

Commenter supports OP’s decision to cut off toxic family

Supportive comment for OP and wife, cut off toxic family

Commenter denies grandparent rights and makes witty joke
