Imagine having a safe space to share your deepest thoughts and emotions, only to find out that someone has been spying on you all along! That’s exactly what happened to a 45-year-old man who had been in therapy for years. When he started noticing that his wife knew things he had only shared with his therapist, he decided to put her to the test.
Longtime Therapy Lover ️

Wife’s Suggestion

Suspicious Secrets ️

The Test Begins

Wife Takes the Bait

The Confession

Furious Fallout

Crossing the Line

Family’s Reaction

Career and Family Ruined?

Second Thoughts

A Divided Opinion
So, our protagonist exposed his wife’s betrayal and took action against both her and the therapist. But now, he’s facing backlash from his family, who think he’s overreacted. They all agree that his wife and her friend were in the wrong, but they believe that ruining a woman’s career and breaking up a family is too harsh. With everyone against him, he’s starting to doubt himself. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Therapist violated trust, NTA for lodging complaint. Find honest partner.
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NTA. Wife’s friend violated confidentiality, you reported rightfully. Don’t blame yourself.

Therapist broke rules, wife violated trust, and therapist ruined career.

INFO: Is divorce justified? Depends on overall marriage quality.

Licensed therapist condemns unethical behavior of wife and therapist. NTA.

Breaking confidentiality is illegal. NTA for reminding her.

NTA’s justified response to wife’s trust violation

NTA: Wife violated client confidentiality, you didn’t ruin her career

Man catches wife spying on therapy, reports therapist, asks divorce.

Therapist betrayed client’s trust by sharing confidential information with spouse

Supportive comment validates OP’s feelings and offers helpful advice.
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Ethical breach by therapist – NTA for seeking new therapist.

Never allow personal connections to be your therapist, NTA for suing.
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NTA. Wife’s friend was unethical. Talk it out, save marriage.

Doubting the authenticity of therapy betrayal stories

NTA OP’s wife suggested friend to spy on therapy sessions

Encouraging comment to disclose past experiences to therapists for better therapy.

Ex-therapist and wife broke trust, NTA for feeling betrayed

Ethical violation by therapist, commenter supports OP. NTA

Therapist’s betrayal and breach of trust. NTA.

Therapist’s mistake reveals untrustworthy wife and family (NTA) ♂️

Therapist’s confidentiality is important. NTA for seeking divorce.

User suggests getting a new therapist and divorce. Cut ties.

Respect for patient-doctor confidentiality. Therapist should be disbarred.

Betrayed by wife and therapist during therapy sessions. NTA.

Standing up for yourself against betrayal. NTA.

Wife violates therapy confidentiality, husband not at fault.

Maintaining professional boundaries is crucial in therapy. NTA.

Therapist’s breach of confidentiality earns her a verdict. NTA.

Therapy is a safe space, not for spying

Wife invades husband’s privacy during therapy, gets what she deserves.

Confidentiality is key in therapy. Report the faulty therapist ⚖️

Therapist-patient confidentiality broken? NTA for feeling violated.

Rebuilding trust with wife > sticking with therapist. NTA.

HIPAA laws were broken. NTA for feeling betrayed

Spouse caught spying on therapy, commenter applauds NTA’s actions

Therapist’s betrayal sparks need for couples counseling. NTA.

Report your wife’s friend for violating HIPPA laws

Supportive mental health worker validates OP and condemns wife’s actions.

Be careful who you trust with your therapy sessions

Patient confidentiality violated by wife. NTA for being upset.

Therapist’s breach of ethics and wife’s breach of trust. NTA.

NTA! Justified anger towards therapist and wife’s betrayal.

Wife’s breach of trust and law, NTA for reporting.

Respect the therapist/client relationship. NTA. Stay safe.

NTA for reporting therapist’s violation of ethics, wife violated privacy.

Therapist and spouse’s actions deemed unethical by commenter. NTA.
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Therapist’s conflict of interest? NTA for catching wife spying

Reporting wife for breaking confidentiality? NTA indeed!
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Betrayal of trust is a dealbreaker. NTA for leaving.

Wife crosses the line, friend faces consequences. NTA wins.

Supportive comment applauds reporting therapist, offers advice on marriage.

NTA commenter defends man’s right to privacy in therapy sessions.

Therapist breached confidentiality, wife spied. NTA, divorce reasonable.

NTA. Therapist is worse, wife’s actions despicable but relationship salvageable?

Reporting her was the right thing to do. NTA

Spouse violated professional standards, NTA for catching and divorcing.

Therapist breached confidentiality, wife had ulterior motives. NTA.

Man catches wife spying on therapy sessions, therapist reported. NTA.

Therapist crossed the line, wife broke trust. NTA.

Therapist violating confidentiality? NTA for catching her spying.

Therapist breaks confidentiality, wife betrays trust. NTA for reporting.

Wife’s betrayal raises ethical concerns about therapist’s profession. NTA.

Trust is key in a relationship

Trust is crucial in therapy, NTA for feeling betrayed

Therapist violated HIPPA for a friend. NTA to the nth degree.

Spouse caught spying on therapy session, commenter supports divorce and justice
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Therapist’s breach of ethics leads to manipulative wife’s exposure

Wife spies on therapy, husband catches her, NTA verdict.

Spouse caught spying on therapy session, commenter supports OP’s decision.

Last Updated on February 16, 2024 by Diply Social Team