We all know that relationships can be tricky, especially when it comes to dealing with the in-laws. But what happens when your partner’s family crosses the line and judges your relationship choices? One man found himself in this exact situation and decided to clap back at his girlfriend’s family after they wouldn’t stop being judgmental. Let’s dive into this drama-filled story and see if he was in the right or not.
The Perfect Girlfriend, Except…

A Change of Heart

The Rabbit Hole

The New Plan

Chloe’s Decision

The Nosy Family

Family’s Reaction

BBQ Drama

Confrontation Time

The Clap Back

Parents Join the Fight

The Exit

Chloe’s Reaction

Was He Right to Stand Up to Them?
So, our protagonist found himself in a sticky situation when his girlfriend’s family wouldn’t stop being judgmental about his decision not to marry. He clapped back at them during a BBQ, pointing out their own relationship failures. While Chloe is mostly staying out of it, he’s left wondering if he was in the wrong for standing up to them. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA for questioning her family, but OP’s reasons for not getting married are flimsy and selfish. Replies suggest prenups and therapy.

Commenter says YTA for immature reasoning on marriage, but others criticize judgmental GF’s family.

Commenter calls out OP for misinformed views on marriage

Comment section turns into sarcastic jokes about marriage stereotypes

Commenter calls out immaturity of OP’s relationship choices ♂️

Commenter accuses OP of wanting the perks of marriage without responsibilities , but replies argue that loyalty and mutual decisions can exist without marriage.

OP refuses to marry due to paranoia, girlfriend deserves better

Commenter calls out OP for basing relationship decisions on bitter men on the internet. Replies predict further problematic behavior.

Legal implications of common law marriage discussed in comment section

Suggesting a pre-nup? Bold move, let’s see how that goes

Commenter calls out OP’s immaturity and hypocrisy.

Internet strangers know better than divorced couple about marriage? ESH.
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Commenter calls out OP for negativity, gets reassured by replies

Commenter calls out echo chamber mentality in relationship choices.
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Discussing finances without marriage?

In-laws judging your relationship? What does your partner say?

Commenter called out for being in MRA territory

Commenter calls out OP for being easily offended

Commenter accuses man of wanting to ‘bone’ girlfriend, calls him YTA.

Man’s girlfriend’s family and himself are at fault. ♂️

Commenter calls out man for being insensitive about marriage expectations ♂️

Commenter calls out OP for ridiculous reasons not to marry girlfriend

Commenter questions OP’s red pill beliefs, sparks interesting debate

Commenter warns against legal risks of not getting married

Defending oneself against judgmental family, NTA but tread lightly.

Commenter calls out YTA for attacking girlfriend’s family

Redditor called out for letting strangers dictate his life choices

User challenges OP’s understanding of risks in committed relationships.

Marriage isn’t the only way to have a great partnership ❤️

Commenter calls out OP for being scared, suggests prenup

Ask your GF, not Reddit, to avoid family drama.

Legal status of common-law marriage causes debate

Man defends himself against judgment, raises questions about marriage.

Man gets called out for projecting and making r**e statements

Commenter questions ‘freedoms men lose’ in relationship, sparking debate

Both sides have valid points, but communication could be improved

NTA for clapping back at gf’s family, but consider heart-to-heart with gf about long-term desires

Protecting yourself and your partner: NTA

Suggests ‘Domestic Partnerships’ for legal safety nets and estate control

Suggests prenup for protection, ring for girlfriend’s happiness

Man defends not getting married, insults girlfriend’s family. ESH

Commenter calls out OP for trust issues and lack of respect

NTA comment sparks debate on the downsides of marriage and gender roles

Defending against judgmental family, but questionable relationship boundaries

Sassy comment suggests concern over financial security

Prioritizing prenup and therapy can solve relationship fears. NTA.

User suggests prenup to protect from messy divorce

Nailed it! OP claps back at judgmental in-laws

Commenter called out for sexist remark.

Last Updated on June 2, 2023 by Diply Social Team