We’ve all been there – caught in the crossfire of someone else’s drama. But what happens when that drama starts to invade your personal space? One man found himself in this exact situation when his girlfriend began inviting his friend’s ex-wife over to their house after a nasty divorce. Now, he’s had enough and decided to put his foot down, but is he in the wrong? Let’s dive into this messy situation and find out!
The Nasty Divorce

Reasons for the Split

The Financial Fallout

Not Exactly Struggling

Unexpected Friendship

Girlfriend’s Opinion ️

Passive-Aggressive Behavior

Heated Arguments

Whose House?

Girlfriend’s Living Situation ️

The Ultimate Question ❓

Drama Invades His Home
So here’s the situation: our protagonist’s friend Anthony went through a nasty divorce with Carly, and now his girlfriend has become friends with Carly. The girlfriend keeps bringing Carly over to their house, causing tension and arguments. To make matters worse, our protagonist is the one who owns the house, and his girlfriend is staying there because her lease ended. Now he’s wondering if he’s in the wrong for banning Carly from coming over. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this drama-filled situation…
Girlfriend calls out boyfriend’s friend for mistreating ex-wife. YTA.

Girlfriend’s friend’s ex-wife is off-limits, YTA.

User calls out OP for being controlling and hypocritical

Friend defends cheater, gets upset when ex-wife isn’t friendly ♂️

Relationship advice: When to call it quits?

User calls out OP for being selfish and entitled.

GF calls out OP’s lack of empathy for friend’s ex-wife.
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Friend’s ex-wife drama reveals character flaws. Yikes

Confusion over friend’s divorce and pursuit of other women.

User calls out OP for lack of empathy towards friend’s ex-wife and child.

Enabling a friend’s poor treatment of his child’s mother? YTA

GF’s friend’s ex-husband is a jerk, YTA for banning her friend.

Dumping you for condoning vile behavior. YTA

Red flag alert! Commenter calls out OP’s problematic behavior

Friend or Foe? Boyfriend’s jealousy causes rift with girlfriend’s friend.

Capitalization of MY in MY house? YTA according to commenter.

YTA for banning girlfriend’s guest, consider asking her to leave

Controlling behavior gets YTA verdict

ESH commenter calls out OP for trying to control girlfriend’s guests

Curious if Anthony is a dad or just a rich kid?

Relationship doomed due to friend’s drama and incompatible values.

Petty girlfriend and friend’s infidelity lead to AH behavior. ESH.

You can’t control who your girlfriend invites over. YTA.

Debate over house ownership and landlord-tenant relationship

A messy drama with trust issues and unclear boundaries.

Banning friend’s ex-wife from house causes conflict. ESH.

User calls out man’s poor character and lack of moral compass

Entitled person brags about paying own utilities in gifted condo

User calls out OP for being an a**hole and supporting toxic friend.

Respect OP’s wishes for his home, NTA.

Man defends cheating friend and bans girlfriend from inviting ex-wife over

A warning to the girlfriend of controlling behavior

Listen to your girlfriend, even if your friend is terrible

User calls out OP for lacking empathy and having questionable morals

Friend’s emotional infidelity forgiven, but ex-wife is the problem? YTA

Man bans girlfriend from inviting friend’s ex-wife over. Commenter calls out friend’s poor parenting and questions OP’s friendship.

NTA for banning girlfriend’s friend’s ex-wife from temporary stay

GF should pay rent, but YTA for banning her friend’s ex-wife

YTA for banning girlfriend from inviting friend’s ex-wife over.

User calls out nepotism and advises OP to end relationship.

User calls out controlling behavior, deems OP YTA.

Off-topic comment, but raises important issue of minimum wage

Harsh reply to defending cheating friend. YTA.
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ESH for associating with a cheater and excusing his behavior. GF for bringing the ex around despite your discomfort.

Navigating friend’s exes is tricky, but banning is a no-go. ESH.

Clear boundaries set by commenter, no room for negotiation

Partner and friend both have issues, girlfriend stirring drama

Man gets called out for being a bad friend and partner

A messy situation with everyone being an a**hole ♀️

A judgmental ESH comment with a hint of skepticism

Friend’s ex-wife drama leads to harsh judgment in comments.

User calls out man for being friends with a terrible person.

ESH for not handling the situation maturely ♂️

A scathing comment calling out a man’s lack of responsibility

Redditors call out poster for being entitled and YTA.

Sassy comment calls out OP for being obtuse and controlling

User calls out man for being controlling and hypocritical.

User calls out man’s hypocrisy and predicts girlfriend’s breakup
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User calls out man for hypocrisy and broken moral compass

Strongly worded comment calls out AH behavior.

GF invites friend’s ex-wife over, risking relationship and drama

Protect your peace Stand up for your boundaries

YTA cheats on pregnant gf, withholds child support, and is selfish.

ESH. Girlfriend and boyfriend need to set ground rules

Fiery comment calls out OP’s lack of integrity and respect.

NTA shuts down drama and haters, celebrates gifted house

Choosing friends wisely is important. YTA for not understanding that.

OP is called out for hanging out with a morally bankrupt friend. YTA

User calls out OP and GF, advises to stay out of friend’s drama.

Man gets called out for being controlling and supporting cheaters

Debate over whether man can ban girlfriend’s guest from his house. YTA.
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GF’s boyfriend gets called out for being controlling. YTA

User calls out OP’s double standards in defending cheating friend. YTA

Savage comment calls out spoiled boyfriend and cheating friend

ESH. Friend is AH for discarding family, GF for being passive-aggressive.

Both sides have faults, but OP’s attitude needs work ♂️
