Imagine struggling to conceive for years, only to be surrounded by family members who seem to have no problem having children. That’s what happened to one couple, who found themselves at a family dinner where the conversation turned to babies and pregnancies. The wife, still reeling from a recent miscarriage, was left in tears as her husband’s mother and sister chatted away about their own growing families. The husband, feeling protective of his wife, confronted his mother about her insensitivity. But was he in the wrong? Let’s dive into the story.
A Couple’s Struggle to Conceive

Mother’s Growing Family

Surrogacy and Adoption Considered

Another Heartbreaking Miscarriage

The Family Dinner ️

Pregnancy Announcements and Baby Talk ️

Sara’s Emotional Exit

Mother’s Accusations

Confronting Mom

The Misleading Dinner Invitation

Called an Asshole

The Real Reason for the Dinner

Was He Wrong to Call Out His Mom?
This heart-wrenching story of a couple’s struggle to conceive and their family’s insensitivity has left many people debating who’s in the wrong. The husband, feeling protective of his wife, confronted his mother about her insensitivity and was called an ‘asshole’ for not appreciating the new life being born. Was he wrong to call out his mom, or was she truly out of line? Let’s see what people think about this emotional situation…
Family manipulates and lies to sabotage OP’s surrogacy plans and hurt wife. NTA.

NTA. Mom and sister declined surrogacy, then bragged about pregnancies.

Mother and sister’s baby talk at dinner after miscarriage is cruel

Commenters agree: NTA. Family was insensitive and rude

Mom and sister announce pregnancy at miscarriage dinner? Cruelty level

Insensitive pregnancy announcement causes pain and drama

Commenter warns OP to stay away from toxic family members

Heartbreaking miscarriage announcement ruined by cruel baby talk. NTA.

Encouragement to cut off toxic family and find alternative solutions

Defending wife’s feelings, OP calls out mom’s insensitive behavior

Heartbreaking experiences of miscarriage shared, support for husband’s stance.

Toxic families can be tough. Moving away might be best.

Supportive comment calls out insensitive behavior. NTA

Commenter suggests surrogacy after family’s insensitivity.

Commenter suspects in-laws planned pregnancy, supports OP.

Commenter sympathizes with OP and suggests going low contact.

Empathetic comment supports surrogacy and acknowledges pain of miscarriage.

Setting boundaries with family after insensitive conversation about miscarriage.

Insensitive ‘baby talk’ at dinner after miscarriage, NTA calls out.

Commenter calls out mom’s behavior as sociopathic

Commenter defends OP and criticizes mom’s behavior as ‘psycho’

Commenter sympathizes with OP but slams family’s behavior

Insensitive dinner leads to justified call-out and support for wife

Commenter calls out mom and sister for cruelty after miscarriage.

Commenter sympathizes with OP after wife’s miscarriage.

User suggests extreme action against insensitive family members.

Supportive comment encourages considering surrogate despite family’s opinions

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s situation and questions if they were wronged.

Mom lied about the dinner’s purpose, NTA for calling her out

Supportive comment suggests surrogacy after insensitive ‘baby talk’ incident.

Supportive comment highlights potential issues with judgmental in-laws.

Commenter receives NTA judgment for calling out insensitive behavior.

Cutting off toxic family members: NTA’s response strikes a chord

Mother and sister’s insensitivity towards miscarriage causes outrage. NTA.

Age shouldn’t be a factor for insensitive comments. ♂️

Supportive comment, encouraging couple to block toxic families and have baby

Support for couple after insensitive ‘baby talk’ at dinner

Commenter criticizes mother’s overpopulation and supports OP.
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Commenter sympathizes with man’s frustration over insensitive conversation.

Encouragement for surrogacy with legal caution.

Family not supportive of surrogacy. NTA for calling out mom.

Insensitive family pressures couple to have children, NTA for supporting wife.

Supportive comment applauds standing up for wife after miscarriage

Navigating family dynamics after a miscarriage. ♂️

Supportive comment suggests revisiting surrogacy decision after miscarriage trauma

Supportive comment advises taking a break from toxic family members

Protect your wife and cut off toxic family members.

User shares personal fertility struggles and advises seeking thorough investigation.
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Commenter sympathizes with OP’s wife and calls out cruel family members.

Savage response to insensitive ‘baby talk’ after miscarriage

Protect your wife from toxic ‘baby talk’ after miscarriage.

Adopting a child is about love, not DNA. NTA.

NTA. Manipulative family members refuse to help and lie about pregnancy.

Insensitive ‘baby talk’ at dinner after miscarriage. Cut them out. NTA.

Insensitive ‘baby talk’ leads to family feud. NTA stands strong.

Empowering response to taking control of your own family planning.

Commenter questions religious affiliation after NTA judgement

Protect your wife from cruel family members. NTA

Supportive comment urges couple to seek counseling and consider alternatives.

Commenter suggests extreme action after insensitive behavior by family.

Supportive comment offers encouragement and baby dust to grieving couple

Support and empathy for a couple struggling with infertility. Reminder to use inclusive language when discussing adoption.

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s situation and deems him NTA

Surrogacy is a beautiful option for having a biological child

Commenter calls out OP for not protecting his wife’s emotions

Mom and sis demand apology after insensitive ‘baby talk’. NTA.

Struggling with miscarriage, dinner turned into a baby party. NTA.
